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hott_daydreamer13

PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 7:10 pm


ok so i like this boy we are friends but i like him more then a friend but i'm afraid if i tell him how i really feel that will push him away and he won't want to be my friend anymore and that he wont like me the same way should i go up to him and say "hey do u like any girls in this school" and wait for the anwser and if he says no just say" well i like a boy in this school and that boy is you" or should i do something else PLEZ HELP
PostPosted: Fri May 05, 2006 7:21 pm


crazy_hyper_rocker_chick1
ok so i like this boy we are friends but i like him more then a friend but i'm afraid if i tell him how i really feel that will push him away and he won't want to be my friend anymore and that he wont like me the same way should i go up to him and say "hey do u like any girls in this school" and wait for the anwser and if he says no just say" well i like a boy in this school and that boy is you" or should i do something else PLEZ HELP


Well, there is no quick and easy answer.
And answers vary with different people.

But sure, if you really want him to know the way you feel. (And are willing to work hard for it) Then yeah, go for it. Tell him.

Though, frankly, if he pushes you away... not a very good friend now is he?
Though if he pushes you away, and he doesn't feel the same way for you, you've gotta remember, you are his friend, and you have to respect the way he feels too. (A lot of people forget that)
And if you remember that, chances are you'll still remain friends afterwards.


.... Try to remember exactly "Why" you like this guy though. stare Cause if you don't know that, then how can you be sure on your own feelings?

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PostPosted: Sat May 06, 2006 11:07 am


What I think about this is that you should under no circumstances say that you like him the way you said it. I personally think that is way too corny. Instead try this reply: "Too bad, 'cause you know I was hoping you liked me."

It's rather unlikely that he'll push you away too, and even if he does, you've really lost nothing. It would probably beinyour best interest that it would happen, so that you would grow a thicker skin.

Still, good luck. And I also agree with the last statement made by Neko Fun.
PostPosted: Sun May 07, 2006 7:09 am


I also agree Neko Fun. Personally, I liked my friend too, but never told him and now he has a girlfriend. I'm over him but I still can't help wonder, 'what if I had....'

Snowbird791


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 29, 2006 8:30 am


hott_daydreamer13
ok so i like this boy we are friends but i like him more then a friend but i'm afraid if i tell him how i really feel that will push him away and he won't want to be my friend anymore and that he wont like me the same way should i go up to him and say "hey do u like any girls in this school" and wait for the anwser and if he says no just say" well i like a boy in this school and that boy is you" or should i do something else PLEZ HELP

u know what? me and my BF were good friends and we would give hugs to each other and stuff like when we were just friends. then he PMed me and said he like me since forever...meaning of this...write him a note saying u love him and see what his reaction is...maybe he likes u,too and he's just shy...PM me if you r having second thoughts 4laugh
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