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Aesthetically Displeasing
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 Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 5:33 pm
Ok.. the guy I like.. I got his number and we were on the phone for over an hour, talking about all sorts of things.. I had to go but right before I left, he asked me,
'Hey Heather..'
"Yeah?"
'Why're you so interested in me?'
and I don't know if its good or bad, so please help me.
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Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 7:02 pm
It dose kind of sound like he may like you. try asking him out. I know it might not be easy but with situations like this thats just about the best course of action. if your worried you could try asking one of his good friends if hes seeing somebody unless you already know he isn't. if you do ask somebody try and make sure there trust worthy so they don't go blabing. well anyway good luck 3nodding
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Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 11:07 pm
Well, if you do feel shy, then ask one of his friends, although keep it in the tone where if they say no then you won't seem dejected and if they say yes you'll seem indifferent. It's best if you're the one talking to him about your feelings, not his friend. I suggest you make a move before he starts moving on, if he does. But, you know what they say, better safe than sorry, and you've got nothing to lose!
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 12:02 am
I say don't be shy and ask him out.
It you can live with him not knowing then just leave it.
It you really can't live with yourself not knowing then you have to ask.
Or ask your friend to ask his friend.
Either way.
If you really like him that much then just tell him.
But if you value his friendship more than his love then don't tell him.
Becasue if you tell him and he dosen't like you and it'll be all awkward and that.
Kay I'm done rattling on. xD;
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Duncan_the_Soulknight Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 3:18 am
First of all, if you should ask for his number, he'll definitly give it to you, since you are friends. So you have nothing to worry about there.
If you want to make advances on him, I have a few suggestions, since you said you're shy. Try giving him random hugs, or coming with a subtle hint or comment every now and then. This way, you should get used to it and become less shy. I know it's not easy. I don't know if you've had your first kiss yet, but if you haven't, the shyness usually disappeares after that. At least it did for me.
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 3:23 am
Duncan_the_Soulknight First of all, if you should ask for his number, he'll definitly give it to you, since you are friends. So you have nothing to worry about there. If you want to make advances on him, I have a few suggestions, since you said you're shy. Try giving him random hugs, or coming with a subtle hint or comment every now and then. This way, you should get used to it and become less shy. I know it's not easy. I don't know if you've had your first kiss yet, but if you haven't, the shyness usually disappeares after that. At least it did for me. Same here. =D
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Aesthetically Displeasing
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 7:36 pm
Duncan_the_Soulknight First of all, if you should ask for his number, he'll definitly give it to you, since you are friends. So you have nothing to worry about there. If you want to make advances on him, I have a few suggestions, since you said you're shy. Try giving him random hugs, or coming with a subtle hint or comment every now and then. This way, you should get used to it and become less shy. I know it's not easy. I don't know if you've had your first kiss yet, but if you haven't, the shyness usually disappeares after that. At least it did for me. I havent had my first kiss yet.. And that a problem. He isnt the type that likes friendly physical contact. I tried to pat him on the shoulder once and he pulled away, that was when we BARELY knew each other though. But I'll try to ask him for his messenger id, or something.. its just hard cause the only time I really see him is in a class filled with his friends. If they started thinking I liked him..
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 7:50 pm
Messenger makes the game really easy for us shy folk. ninja Well, not "really" easy, just easier.
There could be many reasons not to like "Friendly physical Contact"
One of my main ones would probably be cause i'm not used to it anymore, or maybe past physical abusive experiences. eek
Either way, most people don't mind once they get used to it.
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 11:08 pm
Luscie_Hunnypot Duncan_the_Soulknight First of all, if you should ask for his number, he'll definitly give it to you, since you are friends. So you have nothing to worry about there. If you want to make advances on him, I have a few suggestions, since you said you're shy. Try giving him random hugs, or coming with a subtle hint or comment every now and then. This way, you should get used to it and become less shy. I know it's not easy. I don't know if you've had your first kiss yet, but if you haven't, the shyness usually disappeares after that. At least it did for me. Same here. =D yup. but first kisses tend to make it hard to let the person go if you aren't right for each other.
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 11:14 pm
Neko Fun Messenger makes the game really easy for us shy folk. ninja Well, not "really" easy, just easier. There could be many reasons not to like "Friendly physical Contact" One of my main ones would probably be cause i'm not used to it anymore, or maybe past physical abusive experiences. eek Either way, most people don't mind once they get used to it. Well he seems to not like it just for the sake of not liking it. He's one of those 'no touchy' people. In my experience, all people are like that till you get to know them, so.. But he's loosened up around me a lot since then.
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Aesthetically Displeasing
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 7:05 am
I'd say the guy is on his way to having a crush on you. Not a real crush yet but close to one.
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 10:55 am
Seriously, you have nothing to worry about when it comes to messenger id or phone number. No one will start thinking you like him just because of that. And I still think that you should try to get a little more physical contact with him. Try to make it a gradual process. Little by little, he'll end up liking you more and more, I think. Also, it's easier to give hints of almost equal value to somone by msn or another im service, and it's usually easier to convince oneself that it's not that dangerous to drop them.
And I have to disagree with Rigas regarding the first kiss. Me and the one that was my first kiss liked each other a lot, but she ended up with another guy. Sure, I did feel a bit hurt at first, but not more than usual. We're still great friends and we've never had any difficulties hanging out, even when her boyfriend is with us.
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Duncan_the_Soulknight Vice Captain
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Aesthetically Displeasing
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Posted: Wed May 10, 2006 12:06 pm
I kinda have an update.
Ok, I have a friend named Liam, and Chris, the guy I like, has a friend named Jamie.
Jamie has been trying to find someone to go out with Chris for a while, so, Liam grabbed me and dragged me to a certain spot in school, and Jamie dragged Chris to a certain spot in school, and shoved the two of us together and told us to flirt with each other.
He really didn't say anything, she whispered something in his ear (she wouldnt tell me what, and he wont tell me either) and he just kinda smiled and stood there. He wouldn't really talk to me the rest of the day besides saying hi, and now I'm really worried.
I don't know if he's avoiding me because he's shy, or because he doesnt want me to like him, or because he thinks I'm weird, or what. I just know he's avoiding me.
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Posted: Wed May 10, 2006 3:10 pm
He likes you or wants to like you. Either way, this is your chance of getting a relationship wth him. If you manage to gather up some courage and swallow your anxiety, you will definitly get him. Just make sure to hurry up, the easy way won't be open for ever, you know. Try not to let the week end without an attempt. That should be your goal.
Good luck. 3nodding
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Duncan_the_Soulknight Vice Captain
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Aesthetically Displeasing
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Posted: Thu May 11, 2006 12:59 pm
OK. I don't know if its what he really means, or just what he was telling Jamie to get her off his back, but he says he wants to get to know me more, and that he doesnt think of me as anything more than a friend.
Thats what he said to her anyways.
However, I'm still gonna try to get his number and crap, teacher was being an a** so I couldnt get it today, so maybe I can talk to him directly about it this weekend.
I'm going to ask about him coming over to play some games, too. Just friendly stuff, so he can get to know me more.
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