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A QUESTION REALLY MEANT FOR THE MEN OF THIS GUILD, BUT I GUESS THE WOMEN CAN RESPOND TOO

For starters I don't know if this is the right place to post this, I mean I don't know if I should post it here or in discussion or whatever, but yea here goes...ahem...Boobs ....whay are we guys so attracted to them, I mean really why is it when some of us talk to women we focus on the Boobs....did GOD originally Implant the wanting to look at a woman's...wel frontal chest area, but this has gone aray because of lust(just like we're only suppose to be having sex with one person the one we love in marriage but we have sex for pleasure or just misguidingly have sex with the person we love outside marriage)..or is it just plain old mr.lust? I mean for one I find them attractive, but I mean what the heck I do notice I sometimes focus my attention from a girls face(sometimes when she's speaking to me) to her chest...whats up with that?

good questions GOD do you have an explanation for these questions?

Lazurus has a good point way back when people got merried at a young age and in some places still do. there are 2 options when it comes to this on why we are attracted. 1: it is misterius its there and we are told not to look and in doing so we cant help it. there just out of our grasp and that drives us guys wild so yeah its a form of lust.2: God mad us hormonaly attracted to them for they have alot off nerve endings there not unlike the cliteris or the tip of the p***s. I think it is a combination of both options. Lust is probably the worst enimy of most men and some females cause it is a drive once activated we cant fully controle. When guys get excited it releaces a chemical that gives you a high not unlike that of any addictive drug. It also saves the image to our brain so it haunts us later. the way to beat lust is to not get the chemical releaced because it is a waterfall effect. guys are turned on by sight more then anything else so that makes it hard on us. there are two areas we need to concore in order to beat lust with Gods help we can do it. the first is the eyes for it is the gateway to the mind. Keep your eyes from woundering and you can concore the next step. That is your mind. take controle of your mind. Keep your thoughts pure and you wont have a problem. I myself strugle with this cause sex is everywhere even on the cartoons. Girls wear less and that gets us like a magnet. we can do it we just need some help 3nodding

*luaghs* maybe it's just that yo uare blessed with the inability to find women totaly devoted to christ attractive(until hopefuly the woman you are to marry) but trust me they do infact make girls who love jesus dropdead gorgeous infact the fact that they love christ makes them even more attractive.

i like how you just come out and say..... boobs. xp i have no idea, guys are crazy. they just get in the way. they make cloths hard to fit and are a nuscence if you ask me. personally i didn't even think that Christian guy's noticed that kinda thing sweatdrop . the world isn't helping you though. if a girl has words one her top they are right across her chest. like a sigh to look at them. i like Christian tops, there great. non of that stuff going on. if it makes you feel better though i cover up ^_^ that's one down at least i guess.

Just because we're Christian dosen't mean we don't still have male instincts. teh Human male hits his sexual peak somewhere between (ithink) 16-19 years of age. during that time hs head is a hormonal sooting galery. Being Christian makes this period of his life even harder. We have control over our concious thoughts but the unconcious ones that surface directly after seeing a flash os cleavedge are automatic responses. we have to imediately swing out minds in a new direction. it realy sucks

we needed testosterone back when we were joining armise at 12. it's the smae hormone that drives the violent urges of the male. as for the rest of yuor post i've already answered.

I know szhenick i'm getting tired of that. evil