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 Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2014 12:55 pm
hi haven't been here in a while ....I am now finishing my senior year of high school. I know what college I'm going to next fall.I have switched between bi and gay a few more times since I've posted here and really I just don't know what I am anymore.....I feel like in college I'll need to be really out so hot girls will date me....how exactly do you do that? I'm not just going to go up to all my classmates and say "hey guys I'm gay!".when do I tell them? I've told a fair amount of people before,but I'll have to tell a whole new set. and how are you supposed to be out when you can't seem to decide what your sexual orientation even is.....
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Posted: Thu Apr 17, 2014 12:05 pm
You could just be honest and say that you're still discovering yourself if it comes up in conversation.
Most big colleges have LGBTQ alliance clubs. Join one of them and you'll probably find a few people going through the exact same thing.
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Posted: Thu Apr 17, 2014 1:42 pm
You could join a club, surround yourself with people of the LGBT community. You could also buy clothing that screams, "I'm GAY!" I'm thinking about buying a Gay-Mer hoodie... it'd be a lot easier than having to tell everyone who may not know.
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2014 7:51 pm
Sometimes it can take quite a long time to figure out your own sexuality. Sometimes it doesn't. Don't rush yourself. Even if you find a label for yourself, remember, you're only human.
Sexuality can be very fluid and sometimes it isn't. In truth, there are no labels when it comes to sexuality. It's a learning experience with ever changing results. I know exactly how you feel, though. I used to label myself in just the same way.
Good luck!
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2014 3:04 pm
I'm also a graduating senior who's on her way to college! I gave up on labels. I'm definitely not straight, not bi, and I don't think I'm actually a lesbian. Pansexual doesn't cut it. I highly doubt I'm asexual and I don't know about demi. Whatever. I guess you can tell them whenever you are ready
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Posted: Sat May 03, 2014 12:37 pm
Hi everyone! I'm not even sure I belong here anymore because I have realized that I'm genderqueer- my body is female but I have both male and female inside of me-so not sure If I still count as a "girl" by all of your standards.....I am planning on having some rainbow accessories and dorm decorations to make it easier for people to tell. I have also pretty much given up on labels.
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Posted: Sat May 03, 2014 7:20 pm
lucairo012 Hi everyone! I'm not even sure I belong here anymore because I have realized that I'm genderqueer- my body is female but I have both male and female inside of me-so not sure If I still count as a "girl" by all of your standards.....I am planning on having some rainbow accessories and dorm decorations to make it easier for people to tell. I have also pretty much given up on labels. If you're still part girl it still counts. That's what I think anyways!
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