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 Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 6:15 pm
I fell in love with this boy I met online. I've been talking to him for months and he says he loves me too. We've web-cammed, miced, and I even tried to run away and see him, but I never made it (he lives a good 11 hours away...at least I didn't get caught).
Well, before we got really close, he used to have dreams of this black haired girl who would hug and hold hands with him.
Well today over instant messenger...
Him: Hey you know that black haired girl I used to have dreams of?
Me: Yeah. And I was jealous? lol I remember
Him: Yeah... lol
Him: well, I met her.
Me: ...???
Him: Online.
Him: Here she is...
Him: -sends a picture-
Me: She's prettier than me...
(I was fishing for a compliment like all girls do sometimes. xD)
Him: Nooooooo.
Me: She's probably nicer and funner and more loveable than me.
Him: noooo.
Him: You're both the same to me.
Me: eek
Me: -signs off-
I've been crying about it ever since.
He's supposed to love me!
I've tried to run away for him more than once, I said "I love you" and meant it with all my heart...
How am I "the same" and some bimbo he's only talked to for one day?!?!
It's not fair....
I blocked him and it's been 2 hours.
He hasn't even tried to email me or anything.
I can't believe this.
Do I have a right to be upset or am I just overreacting?
I don't want to talk to him.
Everytime I give a guy a second chance it just happens again...
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 7:14 pm
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Posted: Wed May 10, 2006 3:06 am
He shouldn't have said that...but then again because it's an online thing, so maybe he didn't know how it would sound to you. If he's not emailing you, why don't you contact him? Explain to him how you feel about it and ask if he really does consider you two the same...
Hope that helps. =)
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Posted: Wed May 10, 2006 10:25 am
Okay. That was a stupid thing to say to a girl. That sucks. The guy is an idiot (no offence if you still like him). You should confront him on it. Even if it makes you uncomfortable, it is most likly more uncomfortable for him. Ask him what he really thinks of you and if it isn't what you thought or wanted it to be dump his sorry butt. But try not get your hopes up to high. If it is not the answer you wanted you will just be even more upset and that would be horrible.
I hope this helps...
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Posted: Thu May 11, 2006 4:08 pm
That sucks. Maybe it was his attempt at trying to make you feel better? Plus, he probably didn't know you were fishing for compliments. He's probably just like all the other guys. You either ask straight out for compliments, or ask if you're pretty or something, that's usually the best way to get them. ^^
He probably also felt closer to her because of the dreams. Try IM-ing him back and ask about it. If you don't want to give a second chance, be leery at first. If he seems genuine, don't throw yourself back at him. Just slowly begin to trust him little by little.
If something worse than now happens later on, you can't say you didn't give it your best shot, and won't regret what you did with the situation and ask yourself why.
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Posted: Sun May 14, 2006 10:25 am
wow, that realy stinks. Maybe he just ment that he found the girl, and thought it was a funny coincidence. Try to talk to him and get his full feelings before you get upset.
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Posted: Wed May 17, 2006 6:11 pm
I think this is why you should becareful with online people. I'd rather crush on guys I know in life. smile
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Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 8:56 am
Idiot guys. crying I'm sorry for you. This new girl probably wont be that great. Then he'll come crawling back.
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Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 11:32 am
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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 6:05 am
Confront him about it, tell him how you feel. A lot of guys don't get that girls don't want to hear stuff like that. Online or off.
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2007 2:22 am
Firstly, how well do you know this guy?
Do you know him in real life?
Are you sure he's safe?
I know that's sounds stupid, but I just want you to know, that not everything is as it seems. Meeting someone online isn't always safe, I just want you to know that. You may not know what he is.
Secondly, there are several scenarios that his words could have meant.
1. He might be trying to make you jealous. That may sound silly, but I find that a lot of guy do that.
2. He might only like you as a friend. As he ever told you that he loves you? As in literally saying "I Love You". Because if he hasn't, that he may just really like you as a friend.
3. When he said "You're both the same to me." he may of meant in value, as in he is very good friends with this other girl and therefore is very close to her, and values her as much as he values you. That may not mean that he loves her as much as he loves you.
4. Maybe he meant it at the time, but now he regrets it. You'll never know if you don't ask him.
I hope that helps ^^
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