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Rissa Unit
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2018 8:06 am


FIRST NOTE: Please keep it kind here. Don't post things to cause conflict or drama between members.

This is meant to be a safe place to talk about, vent and express worries and concerns. We're all going through things of our own, so let's keep our responses kind and considerate and bring each other up, support each other and express ourselves honestly and openly.

The thread is specifically for when you need to talk about something bothering you or you're stressed and need to vent and need a friend to talk with and support you, you've always got one here. If no-one's here when you need to talk, feel free to quote me and I'll come and be that friend for you to the best of my abilities. User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.
PostPosted: Sat Oct 27, 2018 2:46 pm


Imma dust this off cause..yay older person concerns...

SO! I recently moved to Texas to help an old time friend when he started to have medical problems. Cause two medically fuggered people makes better than one. His parents both still own a house, and his mother told him to just move there since it's long paid off and all we've got to worry about is utilities and some light repairs so we can both put our focus into saving and medical expenses.

Suddenly, his father is all interested in the house and trying to dictate what stays, what goes, what to do and not to do. Mind you, the pair split about ten years ago and just left everything behind so there is A LOT of stuff to haul out. We've been doing it all on our own, on our dime, and on our dime, but his father..oi..

Basically keeps threatening to call the cops to have us chucked out if x,y,and z isn't done by such and such date. Since I've been dealing with the mother from the start, I drew up a rental agreement with her lining out everything we will do and that has just caused more problems.

On TOP of that, my friend is the bleeding heart kind and he opened our home up to two people he's been friends with for about two years. My issue with that is...

- They're 18 and 20 and it shows. Badly. They are very messy and have no sense of responsibility.
- I am very hypersensitive, so the noise they constantly make has me on edge.
- They informed us today they're driving out of state to go get an online friend of theirs to bring her back to live at the house..so..five people in a 2 bedroom/2 bathroom house...(we just converted the dining room into a bedroom for the two of them since we weren't going to use it). And this friend is of theirs is also 19...with no job. No way of driving or getting a job once she gets here. So when I protested this, naturally, it caused a lot of tension.

Just...arrggghhhh teenagers! /endrant

Bunnochist

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Kekoa Yanira

PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2019 12:17 pm


My vent is unpacking after moving makes me feel like we have too much belongings.
PostPosted: Mon May 13, 2019 4:43 pm


It can be depressing from time to time to spend 10 years not meeting anyone who likes you back. I had an ex in high school but not since. Like most of the time I am fine but sometimes it gets to me. Aside from that I don't usually have anything too bad in my life.

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