It's not always like that, but it can be. Are your friends against you liking girls? If so, find new friends. I know it's hard, but it's easier to find friends when you're younger than it is when you're older - especially once you're out of college. Find people who accept you for who you are. If the place you're living has few accepting, open minded people, then find friends online. Online friends give you people to talk to, rant to, confide in; you can find people to help you keep moving until you find yourself a better setting in which you can be who you are.

How long have you come out to your family? It'll be different for them, just like it is for you when you came out. Give them time to adjust. When I came out to my mother she was more than pleased to tell everyone she knew I was gay, when I wasn't ready for that. It's annoying how she makes small jokes how I like titties rather than p***s. It's annoying... and in my opinion not a way a mother should talk to their daughter.. >< /rant sweatdrop

Anyway, if you need someone to talk to I'm sure there are a lot of people in this guild who would be willing to give you advice and be there for you - including myself. ^-^