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 Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 1:41 pm
Hi everyone, I'm trying to get back togeather with my gf it's been 3 days now and I still can't let her go. I feal the only way I'll truly be happy again is by being her bf again plz help in any way posible I'm running out of ideas crying crying
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 1:55 pm
Well, first off, how long have you two been together? How and why did yall break up? I need a little more detail before I can help. sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 3:01 pm
Yup. 3nodding And was she the one that borke up with you, or the other way around?
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Posted: Tue Apr 05, 2005 10:58 am
We have neen togeather for 6 months and she broke up with me saying whe don't have enough in common...but I have more in common with her then anyone else gonk
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:03 am
Well then the next step would be to tell us what you have already tried to get her back. If you need to prove to her that you have things in common with her I would suggest showing her that you do. Do the things she does, such as same movie intrests, same taste in books, artwork, shows, anything you can think of to try and get inside her head and think like she does. Then when you've gathered enough insight you'll know how either win her back another way, or have proven to her that there is plenty for you to relate with.
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 7:18 am
And if what Lance said doesn't work then maybe she's not the right girl for you. I mean, if she still insists that you two have nothing in common then I'm sure you could find another girl who'd have a lot in common with you. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 2:51 pm
yup! *can't think of anything to add on to Sunny and Lance's thoughts snd just nods, agreeing.* 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 4:40 pm
i hate to say it but, don't bug her about it...........it'll just make her like you even less.
I'd tell her something like: "Look, i love you.......and right now i know you don't love me.....but if you ever do again.....or if you ever need anything, i'll be here for you."
Then keep your distance for awhile.........still smile at her if she passes you and stuff though.
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 6:03 pm
3nodding You really shouldn't bug her about it. If it was me, I would hate it if my ex came up to me and said. "I know you don't love me, but I love you and I'm here for you." I'd rather he said "Hey, we can still be friends, right?" and let me come to him. Don't pressure her, but don't act like your not interested anymore. 3nodding
Girl's minds are very complicated... sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 6:19 pm
Angels_can_fly2 3nodding You really shouldn't bug her about it. If it was me, I would hate it if my ex came up to me and said. "I know you don't love me, but I love you and I'm here for you." I'd rather he said "Hey, we can still be friends, right?" and let me come to him. Don't pressure her, but don't act like your not interested anymore. 3nodding Girl's minds are very complicated... sweatdrop Yes indeed our minds are complicated. Ummm..all I'd have to say is do /nothing/ over email. Email proves nothing just a lazy way to say something. If you truly love her let it take time. Maybe it's not you. I know I strayed away from my Boyfriend when my grandfather passed away. I gave him no clues but eventually he cornered me and asked me. It was the first time he'd actually asked me straight out. It was actually kind of sweet because when he said it I was crying like mad and he huggled me ^^... Just be positive are you sure its you. Most girl's hate it when you think you know whats wrong when your actually totally wrong.
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 6:29 pm
Shikirah Yes indeed our minds are complicated. Ummm..all I'd have to say is do /nothing/ over email. Email proves nothing just a lazy way to say something. If you truly love her let it take time. Maybe it's not you. I know I strayed away from my Boyfriend when my grandfather passed away. I gave him no clues but eventually he cornered me and asked me. It was the first time he'd actually asked me straight out. It was actually kind of sweet because when he said it I was crying like mad and he huggled me ^^... Just be positive are you sure its you. Most girl's hate it when you think you know whats wrong when your actually totally wrong. Yush, -NEVER- e-mail her about it. That is where it all goes downhill. I remember when my ex did that....it totally pissed me off that he couldn't just talk to me about it at school. And there's always the straight out way. Ask her what you did wrong so that next time you can improve on that. 3nodding Of course, some girls don't like that confrontation, but maybe she doesn't mind it... Anywho, you should usually trust what your gut is telling you to do and go along with it. 3nodding
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