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 Posted: Sat Jun 03, 2006 8:21 am
At first, I found this incredibly overwhealming and confusing, but now I just sort of find it funny...but let me start at the beginning.
I'm in love with this boy. And he's in love with me. Pretty simple. The trouble is, he moved away, and now we've been forced to have an almost strictly internet romance. He's comming to stay here over the summer, and he visits occasionally, so it isn't like I never see him, but being away from him for so long just kills me.
Enter Boy B. He decided to tell me (right before semester finals, mind you) that he has a crush on me. I sort of like him, but not enough to trade him for Boy A. Of course, when I told Boy A about it, he just wallowed in his own self-pity and told me that maybe it would be best to date someone close to home, even though that wouldn't be what he wanted (or what I wanted). Then we ended up talking about how much we love each other and he made me want to cry and...yeah...he didn't help at all.
The icing on the cake? They're best friends.
This situation has sort of resolved...I'm not going to date Boy B, because it wouldn't be right to use him as a way to replace Boy A. But Boy B took the rejection very well....really well...unbelievably well, and now he's still in love with me. And now I'm going to have to spend the whole summer with them. Together. That's going to be...awkward, to say the least.
Oh, and did I mention that my best friend told me that she has feelings for me too?
I know I'm irresistable, but this is rediculous!
Any advice? Share an experience, perhaps? Laugh at me and my sitcom-like situations? Complain about how long this post is? I'm all ears.
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Posted: Sun Jun 04, 2006 10:31 am
Hmm, i will share a similar experience but i doubt it will help. The choice you made was correct and seeing them both would be very awkward, just act like you don't notice and no one else will. My ex boyfriend of 1 year and 6 months, whom i haven't talked to until recently (2 and some years from when we broke up) calls me up at midnight to tell me he can't take it anymore and he's madly in love with me. He thinks about me everyday, blah, blah, blah. I get off the phone with him after 3 hours of him crying and me getting cranky from no sleep, only to learn that it didn't help much. I am now going out with my best friend of 4 years, we've been dating for 8 months. I don't want my ex back because he hurt me the first time around, and my boyfriend i have right now loves me and i'm not quit sure what to do. My ex boyfriend is now plotting every possible thing he can to get my boyfriend out of the picture. Then, my dear old friend who moved away calls me up and tells me that he is moving back and would like a chance to date me. This must be the month of professing love.
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Nittle Bewhittle Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 7:08 am
Meh. two acquaintance/friends of four years decided to tell me in the past month that they like me. (One first, who I had to reject, than the other, who i just rejected)
And then the person who I do actually like has a girlfriend. And person B who I just said I wouldn't go out with belongs to my pool.
So this'll be a fun summer.
At least next year, new school=new people.
Advice- Maybe bring a single friend when you all hangout? so he doesn't feel left out?
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 11:10 pm
Heh, Gler got his professing love mood out of his system waay back during Valentine's Day... >.< He doesn't like to think about it...
Anyways, from my, a man,'s point of view, always carry a knife with you when boy B is around. If the kid tries to hit on you, bring out said knife and remind him that you are happily dating boy A. 3nodding
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Nittle Bewhittle Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Jun 18, 2006 11:01 am
Gler Heh, Gler got his professing love mood out of his system waay back during Valentine's Day... >.< He doesn't like to think about it...
Anyways, from my, a man,'s point of view, always carry a knife with you when boy B is around. If the kid tries to hit on you, bring out said knife and remind him that you are happily dating boy A. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 10:39 am
Gler Heh, Gler got his professing love mood out of his system waay back during Valentine's Day... >.< He doesn't like to think about it...
Anyways, from my, a man,'s point of view, always carry a knife with you when boy B is around. If the kid tries to hit on you, bring out said knife and remind him that you are happily dating boy A. 3nodding Ha-ha! Sounds like a plan. Only Boy B is about twice the size of poor little Boy A and could probably snap him in two...At this point, I'm going to try to make sure that we're never alone together...even if it means torturing one of my female friends and making her my mother hen.
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 11:00 am
spaztaztical Meh. two acquaintance/friends of four years decided to tell me in the past month that they like me. (One first, who I had to reject, than the other, who i just rejected) And then the person who I do actually like has a girlfriend. And person B who I just said I wouldn't go out with belongs to my pool. So this'll be a fun summer. At least next year, new school=new people. Advice- Maybe bring a single friend when you all hangout? so he doesn't feel left out? Oh, poor dear...I've been in a situation where one of my stalker boys belonged to the same pool as me. I swear that boy must have lived at that pool! But it was okay as long as I always had a friend to cling to or a little kid to look after. I'm going to try my best to avoid being alone with him and, like I said, I can always annoy one of my single friends into comming with me.
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 11:08 am
Nittle Bewhittle Hmm, i will share a similar experience but i doubt it will help. The choice you made was correct and seeing them both would be very awkward, just act like you don't notice and no one else will. My ex boyfriend of 1 year and 6 months, whom i haven't talked to until recently (2 and some years from when we broke up) calls me up at midnight to tell me he can't take it anymore and he's madly in love with me. He thinks about me everyday, blah, blah, blah. I get off the phone with him after 3 hours of him crying and me getting cranky from no sleep, only to learn that it didn't help much. I am now going out with my best friend of 4 years, we've been dating for 8 months. I don't want my ex back because he hurt me the first time around, and my boyfriend i have right now loves me and i'm not quit sure what to do. My ex boyfriend is now plotting every possible thing he can to get my boyfriend out of the picture. Then, my dear old friend who moved away calls me up and tells me that he is moving back and would like a chance to date me. This must be the month of professing love. Ha-ha! It's nice to know some people are in the same situation as me. Maybe there's something in the water...Anyway, I'd tell you to stick with the person you're happy with and not trade it for something that may or may not work out. That's what I did...but there's no guarantee the lovesick puppydogs will back off just because you say no.
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Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 12:41 pm
AngelicTurtle Nittle Bewhittle Hmm, i will share a similar experience but i doubt it will help. The choice you made was correct and seeing them both would be very awkward, just act like you don't notice and no one else will. My ex boyfriend of 1 year and 6 months, whom i haven't talked to until recently (2 and some years from when we broke up) calls me up at midnight to tell me he can't take it anymore and he's madly in love with me. He thinks about me everyday, blah, blah, blah. I get off the phone with him after 3 hours of him crying and me getting cranky from no sleep, only to learn that it didn't help much. I am now going out with my best friend of 4 years, we've been dating for 8 months. I don't want my ex back because he hurt me the first time around, and my boyfriend i have right now loves me and i'm not quit sure what to do. My ex boyfriend is now plotting every possible thing he can to get my boyfriend out of the picture. Then, my dear old friend who moved away calls me up and tells me that he is moving back and would like a chance to date me. This must be the month of professing love. Ha-ha! It's nice to know some people are in the same situation as me. Maybe there's something in the water...Anyway, I'd tell you to stick with the person you're happy with and not trade it for something that may or may not work out. That's what I did...but there's no guarantee the lovesick puppydogs will back off just because you say no. Yup, although now my boyfriend isn't sure of what he wants and everything is starting all over again x_x
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Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 3:26 pm
Nittle Bewhittle AngelicTurtle Nittle Bewhittle Hmm, i will share a similar experience but i doubt it will help. The choice you made was correct and seeing them both would be very awkward, just act like you don't notice and no one else will. My ex boyfriend of 1 year and 6 months, whom i haven't talked to until recently (2 and some years from when we broke up) calls me up at midnight to tell me he can't take it anymore and he's madly in love with me. He thinks about me everyday, blah, blah, blah. I get off the phone with him after 3 hours of him crying and me getting cranky from no sleep, only to learn that it didn't help much. I am now going out with my best friend of 4 years, we've been dating for 8 months. I don't want my ex back because he hurt me the first time around, and my boyfriend i have right now loves me and i'm not quit sure what to do. My ex boyfriend is now plotting every possible thing he can to get my boyfriend out of the picture. Then, my dear old friend who moved away calls me up and tells me that he is moving back and would like a chance to date me. This must be the month of professing love. Ha-ha! It's nice to know some people are in the same situation as me. Maybe there's something in the water...Anyway, I'd tell you to stick with the person you're happy with and not trade it for something that may or may not work out. That's what I did...but there's no guarantee the lovesick puppydogs will back off just because you say no. Yup, although now my boyfriend isn't sure of what he wants and everything is starting all over again x_x Curse those boys and their indecision!
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Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 11:15 am
AngelicTurtle Nittle Bewhittle AngelicTurtle Nittle Bewhittle Hmm, i will share a similar experience but i doubt it will help. The choice you made was correct and seeing them both would be very awkward, just act like you don't notice and no one else will. My ex boyfriend of 1 year and 6 months, whom i haven't talked to until recently (2 and some years from when we broke up) calls me up at midnight to tell me he can't take it anymore and he's madly in love with me. He thinks about me everyday, blah, blah, blah. I get off the phone with him after 3 hours of him crying and me getting cranky from no sleep, only to learn that it didn't help much. I am now going out with my best friend of 4 years, we've been dating for 8 months. I don't want my ex back because he hurt me the first time around, and my boyfriend i have right now loves me and i'm not quit sure what to do. My ex boyfriend is now plotting every possible thing he can to get my boyfriend out of the picture. Then, my dear old friend who moved away calls me up and tells me that he is moving back and would like a chance to date me. This must be the month of professing love. Ha-ha! It's nice to know some people are in the same situation as me. Maybe there's something in the water...Anyway, I'd tell you to stick with the person you're happy with and not trade it for something that may or may not work out. That's what I did...but there's no guarantee the lovesick puppydogs will back off just because you say no. Yup, although now my boyfriend isn't sure of what he wants and everything is starting all over again x_x Curse those boys and their indecision! Indeed T.T
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Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2006 3:41 pm
Lol. I have a serious relationship problems... xd .
Ok. I introduced let's say Al to my friend so she would stop bugging me. I fell in love with him. Well so did she. So then I decided pfft whatever she can have him..didn't work. Lol. A couple months later and now he loves me and refuses to go out with her. Well I was over my ex (well I thought I was) but now since I called him, I have fallen for him ... again. xd But I still like Al since I've known him for awile. So I don't know what to do. ((And did I mention the wicked age distance between me and Al, and he lives in a different state, and I've never met him? xd )
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Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 6:24 pm
...EmoCassie... Lol. I have a serious relationship problems... xd . Ok. I introduced let's say Al to my friend so she would stop bugging me. I fell in love with him. Well so did she. So then I decided pfft whatever she can have him..didn't work. Lol. A couple months later and now he loves me and refuses to go out with her. Well I was over my ex (well I thought I was) but now since I called him, I have fallen for him ... again. xd But I still like Al since I've known him for awile. So I don't know what to do. ((And did I mention the wicked age distance between me and Al, and he lives in a different state, and I've never met him? xd ) Ahhness!!! I still love my ex, but he's a douchebag so i am forced to move on =(
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 11:37 am
...EmoCassie... Lol. I have a serious relationship problems... xd . Ok. I introduced let's say Al to my friend so she would stop bugging me. I fell in love with him. Well so did she. So then I decided pfft whatever she can have him..didn't work. Lol. A couple months later and now he loves me and refuses to go out with her. Well I was over my ex (well I thought I was) but now since I called him, I have fallen for him ... again. xd But I still like Al since I've known him for awile. So I don't know what to do. ((And did I mention the wicked age distance between me and Al, and he lives in a different state, and I've never met him? xd ) Wow...I have no room to complain eek
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Posted: Tue Oct 10, 2006 8:03 am
Trust me, I'm well versed in love trinagles and awkaward situations.
currently in both,as a matter o fact.
And I don't know if it's me, but I sense I storm a' brewin between me and the girl I'm after's boyfriend, I don't see why though, I'm only trying to steal his girlfiriend. =P
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