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 Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 8:05 am
Hello, my name is Autumn, and I am an expert at giving advice. Write in with your problems. (anonymity will be granted if requested).
Dear Autumn,
I really like this guy in my class. I've had a crush on him for a really long time and when our Transfiguration teacher paired us up together, I was so happy. Well that is until I accidently turned him into a teapot. Now he won't even look at me. What do I do?
Signed,
Tea for 1
Dear Tea for 1,
Wow, a teapot? What year are you in? If anything he should be impressed! It takes alot of talent to transfigure a person! If he can't appreciate your talents then I think you should move on to somebody worthy of your love. He oviously doesnt have a good sence of humour either. Move on and find someone who enjoys your talents.
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 10:48 pm
Hi autumnSilverMoon I need advice. I have a best friend. I secretly had a crush on her for a long time. then she found out about my secret. Then I had to lie to her saying that I don't like her at all. and now we don't talk to each other that much (before she knew that I liked her we talked alot) So what should I do??
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Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 9:07 am
fullflip Hi autumnSilverMoon I need advice. I have a best friend. I secretly had a crush on her for a long time. then she found out about my secret. Then I had to lie to her saying that I don't like her at all. and now we don't talk to each other that much (before she knew that I liked her we talked alot) So what should I do?? Dear Fullflip, Ahh young love. Well first of you must figure out if your guy's friendship is worth losing. A couple years ago I had a guy friend who i spent most of my time with and we talked all the time. Well one day we decided to go out. Well it ended up not working out and we broke up. After that we wernt able to stay friends like we were before. You have to decide if trying a relationship with her, is worth maybe losing your friendship. If it is, then you must talk to her. She may be a bit hurt cause you lied and said you didnt like her. In fact, she problably likes you. Tell her how you really feel, and how you lied about not liking her before because you were embarassed. If she doents feel the same way then maybe you can go back to being friends. Its worth a shot.
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Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 5:01 pm
Dear Autumn SilverMoon,
I've been going out with the guy for a while, and well, I want to break up with him. Well I did until he went and got us tickets for my favorite band. The concerts in a month and I dont know what to do. I've always wanted to see this band, but I dont think I could be that kind of person and use him, what do you think I should do??
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 8:26 am
RavenDarkSky Dear Autumn SilverMoon,
I've been going out with the guy for a while, and well, I want to break up with him. Well I did until he went and got us tickets for my favorite band. The concerts in a month and I dont know what to do. I've always wanted to see this band, but I dont think I could be that kind of person and use him, what do you think I should do?? Dear RavenDarkSky, It all depends on if your shallow. If your shallow you'll use him for the concert then break up with him, OR you could break up with him and not use him for the tickets. Why not save up money and get tickets for the concert yourself? Or, if you still want to be friends with him, ask if you can buy your ticket from him and still go with him. That way no hurt feelings of you using him for a concert when things are over.
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 2:37 pm
AutumnSilverMoon fullflip Hi autumnSilverMoon I need advice. I have a best friend. I secretly had a crush on her for a long time. then she found out about my secret. Then I had to lie to her saying that I don't like her at all. and now we don't talk to each other that much (before she knew that I liked her we talked alot) So what should I do?? Dear Fullflip, Ahh young love. Well first of you must figure out if your guy's friendship is worth losing. A couple years ago I had a guy friend who i spent most of my time with and we talked all the time. Well one day we decided to go out. Well it ended up not working out and we broke up. After that we wernt able to stay friends like we were before. You have to decide if trying a relationship with her, is worth maybe losing your friendship. If it is, then you must talk to her. She may be a bit hurt cause you lied and said you didnt like her. In fact, she problably likes you. Tell her how you really feel, and how you lied about not liking her before because you were embarassed. If she doents feel the same way then maybe you can go back to being friends. Its worth a shot. Thanks for the advice
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 5:06 pm
Dear Autumn Silvermoon,
I've been having trouble with one of my students.
He doesn't respect me whatsoever.
I've sent him to detention plenty of times, nothing seems to get through to him! What should I do?
Sincerely,
Shoelaces.
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 5:10 pm
Cassius_The_Freak Dear Autumn Silvermoon,
I've been having trouble with one of my students.
He doesn't respect me whatsoever.
I've sent him to detention plenty of times, nothing seems to get through to him! What should I do?
Sincerely,
Shoelaces. Dear Shoelaces?, SEND HIM TO ME!!! MUAHAHAHAHA! *ahem* In all seriousness, this is what you do. 1. Ask for him to stay after class. 2. Ask if he has a problem with you. 3. Discuss owling his parents if you can not come to an understanding with each other. 4. If all else fails, kick him out of the class. His behaviour is only going to hurt himself in the long run. Explaine this to him. Hopefully he'll grow up a bit.
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Posted: Sat May 20, 2006 3:12 am
Dear Autumn,
I have this great bf, but I've never seen him face to face. it's not an online relationship persay. we live 3 hours away from eachother. we talk back and forth online a lot and we call eachother with calling cards so the bills don't stack up. he said he has enough gas in his car to get here and back but he needs somewhere to stay the night. I don't know what to do. I told him that there is a motel thing ten min. away, but he said he didn't have enough money for that. u see Autumn I live with my mom, dad, sister, and my granny who I watch over for my parents. I know my dad would flip in my bf shows up. u see they don't know about him. I've been to scared to tell them because I know they won't like him. I would rather die then go more then 3 days without hearing from him. I'm 20, but I don't know how to drive. I'm kinda stuck in this house, and me and my bf always joke about his coming but this time I think he's serius. I'm happy and can't wait to see him, but I'm scared and freaking out at the same time. he hasn't said more about coming here monday. I don't know if he still is. he might have chaged his mind because I told him I didn't know of anywhere for him to stay a night for no charge. but if he comes how am I to tell my parents about him help me PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~Confused And In Love~
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Posted: Sat May 20, 2006 1:42 pm
Suezy_Caputs Dear Autumn,
I have this great bf, but I've never seen him face to face. it's not an online relationship persay. we live 3 hours away from eachother. we talk back and forth online a lot and we call eachother with calling cards so the bills don't stack up. he said he has enough gas in his car to get here and back but he needs somewhere to stay the night. I don't know what to do. I told him that there is a motel thing ten min. away, but he said he didn't have enough money for that. u see Autumn I live with my mom, dad, sister, and my granny who I watch over for my parents. I know my dad would flip in my bf shows up. u see they don't know about him. I've been to scared to tell them because I know they won't like him. I would rather die then go more then 3 days without hearing from him. I'm 20, but I don't know how to drive. I'm kinda stuck in this house, and me and my bf always joke about his coming but this time I think he's serius. I'm happy and can't wait to see him, but I'm scared and freaking out at the same time. he hasn't said more about coming here monday. I don't know if he still is. he might have chaged his mind because I told him I didn't know of anywhere for him to stay a night for no charge. but if he comes how am I to tell my parents about him help me PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~Confused And In Love~ Dear Confused and in Love, I really feel for you. I've been in your situation before. Luckily for me, my parents are very understanding people. If your boyfriend means this much to you, its time to take a stand for yourself. First off, your 20 years old. Your not a child anymore. Your old enough to be out on your own and not need your parents permision. You need to be an adult, and sit your parents down, or if your mom is more understanding sit her down alone. Explaine to her the situation. Tell her about how long you guys have been dating/talking, and that its not just a crush. Tell her about how you want him to come and visit with you and your family, you want to beable to introduce him to them. Figure out a place for him to stay in your house before hand that wont be so enraging (like your bedroom) and have everything thought out before hand. If your moms anything like mine, she can talk your father into the idea, or at least brace him before you go about doing it. You might have to post pone his visit for a few weeks so your parents let the idea sink in. Remind them how responsible you are with taking care of your sister and Grandma, and will be resposible with your boyfriend. Maybe, if all else fails, Wait till you both saved enough money for a hotel, and then when he comes to stay, introduce him to your parents. Let them get to know him. Perhaps then in the near future you wont have to worry about a hotel for him, he'll beable to stay on your couch. Just make sure they arent acting like your still 14, Your 20, and instead of running off to be with him, your asking them for their blessing on it all.
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Posted: Sun May 21, 2006 8:22 pm
Dear Autumm,
For the past few years I've been facing difficulties with the Slytherins because I did not join them. They are teasing me whatsoever and I wish I could hex them (because I can for being an early learner) but I don't want to lose house points. Plus, there's this boy I like and I've had a crush on him since the first day of school in our first school year here together. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Amelia Pham
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Posted: Wed May 24, 2006 1:03 pm
Hanyou Smartanimegirl Dear Autumm,
For the past few years I've been facing difficulties with the Slytherins because I did not join them. They are teasing me whatsoever and I wish I could hex them (because I can for being an early learner) but I don't want to lose house points. Plus, there's this boy I like and I've had a crush on him since the first day of school in our first school year here together. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Amelia Pham Dear Amelia Pham, Just Ignor them. You did not get to choose what house you are in, and they should get over it. If you pretend that it doesn't bother you, the Slytherin kids will get bored with it and leave you alone. Hexing fellow students is not the answer. If all else fails, have a talk with your head of house. They should beable to knock some sence into them, or have the head of Slytherin do it for them. As for the boy. Make a move. Let him know how you feel. Invite him down to the lake to look at the giant squid and have a little picnic. Maybe he feels the same way.
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Posted: Tue Jun 06, 2006 9:11 am
Dear Autumn,
I have a crush on two differnt guys. I dont know who to choose and what to do. Please help!
Crazy in love
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Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 8:09 am
RavenDarkSky Dear Autumn,
I have a crush on two differnt guys. I dont know who to choose and what to do. Please help!
Crazy in love Dear Crazy in love, You really need to figure out what you want. It's not fair to them if you want em both. You need to sit down and decide which guy is better for you. Then go after him.
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