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Posted: Tue Sep 17, 2013 12:11 pm

I recently came out to my girlfriend as being trans. at first, I was really relieved because she took it so well. But now I'm starting to think she's not taking me seriously. No matter how many times I ask her, she always calls me by masculine pronouns. and when we make out, she always says she wants "it", even though I've told her I'm not comfortable with that. I think she may not think I am serious about this. What do I do?

Posted: Tue Sep 17, 2013 12:29 pm

Hawthorne009

I recently came out to my girlfriend as being trans. at first, I was really relieved because she took it so well. But now I'm starting to think she's not taking me seriously. No matter how many times I ask her, she always calls me by masculine pronouns. and when we make out, she always says she wants "it", even though I've told her I'm not comfortable with that. I think she may not think I am serious about this. What do I do?

So, you're Male to Female trans, yes?
Well, if it were me I'd talk to her about it and tell her how serious you are about it. If she doesn't take you seriously or doesn't respect you as you are then it's not ment to be. vuv Good luck. <3

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Posted: Tue Sep 17, 2013 1:00 pm

Hawthorne009

I recently came out to my girlfriend as being trans. at first, I was really relieved because she took it so well. But now I'm starting to think she's not taking me seriously. No matter how many times I ask her, she always calls me by masculine pronouns. and when we make out, she always says she wants "it", even though I've told her I'm not comfortable with that. I think she may not think I am serious about this. What do I do?

I agree with what Charlie stated.
You need to sit your girlfriend down and tell her straight forward what you are comfortable with doing. You need to be completely open and straightforward because she may not completely understand. She may have an idea of what you want, but she may not know exactly what you want. Communicate clearly what you are willing to do and make sure she understands your needs.

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