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Farzine
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 14, 2013 8:03 pm


What's your take on fighting with your significant lover? Is it healthy? Is it needed to be able to have a successful relationship?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 15, 2013 5:38 am


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What's your take on fighting with your significant lover? Is it healthy? Is it needed to be able to have a successful relationship?

well it depends what kind of fighting and how often, if you have disagreements or screaming fits about once every couple weeks or so then it's fairly normal but if it's everyday and it always seems like yelling then its definately something you should look into to solve the real problem

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 2:40 pm


Fighting is what ended my parents marriage. I'd say that every once in a while us normal, we're all human...
PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 3:12 pm


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What's your take on fighting with your significant lover? Is it healthy? Is it needed to be able to have a successful relationship?

well it depends what kind of fighting and how often, if you have disagreements or screaming fits about once every couple weeks or so then it's fairly normal but if it's everyday and it always seems like yelling then its definately something you should look into to solve the real problem


Mhm. I agree with you there. Little fights and bickers are very healthy for a relationship, I'd be worried if I never fought with my SO. >_<
This was more of a hypothetical question brought on after reading ahead in my psychology book. xD
My parents fought quite a bit when I was younger, but it decreased as I entered high school. Then one day, my mom packed her bags and left us all. She didn't talk to my brother and I for about a year until she realized she was a bit rash and started talking to us again. Took them about a year to finally get divorced. I was much, much happier when she left. rolleyes ///rant///

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 3:14 pm


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Fighting is what ended my parents marriage. I'd say that every once in a while us normal, we're all human...


Same here, but I think it was for the best. My mom is a party-goer and my dad is a pastor. Not a great mix if you ask me. I always wondered why they got married in the first place... sweatdrop
PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2013 3:44 pm


Farzine
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Fighting is what ended my parents marriage. I'd say that every once in a while us normal, we're all human...


Same here, but I think it was for the best. My mom is a party-goer and my dad is a pastor. Not a great mix if you ask me. I always wondered why they got married in the first place... sweatdrop

They probably should've thought of that beforehand. But if they live each other... That's what matters.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2013 1:34 pm


As long as it doesn't become too much, I suppose it's healthy. It's probably better to let your feelings be known, instead of bottling them up. Every normal relationship should have a challenge, and fighting could be one. That's my opinion I guess...
PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2013 2:15 am


Well, I don't think fighting is a good thing in general, but I think there will be fights when in a relationship with someone. It's going to happen, at some point.  

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