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 Posted: Wed May 15, 2013 12:12 pm
I'm in college. In my life I have had crushes and feeling I thought were love. I always get hurt after each one. This time it's different. I don't want to call it love, I've made that mistake before, but it just feels different. There is this guy. I've been friends with him for a few years now. In fact, he lived with me all summer long last year, and currently right now I'm staying at his place. I like being with him. He is easy to live with. I like how he accepts me for who I am and wouldn't want me to change. He is the first person I have ever met who can handle living with me. He is goofy, weird, and a perfect gentleman. He has flaws, but I don't care. If anything I like him more for all of his flaws. We have similar opinions on things too. I can share my mind with him. He makes me want to be a better person too. I've become much more nice and happier since I've been spending time with him. It's a noticeable difference by everyone.
He has had feeling for me in the past, but now I think he doesn't anymore. I'm afraid if I say anything I may ruin our friendship. He is my best friend; I don't want to lose him. What do I do?
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Posted: Wed May 15, 2013 8:58 pm
Demonique Affection I'm in college. In my life I have had crushes and feeling I thought were love. I always get hurt after each one. This time it's different. I don't want to call it love, I've made that mistake before, but it just feels different. There is this guy. I've been friends with him for a few years now. In fact, he lived with me all summer long last year, and currently right now I'm staying at his place. I like being with him. He is easy to live with. I like how he accepts me for who I am and wouldn't want me to change. He is the first person I have ever met who can handle living with me. He is goofy, weird, and a perfect gentleman. He has flaws, but I don't care. If anything I like him more for all of his flaws. We have similar opinions on things too. I can share my mind with him. He makes me want to be a better person too. I've become much more nice and happier since I've been spending time with him. It's a noticeable difference by everyone. He has had feeling for me in the past, but now I think he doesn't anymore. I'm afraid if I say anything I may ruin our friendship. He is my best friend; I don't want to lose him. What do I do? I don't see why he would turn down giving a relationship with you a try - especially since he pondered the possibility of dating you in the past. Ask him about how he feels about starting up a relationship... and then mention it would be a relationship with you. Share your thoughts on it too. That's what I would do. smile
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Posted: Thu May 16, 2013 11:07 am
retro_rage Demonique Affection I'm in college. In my life I have had crushes and feeling I thought were love. I always get hurt after each one. This time it's different. I don't want to call it love, I've made that mistake before, but it just feels different. There is this guy. I've been friends with him for a few years now. In fact, he lived with me all summer long last year, and currently right now I'm staying at his place. I like being with him. He is easy to live with. I like how he accepts me for who I am and wouldn't want me to change. He is the first person I have ever met who can handle living with me. He is goofy, weird, and a perfect gentleman. He has flaws, but I don't care. If anything I like him more for all of his flaws. We have similar opinions on things too. I can share my mind with him. He makes me want to be a better person too. I've become much more nice and happier since I've been spending time with him. It's a noticeable difference by everyone. Thanks, but that's still pretty scary. He has had feeling for me in the past, but now I think he doesn't anymore. I'm afraid if I say anything I may ruin our friendship. He is my best friend; I don't want to lose him. What do I do? I don't see why he would turn down giving a relationship with you a try - especially since he pondered the possibility of dating you in the past. Ask him about how he feels about starting up a relationship... and then mention it would be a relationship with you. Share your thoughts on it too. That's what I would do. smile
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Posted: Thu May 16, 2013 11:59 am
Demonique Affection retro_rage Demonique Affection I'm in college. In my life I have had crushes and feeling I thought were love. I always get hurt after each one. This time it's different. I don't want to call it love, I've made that mistake before, but it just feels different. There is this guy. I've been friends with him for a few years now. In fact, he lived with me all summer long last year, and currently right now I'm staying at his place. I like being with him. He is easy to live with. I like how he accepts me for who I am and wouldn't want me to change. He is the first person I have ever met who can handle living with me. He is goofy, weird, and a perfect gentleman. He has flaws, but I don't care. If anything I like him more for all of his flaws. We have similar opinions on things too. I can share my mind with him. He makes me want to be a better person too. I've become much more nice and happier since I've been spending time with him. It's a noticeable difference by everyone. Thanks, but that's still pretty scary. He has had feeling for me in the past, but now I think he doesn't anymore. I'm afraid if I say anything I may ruin our friendship. He is my best friend; I don't want to lose him. What do I do? I don't see why he would turn down giving a relationship with you a try - especially since he pondered the possibility of dating you in the past. Ask him about how he feels about starting up a relationship... and then mention it would be a relationship with you. Share your thoughts on it too. That's what I would do. smile Why do you think that he is no longer interested in seeing you? If you two are open with your feelings and share personal information with each-other then you telling him that you like him will be just another personal thing you share - and if he doesn't want to start anything up then smooth things over by accepting his wishes. My point is that if you both are best friends, then you both will work through whatever happens together, because you both rely on each-other emotionally and financially ,and you both are fond of each-other's company.
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Posted: Thu May 16, 2013 1:01 pm
retro_rage Demonique Affection retro_rage Demonique Affection I'm in college. In my life I have had crushes and feeling I thought were love. I always get hurt after each one. This time it's different. I don't want to call it love, I've made that mistake before, but it just feels different. There is this guy. I've been friends with him for a few years now. In fact, he lived with me all summer long last year, and currently right now I'm staying at his place. I like being with him. He is easy to live with. I like how he accepts me for who I am and wouldn't want me to change. He is the first person I have ever met who can handle living with me. He is goofy, weird, and a perfect gentleman. He has flaws, but I don't care. If anything I like him more for all of his flaws. We have similar opinions on things too. I can share my mind with him. He makes me want to be a better person too. I've become much more nice and happier since I've been spending time with him. It's a noticeable difference by everyone. Thanks, but that's still pretty scary. He has had feeling for me in the past, but now I think he doesn't anymore. I'm afraid if I say anything I may ruin our friendship. He is my best friend; I don't want to lose him. What do I do? I don't see why he would turn down giving a relationship with you a try - especially since he pondered the possibility of dating you in the past. Ask him about how he feels about starting up a relationship... and then mention it would be a relationship with you. Share your thoughts on it too. That's what I would do. smile Why do you think that he is no longer interested in seeing you? If you two are open with your feelings and share personal information with each-other then you telling him that you like him will be just another personal thing you share - and if he doesn't want to start anything up then smooth things over by accepting his wishes. My point is that if you both are best friends, then you both will work through whatever happens together, because you both rely on each-other emotionally and financially ,and you both are fond of each-other's company. Thanks for that. I'll try. biggrin
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Posted: Thu May 16, 2013 8:24 pm
Demonique Affection retro_rage Demonique Affection retro_rage Demonique Affection I'm in college. In my life I have had crushes and feeling I thought were love. I always get hurt after each one. This time it's different. I don't want to call it love, I've made that mistake before, but it just feels different. There is this guy. I've been friends with him for a few years now. In fact, he lived with me all summer long last year, and currently right now I'm staying at his place. I like being with him. He is easy to live with. I like how he accepts me for who I am and wouldn't want me to change. He is the first person I have ever met who can handle living with me. He is goofy, weird, and a perfect gentleman. He has flaws, but I don't care. If anything I like him more for all of his flaws. We have similar opinions on things too. I can share my mind with him. He makes me want to be a better person too. I've become much more nice and happier since I've been spending time with him. It's a noticeable difference by everyone. Thanks, but that's still pretty scary. He has had feeling for me in the past, but now I think he doesn't anymore. I'm afraid if I say anything I may ruin our friendship. He is my best friend; I don't want to lose him. What do I do? I don't see why he would turn down giving a relationship with you a try - especially since he pondered the possibility of dating you in the past. Ask him about how he feels about starting up a relationship... and then mention it would be a relationship with you. Share your thoughts on it too. That's what I would do. smile Why do you think that he is no longer interested in seeing you? If you two are open with your feelings and share personal information with each-other then you telling him that you like him will be just another personal thing you share - and if he doesn't want to start anything up then smooth things over by accepting his wishes. My point is that if you both are best friends, then you both will work through whatever happens together, because you both rely on each-other emotionally and financially ,and you both are fond of each-other's company. Thanks for that. I'll try. biggrin You're welcome, I'm glad I could help. smile Thanks for the gift! emotion_c8
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