xoCharIie
So hey. <3
I'm new to gaia and to this guild and I was wondering if anyone had any advice.
See, I'm 17 and Bisexual, but I've never had a proper relationship. With anyone. I mean, I've had online relationships and relationships when I was 13 that didn't last very long. But I've been single for quite some time. Problem with me is, now that I'm older I've been getting more and more lonely and depressed because all I see at my college is couples and my bestfriend has a boyfriend and she always speaks about him and I just... Really want a boyfriend or girlfriend. But nobody even likes me. And I'm too shy to actually talk to people. :/ And I don't go anywhere other then college to meet others. ^^; so I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me to make myself more noticed and gain more confidence? Thanks in advance!! ^^
~Charlotte.
I would agree with Farzine here! (so if you read this, your advice was not bad!)
Your best bet, if you're shy especially, is asking your friend if she knows anyone who is interested in finding someone and then proceed to go on a double date! (also your safest bet)
Confidence wise.. I.. I struggle with it too but just recently confidence magically popped up for me (It wasn't magically I'm sure haha but .... I don't know where it came from). I think the best way to crawl towards having self confidence is writing out what good things there are about yourself! Also believing those things is another step. (Once I started to believe that I might be sort of kind of pretty my self-confidence started to climb, slowly but surely). I wish I could give you more advice o: But I hope some of my rambling words were of use!
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