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Lesbian? Asexual? Sapiosexual?

Am I not a lesbian after all?

I know I'm not straight and I'm definitely not bisexual. I may or may not be a lesbian. I'm romantically attracted to girls- ONLY IF they're on par with me intellectually. Otherwise, I'm not interested no matter how "attractive" they are.

I don't seem to be interested in sex. At all. I always thought "oh. I'll be interested in it eventually." It doesn't seem to be happening and I'm 18. Why am I not interested? I barely have any interest in women and absolutely none in men. (I wouldn't like men no matter how intelligent they were... But if you take sex out of the picture... ??? Still prefers women) I absolutely loathe not knowing exactly what I am; not that I like labels or anything. It's just so frustrating.

Lesromantic sapiosexual? Lesromantic asexual?

Why must these things be so damn complicated? It's ridiculous!

I'm not really sure why it matters to be honest! I don't mean that in an offensive way though.
You are who you are and you like who you like- end o story.
And as for not being interested in sex- it could be that you haven't found the person that will make you interested? If that makes sense?
Your subconscious could be waiting for that one person!
And when you meet them you'll know sorta thing.