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PostPosted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 9:59 pm


I know that this might be a kinda touchy subject, and I didn't wanna just make a blatant poll...

I have reviewed articles about the HDM movie, and one of the main things that they were struggling with was how to portray Will and Lyra's relationship. As most of you know there is a scene in TAS that leads readers to believe that Will and Lyra MAY have had sex. True to form PP left it up to each individual reader to decide for themselves whether they "Went all the way" or not, but now Hollywood is going to be making the decission.

I am curious to know what my fellow guild members think REALLY happend. Like I said before, PP open-ended this topic to let his readers personalize the story.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 4:06 am


I thought they "went all the way"...which, honestly, kind of disturbed me sweatdrop . I actually have an amusing memory of the first time I read that particular part. Consists of my eyes going wider than healthy. But maybe I just have a sick mind.

I think Hollywood will play it down to little more than a kiss if they actually go with actruate aged actors.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:42 pm


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I thought they "went all the way"...which, honestly, kind of disturbed me sweatdrop . I actually have an amusing memory of the first time I read that particular part. Consists of my eyes going wider than healthy. But maybe I just have a sick mind.

I think Hollywood will play it down to little more than a kiss if they actually go with actruate aged actors.

Yea, that's the impression that I got too, and I think that they were to young. Then again... Oh, I really don't know. Somehow I guess that in a way I was hoping for it, but then there's the fact that they are only 13 or so, and that is just TOO YOUNG... (< - - - Opinion)

I also heard that the directors were thinking of making the characters older so that they could pull that off, but that would seriously ruin everything else. I mean, they can't very well have Lyra playing in the mud, and acting 11 when they say that she's 17, right?

I think that if they used actors(resses) of the correct age (11-13) they could make the movies acurately enough, and by the tim the third one was released Lyra and Will would be about 13... So at that age MAYBE they could get away with showing a bit more then kissing... Except that everyone that doesn't know HDM really well would be horrified and quite possibly storm out of the theater in a huff raving about childrens rights and whatnot... So I just have no idea.

Pooh. Anywho...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 4:03 pm


I was never, ever under the impression they went all the way. That's not to say I didn't consider that one scene you refer to as perhaps leading up to that being a possibility. But, for some reason, I never believe that Lyra and Will had sex. I believe this for a couple of reasons. First of all, Will is an exceptionally responsible boy, and more than that, he is a rather naive one. He was actually relatively sheltered. I believe that it wouldn't occur to him at all to even attempt anything with Lyra. And Lyra would probably never really have had the talk about birds and the bees, let alone think to attempt it.

Of course, this is just my interpretation. For all I know, many more people than me saw this to the contrary. I just don't know if Hollywood would make the gutsy move of going through with this, especially because I am still unsure as to whether or not the producers of the movie want a PG rating, or PG-13 sweatdrop

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 4:12 pm


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I was never, ever under the impression they went all the way. That's not to say I didn't consider that one scene you refer to as perhaps leading up to that being a possibility. But, for some reason, I never believe that Lyra and Will had sex. I believe this for a couple of reasons. First of all, Will is an exceptionally responsible boy, and more than that, he is a rather naive one. He was actually relatively sheltered. I believe that it wouldn't occur to him at all to even attempt anything with Lyra. And Lyra would probably never really have had the talk about birds and the bees, let alone think to attempt it.

Of course, this is just my interpretation. For all I know, many more people than me saw this to the contrary. I just don't know if Hollywood would make the gutsy move of going through with this, especially because I am still unsure as to whether or not the producers of the movie want a PG rating, or PG-13 sweatdrop

You have a point! I just don't know what exactly to think... Anyway, I think that they should rate the movie PG-13 so that they don't have to downplay the battles and stuff. I want them to make the scarey parts scarey, and so on and so forth. I don't want them to change ANYHTING!!!! crying crying crying An R rating is ridiculous, but I want them to do it right, and if they have to make it PG-13 to do that then goo fooor iiitt!!! heart domokun heart domokun heart
PostPosted: Wed Apr 20, 2005 1:08 am


I personally believe that they did have sex, and there's no real problem with that at all. It's a perfectly nature and healthy thing for them to engage in and it would come naturally. You don't need to have it explained to you to know how it works, when you're with the one you love, nothing else matters but her. A large part of the story is about coming of age, and sex is part of growing up and nothing to be ashamed of.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 20, 2005 4:42 pm


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I personally believe that they did have sex, and there's no real problem with that at all. It's a perfectly nature and healthy thing for them to engage in and it would come naturally. You don't need to have it explained to you to know how it works, when you're with the one you love, nothing else matters but her. A large part of the story is about coming of age, and sex is part of growing up and nothing to be ashamed of.


*Jumps up and down* You have a good point too! Darn... It's just that I know someone that got pregnant at 15, and she started having sex at 13, so my opinion is a bit byassed (sp?). But I see what you mean. And no, people don't really need the birds and the bees explained to them, it's biological.

Truth be told the first time read HDM I read that part and was actually pretty happy redface redface redface I mean, it just adds to the overall story and ending. The ending still would have been horribly sad, but it seemed even worse to me because of that... Hmmm
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 20, 2005 6:29 pm


Hmm, well... to a point you don't need the birds and the bees explained, but... generally it isn't obvious either. I would never have even considered how sex really works if I was never told, and I doubt Lyra has thought about it. Will would know, though, no doubt.
But, just because it's natural doesn't make it good. Pregnancy and so on is not something to be taken lightly. I don't know though, if Lyra did have Will's child, imagine how different the ending would be! It's fascinating to consider, in my opinion 3nodding

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 21, 2005 5:05 am


I doubt they really did think about it before hand. In that kind of thing instinct kind of takes over at a certain point.

Yes, I'm all for the PG-13. If Harry Potter can pull it off, so can HDM.
PostPosted: Thu Apr 21, 2005 4:04 pm


Arianllyn
Hmm, well... to a point you don't need the birds and the bees explained, but... generally it isn't obvious either. I would never have even considered how sex really works if I was never told, and I doubt Lyra has thought about it. Will would know, though, no doubt.
But, just because it's natural doesn't make it good. Pregnancy and so on is not something to be taken lightly. I don't know though, if Lyra did have Will's child, imagine how different the ending would be! It's fascinating to consider, in my opinion 3nodding

I know what you mean about "not to be taken lightly"..... And WOW the ending sure whould have been different.... WOOOOOOOWWWWW. OMG that is STRANGE to think about. You know, I have brainstormed a million different alternate endings, and this just never occured to me. The many many new possibilities...

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 21, 2005 6:13 pm


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Arianllyn
Hmm, well... to a point you don't need the birds and the bees explained, but... generally it isn't obvious either. I would never have even considered how sex really works if I was never told, and I doubt Lyra has thought about it. Will would know, though, no doubt.
But, just because it's natural doesn't make it good. Pregnancy and so on is not something to be taken lightly. I don't know though, if Lyra did have Will's child, imagine how different the ending would be! It's fascinating to consider, in my opinion 3nodding

I know what you mean about "not to be taken lightly"..... And WOW the ending sure whould have been different.... WOOOOOOOWWWWW. OMG that is STRANGE to think about. You know, I have brainstormed a million different alternate endings, and this just never occured to me. The many many new possibilities...

Mm, truth be told, it didn't occur to me till I posted that! But, yeah, the second
I mentioned it, my mind began churning. Heh, I don't even know what could possibly happen, but... I'll think on it.
PostPosted: Thu Apr 21, 2005 11:52 pm


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I personally believe that they did have sex, and there's no real problem with that at all. It's a perfectly nature and healthy thing for them to engage in and it would come naturally. You don't need to have it explained to you to know how it works, when you're with the one you love, nothing else matters but her. A large part of the story is about coming of age, and sex is part of growing up and nothing to be ashamed of.


Truth be told the first time read HDM I read that part and was actually pretty happy redface redface redface I mean, it just adds to the overall story and ending. The ending still would have been horribly sad, but it seemed even worse to me because of that... Hmmm.

Yeah, for me my assumptions on what happened between Will and Lyra really heightened the emotion of the ending. The Amber Spyglass and Where the Red Fern Grows are the only books I can think of where I've flat out cried because the emotion was so intense.

That and I also love the way the scene seemed (in my mind) to parallel a biblical story; the story of Adam and Eve, and the fruit from the Tree of Knowledge (typically characterized as an apple. For further parallels lets just say Mary is the tempter, by telling them story's of how she fell in love, and stimulating a thirst for knowledge or something). When Lyra gave Will the little red fruit, I couldn't help but draw the comparison, and the knowledge that they were gaining was knowledge of themselves, and knowledge of love. I'd always been mystified why the Bible would have gaining knowledge be sinful, and was so happy to see this myth transformed into a positive uplifting experience rather than be the origin of sin (as the church would put it). There's nothing sinful about being true to ones feelings and loving, and learning. Nothing!

Arianllyn

Hmm, well... to a point you don't need the birds and the bees explained, but... generally it isn't obvious either. I would never have even considered how sex really works if I was never told, and I doubt Lyra has thought about it. Will would know, though, no doubt.
But, just because it's natural doesn't make it good. Pregnancy and so on is not something to be taken lightly. I don't know though, if Lyra did have Will's child, imagine how different the ending would be! It's fascinating to consider, in my opinion


I'm not so sure I agree with you. I'm almost positive that it would be almost painfully obvious to them both what they would need to do. I'm curious why you're so sure Will would know what to do, and why Lyra wouldn't. Most girls I've talked to on the subject have told me that they have as intense feelings, physical desires and urges for sex as any guy. I'm sure that after the kissing the physical, mental, and emotional arousal would be to the point where things would just fall into place, so to speak.

And while it's true that something natural not being of necessity good, I would argue that sharing the physical manifestation of passionate love for one another is good. Granted there are potential consequences, which may necessitate changes in future plans, and some degree of hardship, it's impossible to tell what the future might hold anyway. If avoiding pregnancy is important to you then, by all means you should take precaution (don't get me wrong), and granted that as children they would probably be unaware of that and that may lead them to trouble, I would hesitate to say that the action is wrong on account of it's consequences. But arguing about how to place moral worth on an action is something that's preoccupied philosopher's for millennia with no sound agreement having been reached.

As for Lyra having Will's child, do we know for a fact that this is ruled out as a possibility? I don't quite remember the time scale (as it's been awhile since I read the book last) but it certainly seems plausible that a potential pregnancy would be as yet undetected. Would be an interesting twist, but I doubt anything official will come of it, as that would deprive readers of letting Will and Lyra's relationship to progress no farther than they wish it (which seemed to be the intent).

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 22, 2005 4:48 am


Heh, well, you are definitely of a liberal mindset, my friend. What I believe and what I think happened in this book are too different things. I am in the same boat thought wise as you, I promise. I agree that sex is healthy, natural and nothing to be ashamed of at all. But, again you seem to be speaking from the position of a man, and that is not a bad thing, but it also something that would cause you to not fully understand exactly how difficult pregnency is. It is not as simple as just changing future plans. It, in my opinion, is always a wonderful and joyous thing to be pregnant, but if as a young woman you give birth and that birth ruins your future plans, it can be impossible to truly get over that. The child resulting will then suffer and that is what I am worried about, not just the couple involved, but the child that would result. It is very selfish as an actively sexual person to NOT consider that potential human being...

As for the novel, the only reason I think that Lyra would be unaware is because she may very well have felt the urge and need for touching and physical contact, and perhaps vague sexual urges, I doubt that she is experienced enough to see where those feelings come from. However, because all of her young friends were boys, it is likely she knows the technicalities of sex. I am betting that it wasn't disscussed much though, and she definitely didn't have any girlfriends to do this discussing with either. However, like everything in this book, your opinion will dictate your view of how this impacts the ending, and this is how I view it. Not everyone is going to agree.

I suppose in the end I am saying that is it extremely possible that they had
sex, however the thought never occured to me while reading the novel. And regardless of my views on sexuality and pregnancy and so on, it is different for each circumstance and if it were me in those children's shoes, I can't say for sure which route I would have chosen. If I knew I could never truly be with the person I loved forever, I don't know if I would have chosen to risk my future just to spend one night with him. That is something that I can't simply say a "Yes" or "No" too. So, heh, in the end... I don't know if I have come to a satifactory conclusion, but it is how I feel nonetheless.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2005 1:41 am


Arianllyn
Heh, well, you are definitely of a liberal mindset, my friend. What I believe and what I think happened in this book are too different things. I am in the same boat thought wise as you, I promise. I agree that sex is healthy, natural and nothing to be ashamed of at all.

Fair enough.
Arianllyn
But, again you seem to be speaking from the position of a man, and that is not a bad thing, but it also something that would cause you to not fully understand exactly how difficult pregnency is. It is not as simple as just changing future plans.

There is a reason for that wink . And yes I don't really understand completely, and perhaps I'm unable to convey what I mean with words, but I certainly hope I didn't come off that naive.
Arianllyn

It, in my opinion, is always a wonderful and joyous thing to be pregnant, but if as a young woman you give birth and that birth ruins your future plans, it can be impossible to truly get over that. The child resulting will then suffer and that is what I am worried about, not just the couple involved, but the child that would result. It is very selfish as an actively sexual person to NOT consider that potential human being...

You have a point. I can honestly say that thinking about the baby never occurred to me.

Arianllyn
As for the novel, the only reason I think that Lyra would be unaware is because she may very well have felt the urge and need for touching and physical contact, and perhaps vague sexual urges, I doubt that she is experienced enough to see where those feelings come from. However, because all of her young friends were boys, it is likely she knows the technicalities of sex. I am betting that it wasn't disscussed much though, and she definitely didn't have any girlfriends to do this discussing with either. However, like everything in this book, your opinion will dictate your view of how this impacts the ending, and this is how I view it. Not everyone is going to agree.

I suppose in the end I am saying that is it extremely possible that they had sex, however the thought never occured to me while reading the novel. And regardless of my views on sexuality and pregnancy and so on, it is different for each circumstance and if it were me in those children's shoes, I can't say for sure which route I would have chosen. If I knew I could never truly be with the person I loved forever, I don't know if I would have chosen to risk my future just to spend one night with him. That is something that I can't simply say a "Yes" or "No" too. So, heh, in the end... I don't know if I have come to a satifactory conclusion, but it is how I feel nonetheless.

I'm glad to have heard your thoughts and explanations, and while I've come to different conclusions I can certainly respect your position. Agree to disagree?

(Sorry if this post seems rather trivial and pointless, but I've already said my piece and don't really have anything new to add, but wanted to put some closure to the topic, so that you knew I read it.)

Balcerzak


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 23, 2005 5:52 am


Heh, well, I was just saying that in the end we really do agree, but that I didn't want the viewpoint of a woman being gone unsaid. You certainly don't seem naive to me, but in my experience, no matter how experienced the man there are still certain things that are impossible for them to understand. Well, unless maybe you're a OB-GYN or something. xd

Regardless, yes, I suppose agreeing to disagree seems like an okay way to end this.
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