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Psycho_Katie

PostPosted: Sat May 13, 2006 7:56 pm


Okay, this tale is just rediculous. First I'll give a little background- Normally in lunch there's me, then Kyle, Leah, and a few other friends. We're all about 17 years old, except for one who's either 14 or 15.
Kyle is very short and thin, not very physically strong. Pretty much any of us could pick him up and throw him. Actually, Leah's done that before (in a made-up game called "Midget Pitching" xD ). Leah is very... big. She's overweight, but amazingly strong. She's in field and track, gets good grades.. so basically the teachers love her (my town is a "Sports Town".. they praise anyone and anything sports-related.)

Now I'm sure you all have close friends that you pick on playfully. You call them names and say you'll do things that you'd honestly never think of doing ( like they take your pen suddenly and you exaggerate "I will destroy you!!" ) It's all fun and anyone can relate to it. Kyle and Leah do that kind of stuff all the time. There is some difference between them usually though. Kyle calls Leah a whore, but since Leah is physically tougher, she'd more inclined to just hit Kyle or something. Not enough to hurt, but enough to get her point across. Sometimes she'll respond by calling him a name too. But we're all used to it so it's nothing unusual.

Now to the story.
On Monday this week, Leah went up to get her food at lunch. She left her notebook on the table. Kyle and myself being the mischevious fiends we are, took it and started writing play-insults all over it. When she came back she quickly flipped the notebook over and wrote things back to us on the back. We continued this for a few minutes, everyone laughing at the rediculous things the others came up with, until Leah ripped the back off and put it on the table. We thought nothing of it though, and just continued to write more on that back (but the on its other side that didn't have anything on it.)

Fast forward.
Now it's Wednesday, second out of eight periods, and I'm called down to the assistant principal's office. Apparently they say that Leah was offended by the writing, and started calling it a threat. I raised my eyebrows, thinking perhaps some teacher saw her notebook and thought it was serious. They told me I might get suspended for a day, but honestly they never got back to me on it (So I think I'm okay..) He also said that Leah would be switched out of our lunch period, and that we should avoid her as much as possible. Personally, I thought no problem with that. If that b***h was trying to get us in trouble then I don't want to talk to her.
At lunch time I tell Kyle about it. He thought different. He wanted to find her and see what the heck's going on (Just to tell you now- he didn't get to. Still to this moment none of us have a clue what's happening with her.) The entire table (sans Leah, as she wasn't there) mulled it over. We noticed, if we had ratted her out every time she did something "unacceptable" or "threatening" to us, she would've been kicked out LONG ago. I warned Kyle that he would be called to the office soon.

And so he was. At gym I hear the whole story. Since he wrote the most stuff, they actually brought in a detective to explain to him. They told him that he might get expelled, or even arrested for threatening his friend. He tried to explain that he's a good student, has no violent past, comes from a good family, and is one of the most non-violent people you'll find. They wouldn't listen, saying that sometimes things happen even in those settings. Besides that he told them about how he'd been Leah's friend for three years, and if there was a problem going on between them he would've known long ago. They ended up calling his mom and she flipped... up until the moment that she heard it was Leah this was happening over. Kyle's mom knows all about their shenanigans, and that it's never something serious. She came in immediately with a lawyer... Kyle just sat there the whole time, dumbfounded, having no clue what the hell was going on. The lawyer explained exactly as I just wrote.. that they're friends and this is just stupid. Kyle ended up not getting arrested or expelled.. just suspended for a couple of days.

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On Friday we have even more info. Cops came to Kyle's house Wednesday night. They had a warrant and searched. They found his father's hunting gun and accused Kyle of having a weapon. (Yes, I'm aware that now this is not only schools taking it too seriously, but also the government. I hope no one minds.) I really don't know what's going on with that, I just know that it happened.
But later Thursday night, Kyle was cleaning through his room and found an old notebook from 9th grade. You know what was on it? Leah wrote the exact same thing that he wrote on her notebook the other day. The exact same words. Leah is suing him, but now he's countersuing her. If Kyle loses this case, he's going to expelled. If he wins.. well, he gets off the hook! There's pretty much no other way to go.

I haven't had anything new since Friday, which is when I found the last bit. I'll keep this updated though...

Otherwise, this all started because of some silly people taking jokes too far. Although I honestly don't know what the hell Leah's thinking with this (she pretty much just lost every single one of her friends in this once act.) I'm amazed that these people can't even identify between an obvious act of friends and a serious I'm-gonna-kill-you murder case. It's so rediculous.

Just one more thing to note- Rudy (a kid at our lunch table) is organizing a sit-in. On Monday, if things don't blow over yet (or if they get worse), we're going to get everyone Kyle knows to just sit in the Main Office until a sane decision is met. Everyone at my lunch table is a witness to what originally happened with the notebook. We all saw Leah laughing, joining in. But I now wonder if she plotted it- after all, Kyle tried to explain that she wrote on the notebook too, but when he flipped it over remembered that she tore the back off. That's where all her writing was...


So umm.. I really don't know why I posted this.. but it's just totally outrageous and I want to know what people have to say about this. I want to record Kyle explaining it himself on my camera, then show people on the internet. He says he wouldn't mind, and it'd save me a ton of time rather than typing it out. Once I get that, I'll post it here as well.
PostPosted: Sun May 14, 2006 7:33 am


Oof, I have a semi similar story. I moved to the US towards the rear end of 9th grade. I came from Europe, I kept a pocket knife with me. This was no big deal where I came from, every other kid had one too. It was one of those Swiss army knives, so I don't even know how I could injure someone with it.

Anyways, I dated one of my friends (we'll call him John) and he dumped me after about a week. Then stopped talking to me completly. We didn't fight or anything, in fact our "date" was exactly the same as we'd always hung out as friends. He just said that he couldn't date me because it felt too weird and then stopped talking to me. So whatever, I was asked out by one of his friends and I accepted. Suddenly, John starts acting crazy. He and all my friends (all females and ALL with a crush on him) start plotting against me. They start spreading rumours about me. It gets to the point where I have no friends at all and I can't go into the cafeteria without the entire room getting up and throwing things at me. I told the principal and he gave me special permission to eat my food in the library (in a back room).

Then my best friend (we'll call her Sarah) turns on me. I always knew that she had a crush on John and that she was upset when he and I decided to go out together, but I thought that, being my friend, she would have understood that it was nothing. Well, apparently she had been with me all this time spying on me and telling John everything, so that they had fodder for the rumour mill. My personal life was all over the place.

Then one day, I get called to the principal's office. He tells me that two kids came in and told him that I carried a knife (Sarah knew, we'd spent a lot of time in the woods together and I like wittling). He has a cop search me and they find it in my pocket. He then tells me and my mom that they two people claimed that I had used my knife to force one of them to sleep with me (I was a virgin, and rape ain't my thing). He said that the other person corroborated the story saying that she was there, that I had threatened to kill him if he didn't.

I later found out (through John's admittance) that it was him and Sarah.

I had NO past history of violence. I explained to the principal that I didn't know you weren't allowed to have pocket knives (his counter was "it was in the rule book that you get at the begining of the year." My counter was "you think anyone reads that?" the cop giggled, lol).

So I had to go to a probation officer for an interview. He explained that, depending on what he thought of me during the interview, he would recommend trial or not trial. I started crying, I explained to him everything that happened. He looked at me and said "you shouldn't be here." But, the law was the law and he couldn't put me back in school. He did, however, give me the lighest sentence he could, which was:
1. No trial
2. Offense would be stricken from my permanent record when I turned 18
3. I had to go through 60 hours of community service and I had to attend these "women's meetings" (basically, how to use birth control and such) and hang out with a social worker.
4. Couldn't step foot on public school grounds for a full calendar year.

For the next two weeks, I had to sit at home waiting to find out what would happen to me. I was scared out of my mind. There is nothing in this world as scary as looking just a single day into the future and having absolutly no idea what it might bring.

It turned out well, though. They sent me to a private school (curtesy of the tax payers of PA, MUAHAHAHAHA) that was really awesome. It was one teacher per one child and I really thrived in that environment. I ended up graduating valedictorian.

For the community service, I went to the Children's Cultural Center and made replicas of Native American masks out of paper mache. It was tons of fun and I got to bring some culture to little kids!

For the "women's meetings," those were the worst part simply because they were so boooooring. But hanging out with my social worker was awesome. She loved having me because I was so different from her other kids. We mostly just went to the movies or went out to dinner (again, curtesy of the taxpayers of PA). She was really nice.

So yeah, it was really scary and for a while I was so angry at John and Sarah for what they had done to my life. But then... everything sorted itself out and it turned out to be a really positive thing. I've learned an important lesson not to have friends (and certainly not to tell them things that can potentially be used against me), but other than that, it was a really fun time.

It certainly does seem like your friend Leah may have planned this. Why? Who knows! Just like my Sarah, I thought we were friends and she showed no signs at all of being angry at me. But she was and she plotted. People are just like that. I think you have the right idea, just don't seek her out. She wants to be friendless, fine. But if you seek her out and question her, you don't know how your questions might sound in court (if it comes to that). Just don't talk to her, at least until all of this is over.

Akhakhu


BerylAlexandros

PostPosted: Sun May 14, 2006 6:46 pm


Oh, my god. Both of those stories are so ridiculous! Psycho_Katie, I hope your stuff all works out okay.
PostPosted: Wed May 17, 2006 10:57 am


You can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time but you cant please all the people all the time.
It's hard but sometimes you just can't win. I think it says more about them than you.
"When I find myself in times of trouble, mother mary comes to me speaking words of wisdom 'let it be'".
It will pass and because they are such extreme situations, you will have learned many lessons for the future.
Keep your own faith, sister!

Flowerpot Llama


Savvy-Goes-Rawr

PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 6:30 pm


sad Wow, that really sucks. Yet another reason I don't do public school, my friends and I do little crap like that all the time! I go and buy 10 notebooks at the begining of every school year KNOWING for a fact that they'll all be filled with insults by the end of it. That's life, friends do that. The school board and legal dudes take that stuff WAY too seriously confused
PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 5:37 pm


Wow, that is all really stupidly horrible.

I have known kids to play along with something and then later say they were offended by it. I can't stand those people and I don't understand why they do that.

I know how school officials take things too seriously though. Yeah, you all need to show up to his hearing or w/e and testify as to what happened.

Prince Rilian
Crew


hehehehe102806

PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 9:20 pm


two years ago, my schools principal was talking the usual start of the year how to follow the rules presentation, and he happened to mention that a kid was expelled from my school last year. why? because he told someone during a game of basketball that he was going to kill them. The cops searched his house, and all that crap, and the whole time he said that he meant that his team would beat the other team.

another example: my sisters ex threw a match and a can of axe into a metal trashcan, which exploded. Someone claimed that it made thier ears ring. He was taken to jail and had to pay a 30k dollar bail. all because of the fact of that someones ears were ringing. After that, he was expelled. He dropped out and is now working in a video game joint.

although life isnt fair, the government should try to make is reasonable.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 15, 2007 7:28 pm


I go to a public school, but if I was called on for any little thing like that, I'd have been kicked out a year ago, at least....for a lot of things. Man.

I don't know if they're easier here in Oklahoma or not. I know that in middle school, someone I know was accused of setting a locker on fire with axe. All they did was put him in detention for one afternoon.

Pie Please


JewelsSparkle

PostPosted: Tue Jan 16, 2007 10:04 pm


Holy crap! That's really messed up (Kukushka's story too)!

I'm really glad I was (mostly) homeschooled & really REALLY glad I live in Australia (if you made a complaint like that you'd most likely get laughed at).
PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 1:22 pm


Well at my school a girl named Anna is a consent annoyance, she's allways complaining about something. She complained to the principal a while about that letting heathens use words like God and hell so laxly in school is an outrage and that letting them where crosses or other religious symbols when there obviously not true to God is a sin. Eventally Mr. Crook gave in and said he's tell everyone not to say things of a religious nature in school. Supposedly Anna threated a girl named Angel that she was going to get her expelled on this stupid rule.

Public school doesn't suck as much as the bitches it produces.

Dammed Monkey


KnightWren

PostPosted: Thu May 10, 2007 11:37 am


I have "atempted trerrorist actions" on my permident record, cause in school, I told some girls, if thay didnt STFU, I would blow up the school, with them in it! I wasnt being serious! Any one would have said something, if they had 10 frikken idiots swarming around you, asking you questions faster then you can answer! >___<
PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 3:47 pm


Sueing eachother over that? lmao that wouldn't even get you a detention at my old school - well if it did it would have been both parties that got one.

Saying that my step-cousin was put in isolation for wearing white socks.

xXxKirstyLouisexXx


Nyxelestia

PostPosted: Wed Jun 27, 2007 2:10 pm


Savvy-chan
sad Wow, that really sucks. Yet another reason I don't do public school, my friends and I do little crap like that all the time! I go and buy 10 notebooks at the begining of every school year KNOWING for a fact that they'll all be filled with insults by the end of it. That's life, friends do that. The school board and legal dudes take that stuff WAY too seriously confused


My friends and I do the exact same thing...well, no - I always buy too many notebooks by accident just in case, and we use them for that.

I have another story related to this.

My friends and I use our names as characters and we started doing a role-play type thing, and the notebook started resembling an IM thing. The role-play was mostly us insulting and threatening each other, but sometimes one of our characters would end up being the 'dominant' one who seemed to be the one who would hurt other characters. Also, the threats were starting to get more serious.

I would also like to point out that me and my five friends or so have been friends for years, long enough that our handwriting is quite similar - and we all use the same brand of pen, and usually the same or similar colors, shades of silver because that is our shared fav color.

Anyway, at one point, right when I was the 'dominant' one, when I left the notebook in our library after lunch. A teacher picked it up and started flipping through the notebook to find a name so she could return it - she found mine on the inside of the back cover and she read trough our talking.

I was called in later that day and told that I was to be suspended because, seeing as all of it looked like it was written by one person instead of many, they though I might actaully plan to carry out some of my threats.

They first called my mom and she flipped - until they read the names of my friends. Then she said this was normal and that my friends had witten it and that the only reason she wasn't going ot come over and talk to the staff was because she was stuck at work.

The staff at first didn't believe her when she said my friends wrote it.

Then the office called in my friends and told them of what 'I' had written and showed them the notebook - and they said they wrote it, and this note book was the third in a series. The staff was almost dumbfounded, and then asked why it all looked like that, and we had to explain that we had been friends since elementary school.

I (and they) were off the hook, but the story of what happened spread fast around the school, and we took our notebook contents and put them on MySpace, and soon our teachers became a joke, and people started writing 'violent threats' to their friends everywhere. It was hilarious.

The teachers seemed shocked because at first they still thought all these kids were going to carry out that threat, and seeme deven mroe surprised that seeing as none of it was serious, that we only found it hilarious.

One day a teacher, one of our cooler ones who knew of the notebook long before, read it, laughed at it, and once jokingly went through the first several pages and corrected all the grammar mistakes, asked us why we think the threats are funny, and we all said that so long as no one actaully carried it out, it was funny to think of the witty and creative things people came up with.

That was a long story...the point of it was that school officials to take thigns too seriously, because they don't understand that not much of what we say we mean literally.

Yeah, they do take things too seriously. Why is just completely beyond me seeing as they invade all our privacy as much as they legally can.

By the way, it sounds less like school officials and more like that friends of yours is manipulating them and the system.

Hope to learn more about the events.
PostPosted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 3:32 pm


My mouth dropped open when I read that she was suing him.
Her friend.
Hah, what a little coward.

I'm amazed at kids these days. Not even out of school and they're suing their friends. For one, I think it's considered harrassment to have the cops come in and hound you. Plus, it's humiliating.
I remember a principle that tried to expell me for having mismatched socks (gang sign? There was no explanation). Then again, when I had a little book where some friends and I used stickers to identify who we were, and wrote our numbers, favourite foods, cutest couples, favourite smells, everything. She snuck a suspension into my binder, and when I didn't go, she tried to expell me. Thank God my parents were supportive and understood my point.

Jeeze, I hope everything rolls over. I just can't believe someone would pull something like that... neutral

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 9:07 am


One time a friend of mine that I spent just about all of sixth grade with, stepped on a taco sauce packet and got campus cleanup because some girls sitting nearby saw us and said that he stepped on a ketchup packet and that it had squirted on them. The thing about this is so many others kids did it, in front of teachers, cafeteria ladies, even the principal and was at the most just told to pick up the packet. confused

I swear that if I ever go back to public school and something like that happened, I'll be ready to yell at them about all their flaws and how I would much rather be expelled rather than put up with the crappy teachers who are dumbing us down just because they think everyone should say together and not letting someone pass a grade won't help with their self-something (can't think of the word right now. Why not just copy Japan or Singapore?! That'll bring the school systems in America up.
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