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 Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 1:35 pm
Okay, I don't want to talk to my family or friends about this, but I need advise from someone, so here I am. For three years my life has been going downhill. But for the last few months or so, I feel like it's been dropping down a 90 degree angle. Here's why: My dad yells and curses a lot, and is very hard to get along with. He hardly knows me except for the fact that I'm his daughter. He and my mom fight a lot, and he's always talking about leaving. My little brother has a severe case of ADHD, along with ODD and possibly ADD, and he's so hyper, even in public. I'm afraid to go out of the house with him, because when he yells and calls people names, I'm afraid some bad person will come out and shoot him. crying And there is nothing wrong with my mother, she is the only reason I'm not dead yet. She is always saying that I'm all she has to fall back on, and she'd be lost without me. I can't bring myself to do it, because I care about her so much. I know this stuff doesn't sound that bad, but it is if you're actually there. crying Well, anywho, is there any way at all to not be so miserable and still live? Thank you so much, everybody.
P.S. I'm not emo. I am usually very perky around people, but all sad and teary in my room. And sorry this post is so long. sweatdrop
[EDIT] I've read the posts and pms related to this thread and I've done lots of thinking. If I did do what I won't speak of any more, I'd really be missing out! I'd never get to see the great adult my brother would be, I'd devistate all the people I love and care about, who love and care about me. And I'd never get to accomplish my dreams. It was dumb of me to even consider it. Could we forget this post ever happened? crying
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 6:23 pm
NO.
Suicide is never the answer,
My parents fight alot when they're actually in the same room together and my dad always looks at me like I'm a dissapointment,
But it's never really as bad as it seems.
No matter how bad things are,
They can ALWAYS get worse,
And for most people,
They usually do,
But if you just try to make things seem better,
Then...
It dosn't really hurt as much.
Listen to some good music,
Talk to friends and try to talk to your mother frequently.
ADD kids are a stress,
But when they grow up,
They're freakin' hilarious!
My step has ADD and he always switches topics at random,
It was really anoying when he was ten or so,
But now it's alot better.
That's really all I have to offer,
But if you really need someone to talk to,
Just PM me<3
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 5:20 am
xX[Jaz]Xx NO.
Suicide is never the answer,
My parents fight alot when they're actually in the same room together and my dad always looks at me like I'm a dissapointment,
But it's never really as bad as it seems.
No matter how bad things are,
They can ALWAYS get worse,
And for most people,
They usually do,
But if you just try to make things seem better,
Then...
It dosn't really hurt as much.
Listen to some good music,
Talk to friends and try to talk to your mother frequently.
ADD kids are a stress,
But when they grow up,
They're freakin' hilarious!
My step has ADD and he always switches topics at random,
It was really anoying when he was ten or so,
But now it's alot better.
That's really all I have to offer,
But if you really need someone to talk to,
Just PM me<3 Thank you so much. crying
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 1:59 pm
I know your dad may be a total douche, and you're afraid of him leaving. But, it's not neccisarily a bad thing if he does. I mean, there'll be no more yelling, right? :] But even if he doesn't, and he may be a pain, alot of kids/teens have at least one really, really annoying, "God I wish this person would leave me alone" parent. I mean, there's no avoiding it. I think it's like, a curse on the youth or something. XP
But about your brother? I mean, he can't help it. :3 And if you're so worried, just don't take him into some really bad neighborhood, where the people are irritable. Hehe. And Jaz is totally right; grown up ADD kids are lots of fun. XP
Overall, I know how stressful home life can be, but what about your friends and stuff? I mean, committing suicide hurts sooo many people, and it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I mean, you won't always have to deal with your dad, and when your brother grows up, he'll be a pretty cool guy, I bet! So why throw it all away, now? I bet if you just wait a year, or maybe even less, things will have fixed themselves and life will be like, totally awesome. <3
But yeah. :3 I'd hang out with your friends more often, definately, and listen to some music. And, maybe, just chill, and maybe join some clubs or sports at your school. That way, you won't have to spend so much time at home.::Nod-nod.::
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 4:01 pm
Laeluu I know your dad may be a total douche, and you're afraid of him leaving. But, it's not neccisarily a bad thing if he does. I mean, there'll be no more yelling, right? :] But even if he doesn't, and he may be a pain, alot of kids/teens have at least one really, really annoying, "God I wish this person would leave me alone" parent. I mean, there's no avoiding it. I think it's like, a curse on the youth or something. XP
But about your brother? I mean, he can't help it. :3 And if you're so worried, just don't take him into some really bad neighborhood, where the people are irritable. Hehe. And Jaz is totally right; grown up ADD kids are lots of fun. XP
Overall, I know how stressful home life can be, but what about your friends and stuff? I mean, committing suicide hurts sooo many people, and it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I mean, you won't always have to deal with your dad, and when your brother grows up, he'll be a pretty cool guy, I bet! So why throw it all away, now? I bet if you just wait a year, or maybe even less, things will have fixed themselves and life will be like, totally awesome. <3
But yeah. :3 I'd hang out with your friends more often, definately, and listen to some music. And, maybe, just chill, and maybe join some clubs or sports at your school. That way, you won't have to spend so much time at home.::Nod-nod.:: You both are right. I would be missing out if I did that, wouldn't I?
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 5:53 pm
Definately. I mean, imagine all the stuff you love! Is it really worth throwing ALL of that away, just because of a couple of stupid people? And I mean, we're just some random guild on the internet, and we love ya' already! Imagine how many other people are out there that you could get to know and love! The numbers are, like, countless! <3
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Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 4:49 pm
:3 Done and done.::Locks and moves.:: heart Much love! And I'm so totally glad that you changed your mind. heart
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