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 Posted: Sat May 13, 2006 6:08 am
Ok so I was going out with Ash. Or Wilson as he's known on my friends list. But recently we split up. Today I get a dickhead telling me that:
I'm a b***h
I was only using him for his money
I planned on leaving him
How I never think of anyone else
You know the usual crap. So I block him and tell Ash who gets at him and defends me quite rightly so. I've never used him for money. I only planned on leaving him for a few days because I couldn't find the opportune moment. When we were alone. I didn't want to do it in front of his friends and it tore me appart hurting him.
So anyway, I go on one of my chat rooms. My best friend from college, John is on there. Great
Only John says exactly the same thing!
I ended up in tears to void from my friends list. John was supposed to be my best friend! I have always been there for him when he tried to slit his wrists I tried to make him feel better, when he has his uber secret operation I get worried for him and keep it secret for him, and this is how I'm repayed! I am so pissed off!
So I just give up. I have three amazing friends. Maria, Lynn and Jayms (AKA Void_Nega). My social circle at college is falling appart so I give up. What is the point in making friends when it all backfires?
Bryan ended up sexually harrassing me
John thinks I'm a using b***h
Ash is moving away for good in September.....
I just feel so hurt crying crying crying crying crying crying crying crying crying
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Posted: Sat May 13, 2006 3:14 pm
You don't need back stabbers. DD<
I say ditch John, then go find new friends.
Out in clubs or something.
You can't trust him. ):
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Duncan_the_Soulknight Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun May 14, 2006 3:36 pm
Well, as much as I'd like to say that you shouldn't care, I know it's not easy. See it from the bright side though. You have friends that still remain by your side. That is huge. I don't know if you'll be able to repair your lost friendships, but...
Seriously though, even if your firned have a point (which I would know nothing about, since I don't know you), they are jerks for turning at you like that. It's good that they say what they think, but they shouldn't try to rub it in and absolutley not harass you for it. I don't know about you, but I'd start planning a gruesome revenge. Of course not a good idea, but that's how my mind works.
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 2:58 pm
It's not true, not a word of it. Even Ash says it's not true. -sigh- That's why it hurts so much. Both me and him have tried to tell people it's not true but they're more willing to hurt me than realise the truth...
I don't plan revenge. I'm better than that. I simply cry and hate them and plead with divine forces to make it all work out.
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Posted: Fri May 19, 2006 7:04 pm
Man that must suck to have your best friend turn on you like that.... : / Sorry to hear it. Were he and Ash good friends, though? If they were, he might have been acting out of "Ash is hurt and you did it!", even if it's not fair or particularly sensical. More or less, maybe try to talk to him another time. I don't know the full situation, but you should probably give him another chance and see why he said what he did. It looks as though he WAS wrong, though.
As for the point of making friends...? You do it with hope. Hope that you two will get along, hope that it won't all blow up on you and hope that they're a decent person. You have three good friends, right? So then you don't need the couple bad ones you're bound to meet. Just be glad that Ash isn't pissed at you too. And even if he is moving away, you two can still be close. I know what I'm talking about here, too. I recently moved 3000 miles from my old home. : P Just get used to long-distance communication with him.
And try to find good things in life and in your friends, ok? They're there, I promise.
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