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 Posted: Sat Jul 06, 2013 2:04 pm
so guys i have been and still am telling people that I'm bi but it feels like the more i come out the more gay i feel...I haven't been thinking about guys very much the last few months.but saying that I am 100% sure I will never fall in love with a guy again is a really big commitment for a 17 year old and that idea scares me.especially since i have a freind who is always changing her sexual oreintation and since it annoys me when she does it i assume it will annoy people if I do that. could it be that I'm really a lesbian? should I tell people now or wait and see if this lasts?
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Posted: Sat Jul 06, 2013 10:11 pm
lucairo012 so guys i have been and still am telling people that I'm bi but it feels like the more i come out the more gay i feel...I haven't been thinking about guys very much the last few months.but saying that I am 100% sure I will never fall in love with a guy again is a really big commitment for a 17 year old and that idea scares me.especially since i have a freind who is always changing her sexual oreintation and since it annoys me when she does it i assume it will annoy people if I do that. could it be that I'm really a lesbian? should I tell people now or wait and see if this lasts? You know, I was having a problem like that. Kinda. Except I told only one person that I was bi... When I was about 14 or 15? It felt like a giant lie. I never really thought about guys like that. When I tried, I kinda felt sick. But now I'm also 17 and I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian. Even though both of my mom and *cough* biological father *cough* think I might be bi. Which is annoying. I don't have a friend that's like that, thank goodness! All I can really say is see what happens. If you don't feel comfortable telling yet, then don't. I've been having thoughts about me being a lesbian that go back to when I was 12... Maybe younger. So it's probably more difficult for you. Whatever feels right to you.
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Posted: Sun Jul 07, 2013 6:55 am
ShiningStar KiraKira lucairo012 so guys i have been and still am telling people that I'm bi but it feels like the more i come out the more gay i feel...I haven't been thinking about guys very much the last few months.but saying that I am 100% sure I will never fall in love with a guy again is a really big commitment for a 17 year old and that idea scares me.especially since i have a freind who is always changing her sexual oreintation and since it annoys me when she does it i assume it will annoy people if I do that. could it be that I'm really a lesbian? should I tell people now or wait and see if this lasts? You know, I was having a problem like that. Kinda. Except I told only one person that I was bi... When I was about 14 or 15? It felt like a giant lie. I never really thought about guys like that. When I tried, I kinda felt sick. But now I'm also 17 and I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian. Even though both of my mom and *cough* biological father *cough* think I might be bi. Which is annoying. I don't have a friend that's like that, thank goodness! All I can really say is see what happens. If you don't feel comfortable telling yet, then don't. I've been having thoughts about me being a lesbian that go back to when I was 12... Maybe younger. So it's probably more difficult for you. Whatever feels right to you. I actually did used to have crushes on guys ...I spent most of my middle school career chasing them..I just haven't really been into them lately.
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Posted: Sun Jul 07, 2013 10:42 am
lucairo012 ShiningStar KiraKira lucairo012 so guys i have been and still am telling people that I'm bi but it feels like the more i come out the more gay i feel...I haven't been thinking about guys very much the last few months.but saying that I am 100% sure I will never fall in love with a guy again is a really big commitment for a 17 year old and that idea scares me.especially since i have a freind who is always changing her sexual oreintation and since it annoys me when she does it i assume it will annoy people if I do that. could it be that I'm really a lesbian? should I tell people now or wait and see if this lasts? You know, I was having a problem like that. Kinda. Except I told only one person that I was bi... When I was about 14 or 15? It felt like a giant lie. I never really thought about guys like that. When I tried, I kinda felt sick. But now I'm also 17 and I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian. Even though both of my mom and *cough* biological father *cough* think I might be bi. Which is annoying. I don't have a friend that's like that, thank goodness! All I can really say is see what happens. If you don't feel comfortable telling yet, then don't. I've been having thoughts about me being a lesbian that go back to when I was 12... Maybe younger. So it's probably more difficult for you. Whatever feels right to you. I actually did used to have crushes on guys ...I spent most of my middle school career chasing them..I just haven't really been into them lately. Hmm... I'm not sure what to say. Maybe it's because they're all starting up look like monkeys?
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Posted: Sun Jul 07, 2013 11:08 am
ShiningStar KiraKira lucairo012 ShiningStar KiraKira lucairo012 so guys i have been and still am telling people that I'm bi but it feels like the more i come out the more gay i feel...I haven't been thinking about guys very much the last few months.but saying that I am 100% sure I will never fall in love with a guy again is a really big commitment for a 17 year old and that idea scares me.especially since i have a freind who is always changing her sexual oreintation and since it annoys me when she does it i assume it will annoy people if I do that. could it be that I'm really a lesbian? should I tell people now or wait and see if this lasts? You know, I was having a problem like that. Kinda. Except I told only one person that I was bi... When I was about 14 or 15? It felt like a giant lie. I never really thought about guys like that. When I tried, I kinda felt sick. But now I'm also 17 and I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian. Even though both of my mom and *cough* biological father *cough* think I might be bi. Which is annoying. I don't have a friend that's like that, thank goodness! All I can really say is see what happens. If you don't feel comfortable telling yet, then don't. I've been having thoughts about me being a lesbian that go back to when I was 12... Maybe younger. So it's probably more difficult for you. Whatever feels right to you. I actually did used to have crushes on guys ...I spent most of my middle school career chasing them..I just haven't really been into them lately. Hmm... I'm not sure what to say. Maybe it's because they're all starting up look like monkeys? most of the guys at my school are assholes..that's probably part of my problem
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Posted: Sun Jul 07, 2013 11:16 am
lucairo012 ShiningStar KiraKira lucairo012 ShiningStar KiraKira lucairo012 so guys i have been and still am telling people that I'm bi but it feels like the more i come out the more gay i feel...I haven't been thinking about guys very much the last few months.but saying that I am 100% sure I will never fall in love with a guy again is a really big commitment for a 17 year old and that idea scares me.especially since i have a freind who is always changing her sexual oreintation and since it annoys me when she does it i assume it will annoy people if I do that. could it be that I'm really a lesbian? should I tell people now or wait and see if this lasts? You know, I was having a problem like that. Kinda. Except I told only one person that I was bi... When I was about 14 or 15? It felt like a giant lie. I never really thought about guys like that. When I tried, I kinda felt sick. But now I'm also 17 and I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian. Even though both of my mom and *cough* biological father *cough* think I might be bi. Which is annoying. I don't have a friend that's like that, thank goodness! All I can really say is see what happens. If you don't feel comfortable telling yet, then don't. I've been having thoughts about me being a lesbian that go back to when I was 12... Maybe younger. So it's probably more difficult for you. Whatever feels right to you. I actually did used to have crushes on guys ...I spent most of my middle school career chasing them..I just haven't really been into them lately. Hmm... I'm not sure what to say. Maybe it's because they're all starting up look like monkeys? most of the guys at my school are assholes..that's probably part of my problem That wouldn't help much.
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