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Iaminlovewithhim4ever

PostPosted: Sun Oct 06, 2013 8:49 am


what do I do when im bicurious?
PostPosted: Sun Oct 06, 2013 1:16 pm


To be honest, I'm not sure. I'll try to give the best advice I can, even though it'll be a but difficult since I've never really been 'bicurious'. Meaning, I've known I liked girls since puberty, but with boys it a bit different. Dunno. Anyways, the only way to find out, in my opinion, would be to try and have a relationship with a girl. Or at the very least, to talk to one of the more experienced women here. Which is, I'm telling you now, not me. I still haven't been in a single relationship yet.

We have this system that you may be interested and that would very likely help you in your discovery- depending on who you get. It's quite new and we're still trying to get enough people registered in order to match up. It's called ~friendship matchmaker~. For 'other', I would suggest you put something that goes along the lines of 'someone good at advice' or 'someone that could help me learn about my sexuality', things like that. If you do this, there's a good chance that you'll be matched with someone who can help you. The problem is, we don't have enough people yet as this is a brand new system. I hope this helped!

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 06, 2013 3:26 pm


I remember that stage, I myself happen to be bi. She's right though. The best way to figure out if you like girls as well as guys is to try it out. That means you have to get out there and socialize. It can get pretty difficult sometimes, but in my opinion it is well worth it.

Any more questions I can try to help as best I can. You can pm me or just quote me and ask. Sorry if this was of no help at all.
PostPosted: Sun Oct 06, 2013 10:57 pm


Iaminlovewithhim4ever
what do I do when im bicurious?


If you want advice you can always PM me.

Really, it depends where you are in your development. I don't want to suggest for you to go out and play the field if you're young, but really that may be the only way for you to figure out. That's how I went about it anyway.

My advice is to not worry about it and let yourself fall where you may. Just let whoever you go out with know that you're unsure of your sexuality, but don't make them think they're just an experiment. xD Which may be difficult.

When I dated my ex, which was a guy, I told him I was unsure if I was bi or not, and it turned out I was gay. I've never felt fully comfortable with a guy in any relationship I've had... it's just gross. I felt bad because he took it rather hard, but I did tell him upfront I was unsure. ><

But yeah, if you have any specific questions feel free to PM meh. c:

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Iaminlovewithhim4ever

PostPosted: Tue Oct 08, 2013 11:21 am


my boyfriend knows I am bicurious, and he doesn't mind it. I'm just confused on what I would do if I were with a female..... is that bad?
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