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 Posted: Sun Jul 23, 2006 9:35 pm
ok what the hell is wrong with me???? all my dating life i wanted a guy who treats me good and treats me like a princess, now that i have him, the one night he doesnt want to hang with me i get a pissy and worried that he is a d**k... mind you that is all i have ever dated was jerks.... whats wrong with me.
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Posted: Mon Jul 24, 2006 7:24 am
You've probably just dated too many jerks... Not the most complex anwser, but hey, it's me! (OK I don't expect anyone to understand that, insider joke)
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 6:40 am
sometimes a guy just needs time for himself. if he dosent want to hang out, he's probly just needing some "me time". if he does it again, or he starts doing it more often, ask him if something is bothering him. if he is a respectable guy, he'll tell you whats up.
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 2:01 pm
To be quite honest, if any guy wanted to be around me every wakeing moment of every day, I would be a bit creeped out... then again this might be why I have never had a boyfriend...
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Posted: Tue Oct 10, 2006 10:22 am
i agree with previous advice. some space is good and very healthy. its like that thing that says "how can i miss you if you wont go away?" i understand your caution but it's okay let things flow and if it starts falling apart confront him.
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Posted: Fri Mar 16, 2007 6:01 pm
all i got to say is folow ur heart
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 5:19 pm
I know how you feel (I realize this is probably a bit late, but oh well)
But you honestly have to let him be a guy sometimes.
If he is amazing, and treats you right, and really cares, then do the same, treat him right, and most importantly, trust the boy. He deserves it.
All guys make mistakes, but if he just wants time to himself sometimes to hang with the guys, let him. He's more likely to be happy with you if he has time to goof off and just be a boy.
Just like many girls like girl's nights, and sleepovers, and movie nights, guys like to spend time alone too.
My guy is the same way sometimes, but I know I've got a good one, and I trust him completely.
If it makes you uncomfortable, then just get to know his guy friends a bit. They probably aren't bad at all.
I know it has helped me a little to atleast know one or two of the people my guy was hanging out with.
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