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I'm not sure what my sexuality is

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moxie foxy

PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2014 3:09 pm


First off I'd like to say hi there! I don't think I've posted in this guild yet so hello everyone, it's nice to meet you. I'm 17 years old and I've been in a few relationships with boys and girls. (I'm a female myself) I've also been attracted to a transexual and sexuality doesn't really matter to me; neither does gender. Since I started dating I've never really been quite sure of what I am, because I've found myself thinking sexually and romantically about boys and girls, but here's the thing, I don't know if I'm one of the subcategory's of asexuality because I feel like I have to fully trust somebody and have a really really strong emotional bond with them before I feel ready to do anything remotely sexual with them, which has been one person so far. I'm not sure if this is because I've never really felt ready, or if it's a sexuality I am, so I've come here because for years I've been unable to label myself and simply tick unsure if I'm asked about my sexuality.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2014 10:56 pm


Nuttin' wrong about not knowing what you are. :3

One thing I will say though is that sexual relationships aren't entirely decided on by sexual attraction and gender outside of one night stands and the like--most people need to bond hardcore before they even start seriously thinking about sex and the like with a partner. And that's not even touching the different shades of aromantics and asexuality.

Never mind that sexuality tends to change over time, so even if you manage to figure it out now, you could be completely different five or ten years down the road. Add hormonal teenage years into the mix...

Sexuality is a confusing mess even for people that have it figured out, is what I'm trying to say. So don't stress too badly about it. ^_^

M3497109

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Man-Hungry Ladykiller

PostPosted: Fri Mar 07, 2014 4:39 am


I think the term is demisexual~

But don't feel like you have to label yourself. You are you, and that's all that matters! 3nodding
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