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 Posted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 1:42 pm
Ugh... how to put this.... hmmm *sits and thinks for a moment* ..
aha.
i have this friend in my school (she has a gaia name too) ans she's giving me all this s**t about her life. How her parents don't care, her mother hates her, she hates life, wants to commit suice, why cutting is so good for her, and worst of, she's posing as a vampireh (pronounce v-ahm-pee-reh. for all who know what that it, a salut to you.) It's annoying the crap out of me and she won't stop. I've told her "they don't really hate you, they're dissapointed at you for not keeping your grades like you had them last week!' and since she want's to commit suicide i keep telling her ' my mom has a pistol, when you find a bullet in your head and getting your limbs torn off my lucifer in hell and like to relive life in a hellfull way, then come over. I'll watch you do it too, just to see if you're brave pathetic enough to do so.' Also, she won't shut up about it! I've tried telling her that people would like her better if she just stopped posing as a sterotype emo (no offense to emo luvrs and all). Another thing, she tries too hard to make her life seem like a real hell. Like shell tell me that her father smacked her of told her he hates her. I got to a point where I'm about to smach her head into my lunch tray because she said she was bisexual! Also she states all this nonsense and will burts out crap at me like " You hate me!! youi want to kill me don't you!! You're a horrid friend!!"........ Yeah she's my friend, but i'm close to blowing her off, not because of everything else, it's becuase she then spills everything on me!!! AUGH!! scream stressed
any advise? please??
discuss:: people who get on your nerves.
what you would do.
anything else that's related tot he topic.
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Posted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 2:03 pm
This belongs in Life Issues.
Kay, if she's saying that she wants to commit suicide, ******** LISTEN TO HER. Ever think that she might be telling the truth? You seem like a real shitty friend to me.
Also, don't steal my ******** font plzkthx.
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Posted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 3:20 pm
Well, of course you should listen to her. It's one of the best things a friend can do for another friend. However, it's not the only thing, and at this point it clearly isn't enough. Your frustration and anger is understandable, but at this point you really need to go to an adult you can trust about it. Even if you think she's being ridiculous, even if you think she's over-reacting and playing the part of a drama queen, she's still cutting (as I gather from your text) or thinking seriously about it, and she's still talking about committing suicide. Clearly, she's very upset. Listening is good, but at this point, not good enough. Talk to a counselor at your school, her parents, your parents, and/or even a teacher you know who will be able to take action. Chances are, one or more of these adults will be more than willing to help.
Obviously, it could be that she's not serious about this, and just trying to get attention, but acting rudely or callously to her won't help either. Whether or not most of this is true, there's something wrong, and the best thing to do would be to talk to a counselor or someone who can help. Someone should know about this.
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Posted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 8:53 pm
Charralina This belongs in Life Issues.
Kay, if she's saying that she wants to commit suicide, ******** LISTEN TO HER. Ever think that she might be telling the truth? You seem like a real shitty friend to me.
Also, don't steal my ******** font plzkthx. Do you even know what you are talking about? Did you not read what I just wrote? If I seem like a real shitty friend to you, maybe you should re-read the entire paragraph! And this font is every ones because you can't change it.
kthx.?
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Posted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 8:56 pm
Merely Mere Well, of course you should listen to her. It's one of the best things a friend can do for another friend. However, it's not the only thing, and at this point it clearly isn't enough. Your frustration and anger is understandable, but at this point you really need to go to an adult you can trust about it. Even if you think she's being ridiculous, even if you think she's over-reacting and playing the part of a drama queen, she's still cutting (as I gather from your text) or thinking seriously about it, and she's still talking about committing suicide. Clearly, she's very upset. Listening is good, but at this point, not good enough. Talk to a counselor at your school, her parents, your parents, and/or even a teacher you know who will be able to take action. Chances are, one or more of these adults will be more than willing to help.
Obviously, it could be that she's not serious about this, and just trying to get attention, but acting rudely or callously to her won't help either. Whether or not most of this is true, there's something wrong, and the best thing to do would be to talk to a counselor or someone who can help. Someone should know about this.
I have reported her activites to an Adult, but she claims nothing is wrong. Do you think she just wants attention, because she gets it all the time. She claims to have no friends, when infact she IS surrounded by them.
But thank you for the advise, i appreciate it.
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 1:25 pm
A lot of people these days go through this. All you really can do, is wait for it to pass, and try to seek help. Tell her parents you're worried about her, and try to get her to talk to a therepist. Hopefully, something will happen to turn her life around. All you can do is try to be the best friend you can, and help her though this. It's only a phase.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 6:46 pm
Maybe you should listen? I read the paragraph, but she may be telling the truth. Her mom and dad may treat her badly, ya never know...
However...this is also a stage alot of us go through in life. While you may report it to an adult, maybe she doesn't want adult help. Maybe she just wants you to listen.
Anyways...XP.
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Posted: Wed May 24, 2006 10:56 am
alright.. in my head (im at risk of being a "horrible friend" with someone i dont even know) she is a full blown attention whore.
but these things are tricky. u should still listen to her. but shed some tears when u do.. i mean like FULL BLOWN HUGE TEARS sob fest baby. show her that its hurting more than just her. remind her that if u shouldnt live for urself then u should live because ppl need u to live.
i went thro the same stage in school (jus the whole killing myself thing) u know what solved it? i got a cat.. something that will ALLWAYS be there and never say bad things to me and depends on me.. now i cant die because i know my cat needs me.. (lol that sounds so pathetic i know im gonna be a crazy cat lady)
watch out for ppl who think there vampires.. i dated a guy thinking i could snap him out of it and help him cuz he was mental and he ended up trying to choke me.. not a good experience.. i loath vampire wanna be's..
right now i have 2 friends in the "i dont wanna live" stage.. one has been like that as far back as he can remember.. he has alot of problems with chemical imbalances. he knows he wouldnt kill himself but he knows he wouldnt care if he died..
the other is my new x.. i know for a fact hes not man enough to do it but he likes to threaten me with it.. so i talk to him and cry and he hates that and then everything goes back to normal.
tell her that shes hurting more than herself and she should see a therapist. if that dont work.. out her and show everyone what kind of an attention whore she is.. eventually she'll get sick of everyones attention and wanna fade into the background and not atract it n e more.
what im talking about is pretty extreem.. maybe u just wanna leave it and ignore her or just leave it all together and go on with other things. god knows u probably have enough problems of ur own without having to deal with her world too. xp
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 11:55 pm
All of my old girlsfriends were like that. All acting like there life was so ******** up when they really had it easy. The only advice I can really give you is sit back and watch, dont amuse her angsting, and when she starts pulling that kinda s**t out of he a**, call her out on it.
'Oh! My daddie said he hated me so I cut myself again last night!'
Then ask to see her wrists to see if she's telling the truth. If she is cutting herslef, call her mom and tell her that her daughter is cutting herself. If she talks about killing herself, tell her parents and the school bord. Make a big ******** deal about it so she gets it in her head that she is talking way to big. Now, if she really is suicidal and into self mutilation, take it hardcore and just love her.
As strange as it sounds, sometimes you just have to slap the b***h. (Not literally. O_o ) But just flat out shock her so bad that she wakes up. Its worked for me before. >.>
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 11:28 am
Henada All of my old girlsfriends were like that. All acting like there life was so ******** up when they really had it easy. The only advice I can really give you is sit back and watch, dont amuse her angsting, and when she starts pulling that kinda s**t out of he a**, call her out on it. 'Oh! My daddie said he hated me so I cut myself again last night!' Then ask to see her wrists to see if she's telling the truth. If she is cutting herslef, call her mom and tell her that her daughter is cutting herself. If she talks about killing herself, tell her parents and the school bord. Make a big ******** deal about it so she gets it in her head that she is talking way to big. Now, if she really is suicidal and into self mutilation, take it hardcore and just love her. As strange as it sounds, sometimes you just have to slap the b***h. (Not literally. O_o ) But just flat out shock her so bad that she wakes up. Its worked for me before. >.> I know the girl she is talking about, and I personally think she's doing it for attention. Her parents don't hate her, they shower her with cruises and weekly horseback riding lessons.
Once she claimed that she was Vampiric, and that she bit her tongue the night before so she could have some blood. I told her to show me, and she refused, saying it would have already healed. She must've thought me stupid, because wounds in your mouth, especially on your tongue, won't heal in one day. She claims to be smart, when really she is no smarter than an amoeba. Sounds harsh, but this girl has no thinking capacity, or else she wouldn't be copying me and my comebacks in my arguments or my body language.
She does not mutilate herself. She acts like she does, but she doesn't. If she did, she wouldn't wear revealing clothing like she does now. I just think she's having some sort of internal conflict that is possessing her to seek for attention through unessesary means.
As for shocking her, that's the hard part. She runs to her mummy when she's in trouble, instead of gathering what little courage she has. She tries to act tough, but place a 40 watt bulb in front of her in a room with no windows, she'd crack like an eggshell.
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Posted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 1:03 pm
She's just going through a stage. Listen to her and trudge through it. Make sure she doesn't really kill herself though. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 12:26 pm
Peh, same with this a*****e in my school. She's a real a**. She is so spoiled. Poor and spoiled. A real brat. If I have something she doesn't, like cool shirt or maybe even a toy, she'll ruin it or say "I hate my parents, they don't get me what I want." She acts like a freaking 5 year old. Then her friend comes buy, who recently made friends with the popular crowd, she interrogates this friend, so I try to stick up for her, saying that she is friends with the popular crowd, it's her friends, she chooses, not her other friends. The a*****e turns to me and goes, "Was I talking to you? Get lost!" The nerve of that jerk.
Before, she would spit on the ground saying she threw up. She said she feels faint when she looks just fine and she spits saliva, not stomach acid. She has bad acne and takes some pills to get rid of it, it doesn't work, I am glad, she deserves to keep her damn acne! She says the pills make her throw up when she doesn't even throw up in the first place. I'm going to embarrass her probably because she told me her "life story on how it's so horrible" which is probably lies because she always lies. She said something bad happened to her in every state she went to, yeah ******** right! I'm going to publicly embarrass her based on those lies she told me just to get attention! twisted
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Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 10:27 pm
OMIGAWDD
Yeah. Most def. I hate people like that. I mean, it's okay to b***h about your life sometimes, and I won't deny it, I had my good deal of bitchings before but seriously. She needs to look about how good shes got it. Atleast she's got parents that can support her in the least. rolleyes
Anyway, I am trying hard not to b***h about my life because all in all, it doesn't suck that bad anymore and I'm moving on.
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