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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 8:14 am
I have a hard time concetrating during meditation, and cannot get really into it. Its annoying. Havn't been able to do it for more than 5 minutes either. Anyone have any Ideas?
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 10:44 am
Well, there are two common techniques I use. The first, and probably most widely used technique is to record a guided meditation on tape or cd or whatever and then play it back. It gives you focus for your meditation without actually having to remember the meditation (because nothing breaks you out of a meditation faster than forgetting what you're meditating on).
Another method is to do what I consider a focus meditation. Find some object (I like to use candles or stones) and just focus on it for as long as you can. It has a completely different purpose from the guided meditation. But I find it can be helpful if you're having a hard time focusing or ignoring outside distractions.
If you're worried about the amount of time you can spend meditating, it's okay to start small, and build up. Do five minutes at a time until your body and spirit are accustomed to meditating. After awhile, you'll find that you'll be able to meditate for longer periods of time, and you won't even realize it.
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 10:49 am
i have trouble meditating for very long, too. i like to listen to music while i meditate, usually classical music because it's less distracting without words.
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 3:56 pm
I light a candle and stare at the flame... and after I have focused on it for sometime... I concentrate on what I need to meditate on. I never really pay attention to how long, because I'm ADD, so I figure The better I can meditate in a short period of time the better it will be, because If I try to do it for long periods of time I get sidetraked.
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 4:08 pm
All I can say is practice, practice, practice. You get better at it as you go along. No one can meditate for a half an hour on their first couple of ttries (or at least, I'm pretty sure sweatdrop ). I like guided meditations a lot, personally.
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 6:12 pm
i've never tried a guided meditation before. how do they work?
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Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 8:06 pm
Well... for a guided meditation, someone (in person or via recording), tells you what to meditate on. Sometimes it's a spiritual journey, and sometimes the focus is more on you, here and now. It helps because then you aren't just sitting there with nothing... your meditation has a focus. Here is a very common example of a guided meditation that many people use to help them with grounding. Although there are many versions of this meditation, this particular one is from the book "All One Wicca" by Kaatryn MacMorgan. Quote: Lie flat on your back in a field, if you do not have access to a field, lay on a floor and first visualize through the steel, wood and concrete. Feel yourself falling until you are lying in the dust below your foundation, and "Touch" the permeable earth that's there.... Reach through the earth into the tiny worm holes permeating the soil. Feel each nerve on your finger extend forward like a root hair system. You cannot move your fingers. The creatures of the soil, things you once feared perhaps, pass over you, through the strands of your hair. Your hair grows impossibly fast, rooting itself to the ground, entangling itself with your fingers. You cannot move your head... An energy tingles in your chest, and all the stresses and anxieties grow out as roots through your body and hairs, strengthening you, reaching miles and miles down to an underground lake. You feel from above as each root plunges into the earthwarmed water, and as the very last root plunges in, you feel a bitter cold taking over the rest of you, trying to suck every inch of warmth from your bones. You feel the cold sucked through the rest of your body toward the roots, heat slowly returning to your face. You see the cold sucked into the water, forming a silverish slick which bubbles slowly as the pure water milks it from your roots. A wind springs up in the underground cavern, twisting the ends of your roots and tossing the silver about frantically, painting the walls with it and throwing your roots around viciously. Only the knarled roots of your worries are affected, twisting, bending, but never breaking, still holding you as firm as you need. Without warning, the wind subsides. The silver light covers everything except the water, which is clear once more. The rocks, your roots, even the walls of the cavern all glow with the light. The warmth of the lake pushes into you, replacing what the storm drained. You feel the pulse of the water, though you...though the earth...the beat rushes through every inch of you, and you begin to notice the light flowing, moving with the pulse, slowly creeping toward you. A closer look shows the silver light to be thousands of bioluminescent creatures, no larger than fleas, and they swarm silently to you, covering you in a living, pulsing shield. A column of steam rises from the water, and you feel the heat blocked by the creatures. They melt into every inch of you as the steam and water buffet you, keeping you from burning and tempering into a solid coat of light. Your stresses thus transmuted, the steam stops, and your roots slowly retract, bringing the light into your body...you feel it just beneath the skin, a tingle of deeper strength. As you open your eyes, you know it's there...you are aware of the difference, and this feeling, this memory is forever. You are changed...you are grounded. Since this is a lot to remember while meditating (and frustrating to forget in mid-meditation), many people who have less meditation experience will record themselves reading the meditation, and then play it back during actual meditation. Otherwise, often in group meditation, one person will lead the meditation and read it. If you take the recording route, be sure to speak slowly enough for an effective meditation. Don't rush.
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Posted: Thu Feb 24, 2005 10:07 am
wow, thanks! that's really neat, i think im going to try that. thanks! biggrin
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Posted: Thu Feb 24, 2005 10:15 am
wow... these are really good ideas, thank you guys!!
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Posted: Thu Feb 24, 2005 1:16 pm
Yumiko_Yoshihana wow... these are really good ideas, thank you guys!! I know there is another topic somewhere that might have a few more suggestions about meditation, trythe second page? Alright, well most of the really helpful ideas that I can think of have been said but I like to listen to a nature CD, candles and tryto meditate around the same time each day. That way your body will learn to throw a break from life into your daily routine and it might not be so hard.
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 10:51 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 5:43 am
I bought a book on Zen meditation once (and i really need to finish that), and I remember they were talking about how to sit. The most reccomended is the full-lotus position, where you sit with you feet on your knees or something. I couldn't do that if my life depended on it. Half-lotus position is sitting cross-legged and is considered unbalanced, and not really reccomended. I sit with my legs folded under me, and sit up straight, or I'll lay down on my back. When I'm laying on my back, i'll put a quartz crystal high on my forehead to stimulate my crown chakra and all that fun stuff. Anyway, that's what I do. I myself am not that great at meditations, I can keep it up for one or two minutes, but that's all. I'll try one of those focus meditations, though. Also, back in the samurai days, samurai would arrange flowers or write long bits of calligraphy and focus only on that. It was actually a type of meditation. Th calligraphy isn't for anyone, but you can always go out and buy or pick a boquet of flowers, and arrange them in a vase.
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 6:21 am
I actually like to focus on a crystal or tea bubbles. They help me to focus enough on the meditation itself, but without being distractive enough to detract from the meditation itself.
I usually just lean against a wall or my bed...if I try to sit in the lotus or indian-style position, my legs tend to go to sleep. One time, the phone rang and I bounced up to get it...with both legs asleep, I got up, but smacked into the ground b/c neither leg would support me. xd
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 10:37 am
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Posted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 2:39 pm
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