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LostxInxLonliness

PostPosted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 1:05 pm


I've was with my ex g/f for about 4-5 months now. Or known her for that long. We had gotten along ever since the first time we started going out. Around the 1st of the year. Which I found really special. Anyways she had broken up with me a first time for getting into a fight with her. She didn't care at all about me crying or anything when she did. One night she was crying how she never meant anything she did to me, how sorry she was for hurting me and Ireally was the most sweetest person ever. She breaks up with her boyfriend and starts going out with me again. Everything is alright its all back to normal. Then she starts talking about this tyler kid. It really makes me jealous because everytime I'd talk to her it'd be Tyler this or that. I learn now not to let me jealousy get carried away. But just last night she had pretty much came up saying I didnt love her, how I used her (we had sex) and everything we had done together. I didn't use her, I wanted to be with her forever she meant everything to me. I'm not sure if she broke up with me or not... But I had sent her a letter saying I wanted one more chance. Saying I would stop being jealous and everything. Thing was the first message I sent her said I didnt want to speak to her for 2 weeks and I was like "Nah" I have to talk to her. But she got mad at me even more. She would get mad at me because I said I was talking to someone else on the phone. Before I had ran away to her house. I said I was about to call my friend Shelbie. She had been with me all night and was worried. But when she found out that she ran home and called me and told me to go home. She said I should have gone to my friends house instead. I felt so bad then. But she got on the internet and told me she didnt want to go out with me. Said I never cared about her. Said I used her and everything. I know I didnt! But I had done something stupid and cut my wrists which now I figure out was very stupid of me. I went to the hospital to get it looked at. But everything is fine now. My parents tell me I need to throw her away. What do you think? I still have feelings and everything for her. I just hate how this is the 2nd time shes hurten me.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 4:11 pm



I'd have to say that I agree with your parents. Since she has done this to you twice, I'd say that she doesn't really want to be with you. I'm really sorry to say it, but that's what I think.

Bubbling_Stream
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La Violetta
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 10:59 pm


I'm glad you realize that cutting yourself was a mistake. I hope that if you ever consider it again, you'll talk to me first. (Dealing with depression is one of the areas I give help in.) I'm not on 24/7, of course, but I go on quite a bit.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 9:59 pm


Thanks bunches everyone. I would tell you how everything is now, but i'm tired and must goto bed gonk . I will tell you later smile ,

La Violetta do you have a messenger or something? I would like to talk to you on there sometimes smile

LostxInxLonliness


La Violetta
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 11:07 pm


I have AIM. If you have it, PM me, and I'll give you my screen name.
PostPosted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 4:14 pm


well....ok wait how old are you?
(just as an FYI no offense, but i belive in being abstinate)
but anyway i say you need to forget her, she sounds like a bad girlfriend to me.

Carmondomon


LostxInxLonliness

PostPosted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 10:33 pm


I'm 16.
PostPosted: Wed May 03, 2006 4:00 am


ok im dateing this one guy but i feel like i cant trust him i call him long distance and everything even thogh we havent met in real life ill he want to do is cyber and he says he loves me but i catch him with other girls even if hes an older guy what should i do?

Lithia Kane

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hiding under beds
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PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 5:56 pm


cyber isn't real. a lot of girls have been raped or kidnaped that way. i don't think you can trust him. i'm sorry. that is just what i think.
PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 9:38 pm


I have to say that one of the main basises (is that a word?) a relationship is made of is trust. If you don't feel you have that, it doesn't look like the relationship is going to work out.

La Violetta
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Lithia Kane

Divine Streaker

PostPosted: Sun May 07, 2006 5:18 pm


hes older too and he cyber cuz i wont for real
PostPosted: Sun May 28, 2006 5:46 pm


Old like? (and how old are you?)

Notorious_Cookie

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