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 Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 5:56 am
Okay, well this is not for me, for sure. I don't really feel comfertable saing who it really is for so I'll make fake names.
Lately, Kelly and Jack have been having a hard time getting allong. Jack will always take out any anger he has, on Kelly. Normally Kelly would stand up for herself and the person he would be yelling at her about, but now it seems that it happens so often she just walks away. When Jack comes home, Kelly does not even say 'Hello'. Leaving Jack to say things like "I can't even get a simple hello, when I get home."
Kelly will be out with her friends or familey, and not care about jack. Rolling her eyes at things that he did. Or shrugging most things that connect with him off.
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Back to Reality, That is the problem. There are of corse more things that happen but I don't have forever to name them. They usto be in love... are they still.
Dont get me wrong they have their times were they sit and talk for a good hour, about work and school. Its just weird how the connect now. Always being in fights or somthing.
What do you think?
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 4:33 pm
If they're getting along okay between fights, that's a good sign.
It means that they still have time left in their relationship, good time in which they can enjoy each other.
From what I can understand, "Jack" is under stress and is releasing said stress upon "Kelly." "Kelly" has adapted to his form of stress relief by secluding herself from "Jack."
I've seen couples do this, and it's generally a sign of a problem that needs fixing.
If possible, have "Kelly" and "Jack" sit down together or with someone else and have them talk out the whole issue. Maybe they can get something resolved.
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 4:42 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 5:29 pm
Even though, that when Kelly is away from Jack. She talks about him likes he nouthing. Like.
Me: Hey is Jack working this weekend
Kelly: No sadly
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 9:36 pm
This is a complex situation. They do need to actually sit down with each other and talk. If they cannot solve their problem, maybe they should call it quits. It makes no sense to me to be in a relationship where you're unhappy and not working to fix it. Hopefully for them, they can work it out. Some people say, that when you really love someone, sometimes you have to let them go.
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Posted: Mon Jun 26, 2006 1:10 pm
Sounds like Jack and Kelly needs a break. confused Sounds like they're together only for the sake of being together. They need to talk about the pros and cons... maybe the love has just fizzled away... it happens sometimes... -_-
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