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 Posted: Tue Oct 29, 2013 12:56 pm
Ahah.. Yeah.
So...as the subforum and subject line suggest... I am in need of some advice.
To get things started, I have a sort of stalker. It's not bad enough for me to consider calling the police or to consider a restraining order or anything but it's definitely annoying.
The sort of stalker is a kid I knew when I went to church way way back and we first really had an encounter when he tried to light me on fire. No I'm not kidding. He really tried, like really hard. And of course I ran the heck away and hid behind my parents.
After that for a few years I didn't see him and of course now he happens to go to the same community college as I do and is in my chemistry class.
It's annoying because he stares at me all class (when he isn't sleeping and drooling on the lab table and when he isn't arguing with the teacher) and he has somehow found out which car I drive and has started parking ridiculously close to my car. At first I thought "oh well maybe he just parked here for a change today" and then the next time I went to class I parked in a different section and when I went out to my car his was right up against mine AGAIN.
He doesn't actually confront me directly but I have a feeling it's working it's way up there.
I don't really want to make a big deal out of it with my teachers or anything even though they tell us on a daily basis that if we are having trouble like that to inform someone.. I just don't know what to do or how I would handle it.
I have had some serious stalkers back in high school but at that point I had told my parents and they had talked to the high school director person about it and they wouldn't let the kid near me at all after that.
I've also had an ex boyfriend turn into a jealous-violent stalker and my family and I handled that with law stuffles.
But yeah. I don't know what to do.
This guy definitely has some problem, serious problems I would be willing to bet money on.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how they think I should handle this situation?
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Posted: Tue Oct 29, 2013 3:33 pm
I wouldn't be confident enough to do this, but I suggest confronting him yourself. Take control of the situation and let him know what he's doing is bothering you and if he does not stop you will get others involved - whether it be police or faculty.
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Posted: Tue Oct 29, 2013 10:12 pm
I'm sorry you have to deal with this! I don't know what to say...
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 8:50 am
Farzine I wouldn't be confident enough to do this, but I suggest confronting him yourself. Take control of the situation and let him know what he's doing is bothering you and if he does not stop you will get others involved - whether it be police or faculty. Yeah.. I'm considering that. Put on my "I don't take no s**t" face and go charging into battle! Though I'm afraid he's the type that if i were to confront his actions would only get worse and more confident. So I'm sort of torn.
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 3:10 pm
PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine I wouldn't be confident enough to do this, but I suggest confronting him yourself. Take control of the situation and let him know what he's doing is bothering you and if he does not stop you will get others involved - whether it be police or faculty. Yeah.. I'm considering that. Put on my "I don't take no s**t" face and go charging into battle! Though I'm afraid he's the type that if i were to confront his actions would only get worse and more confident. So I'm sort of torn. Too bad we can't see the future. ; n; From what you wrote, it sounds as though he is getting worse with you not taking action against him. Taking that into consideration, if you don't confront him, he will likely just keep getting more creepy. If you do confront him, you have a chance at averting his creepiness. Just make sure you're willing to go through with whatever you say, otherwise he won't take you seriously. >.<
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 4:57 pm
Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine I wouldn't be confident enough to do this, but I suggest confronting him yourself. Take control of the situation and let him know what he's doing is bothering you and if he does not stop you will get others involved - whether it be police or faculty. Yeah.. I'm considering that. Put on my "I don't take no s**t" face and go charging into battle! Though I'm afraid he's the type that if i were to confront his actions would only get worse and more confident. So I'm sort of torn. Too bad we can't see the future. ; n; From what you wrote, it sounds as though he is getting worse with you not taking action against him. Taking that into consideration, if you don't confront him, he will likely just keep getting more creepy. If you do confront him, you have a chance at averting his creepiness. Just make sure you're willing to go through with whatever you say, otherwise he won't take you seriously. >.< Well... -sigh- I talked to my parents about it and they say to just ignore him but if he gets even more aggressive that they'll contact his parents and tell them that he's acting out of line. And....I trust my parents on that....my family is not one you want to ******** with. Seriously... xD
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 5:58 pm
PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine I wouldn't be confident enough to do this, but I suggest confronting him yourself. Take control of the situation and let him know what he's doing is bothering you and if he does not stop you will get others involved - whether it be police or faculty. Yeah.. I'm considering that. Put on my "I don't take no s**t" face and go charging into battle! Though I'm afraid he's the type that if i were to confront his actions would only get worse and more confident. So I'm sort of torn. Too bad we can't see the future. ; n; From what you wrote, it sounds as though he is getting worse with you not taking action against him. Taking that into consideration, if you don't confront him, he will likely just keep getting more creepy. If you do confront him, you have a chance at averting his creepiness. Just make sure you're willing to go through with whatever you say, otherwise he won't take you seriously. >.< Well... -sigh- I talked to my parents about it and they say to just ignore him but if he gets even more aggressive that they'll contact his parents and tell them that he's acting out of line. And....I trust my parents on that....my family is not one you want to ******** with. Seriously... xD At least you have family to back you up. xD
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 6:01 pm
Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine I wouldn't be confident enough to do this, but I suggest confronting him yourself. Take control of the situation and let him know what he's doing is bothering you and if he does not stop you will get others involved - whether it be police or faculty. Yeah.. I'm considering that. Put on my "I don't take no s**t" face and go charging into battle! Though I'm afraid he's the type that if i were to confront his actions would only get worse and more confident. So I'm sort of torn. Too bad we can't see the future. ; n; From what you wrote, it sounds as though he is getting worse with you not taking action against him. Taking that into consideration, if you don't confront him, he will likely just keep getting more creepy. If you do confront him, you have a chance at averting his creepiness. Just make sure you're willing to go through with whatever you say, otherwise he won't take you seriously. >.< Well... -sigh- I talked to my parents about it and they say to just ignore him but if he gets even more aggressive that they'll contact his parents and tell them that he's acting out of line. And....I trust my parents on that....my family is not one you want to ******** with. Seriously... xD At least you have family to back you up. xD oh lord my mom is about to pop me one. xD i effed up her tv...
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 6:23 pm
PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine I wouldn't be confident enough to do this, but I suggest confronting him yourself. Take control of the situation and let him know what he's doing is bothering you and if he does not stop you will get others involved - whether it be police or faculty. Yeah.. I'm considering that. Put on my "I don't take no s**t" face and go charging into battle! Though I'm afraid he's the type that if i were to confront his actions would only get worse and more confident. So I'm sort of torn. Too bad we can't see the future. ; n; From what you wrote, it sounds as though he is getting worse with you not taking action against him. Taking that into consideration, if you don't confront him, he will likely just keep getting more creepy. If you do confront him, you have a chance at averting his creepiness. Just make sure you're willing to go through with whatever you say, otherwise he won't take you seriously. >.< Well... -sigh- I talked to my parents about it and they say to just ignore him but if he gets even more aggressive that they'll contact his parents and tell them that he's acting out of line. And....I trust my parents on that....my family is not one you want to ******** with. Seriously... xD At least you have family to back you up. xD oh lord my mom is about to pop me one. xD i effed up her tv... Lmao. xD Good luck with that. What did you do to it?
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 6:26 pm
Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine Too bad we can't see the future. ; n; From what you wrote, it sounds as though he is getting worse with you not taking action against him. Taking that into consideration, if you don't confront him, he will likely just keep getting more creepy. If you do confront him, you have a chance at averting his creepiness. Just make sure you're willing to go through with whatever you say, otherwise he won't take you seriously. >.< Well... -sigh- I talked to my parents about it and they say to just ignore him but if he gets even more aggressive that they'll contact his parents and tell them that he's acting out of line. And....I trust my parents on that....my family is not one you want to ******** with. Seriously... xD At least you have family to back you up. xD oh lord my mom is about to pop me one. xD i effed up her tv... Lmao. xD Good luck with that. What did you do to it? I was trying to plug in my laptop cord and apparently I tripped the breaker to this room and it flipped the everything off and we couldn't get it back on until I got her to sit down and shut up so I could work xD
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 7:04 pm
PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine Too bad we can't see the future. ; n; From what you wrote, it sounds as though he is getting worse with you not taking action against him. Taking that into consideration, if you don't confront him, he will likely just keep getting more creepy. If you do confront him, you have a chance at averting his creepiness. Just make sure you're willing to go through with whatever you say, otherwise he won't take you seriously. >.< Well... -sigh- I talked to my parents about it and they say to just ignore him but if he gets even more aggressive that they'll contact his parents and tell them that he's acting out of line. And....I trust my parents on that....my family is not one you want to ******** with. Seriously... xD At least you have family to back you up. xD oh lord my mom is about to pop me one. xD i effed up her tv... Lmao. xD Good luck with that. What did you do to it? I was trying to plug in my laptop cord and apparently I tripped the breaker to this room and it flipped the everything off and we couldn't get it back on until I got her to sit down and shut up so I could work xD At least you lived. xD The entire upstairs to my old house used to do that constantly, pain in the a**.
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 7:07 pm
Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine At least you have family to back you up. xD oh lord my mom is about to pop me one. xD i effed up her tv... Lmao. xD Good luck with that. What did you do to it? I was trying to plug in my laptop cord and apparently I tripped the breaker to this room and it flipped the everything off and we couldn't get it back on until I got her to sit down and shut up so I could work xD At least you lived. xD The entire upstairs to my old house used to do that constantly, pain in the a**. Haha yeah, I am alive, somewhat. Oh man I would have hated that..
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 7:54 pm
PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine At least you have family to back you up. xD oh lord my mom is about to pop me one. xD i effed up her tv... Lmao. xD Good luck with that. What did you do to it? I was trying to plug in my laptop cord and apparently I tripped the breaker to this room and it flipped the everything off and we couldn't get it back on until I got her to sit down and shut up so I could work xD At least you lived. xD The entire upstairs to my old house used to do that constantly, pain in the a**. Haha yeah, I am alive, somewhat. Oh man I would have hated that.. Somewhat is better than not at all. Lol. Mhmm. My step-sisters have to deal with it now that I moved out. xD
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 7:56 pm
Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine Lmao. xD Good luck with that. What did you do to it? I was trying to plug in my laptop cord and apparently I tripped the breaker to this room and it flipped the everything off and we couldn't get it back on until I got her to sit down and shut up so I could work xD At least you lived. xD The entire upstairs to my old house used to do that constantly, pain in the a**. Haha yeah, I am alive, somewhat. Oh man I would have hated that.. Somewhat is better than not at all. Lol. Mhmm. My step-sisters have to deal with it now that I moved out. xD I suppose so -yawnsss- tiredddd. so dead tireddd. rawrrrr. && I see... I'm probably not moving out soon since I want to get a job and save up for traveling the world.. haha.. it's a nice dream..
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Posted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 8:38 pm
PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine PunkyHeart_Vampire Farzine Lmao. xD Good luck with that. What did you do to it? I was trying to plug in my laptop cord and apparently I tripped the breaker to this room and it flipped the everything off and we couldn't get it back on until I got her to sit down and shut up so I could work xD At least you lived. xD The entire upstairs to my old house used to do that constantly, pain in the a**. Haha yeah, I am alive, somewhat. Oh man I would have hated that.. Somewhat is better than not at all. Lol. Mhmm. My step-sisters have to deal with it now that I moved out. xD I suppose so -yawnsss- tiredddd. so dead tireddd. rawrrrr. && I see... I'm probably not moving out soon since I want to get a job and save up for traveling the world.. haha.. it's a nice dream.. You should sleep. >> lol Travelling the world is a nice dream to have; gives you something to work toward and something to be proud of later on. ^^ I wouldn't mind travelling eventually, but at the moment it doesn't seem like it'll ever be a possibility for me. Plus, I'm terrified of planes. ._.
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