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 Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 11:27 am
I don't love my sister. She has no respect for me or my belongings and treats me like I'm not a person. She is also constantly ratting on me which has gotten me in trouble MANY times. I love my friends much, much more than I care for my sister.
Aren't you suppose to love people who deserve your love? I feel she doesn't deserve mine. I can understand your parents because they brought you into this world, but if they abuse you, should you still love them?
Could you please tell me if there are any rules about loving your family and such?
Thank You.
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Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 3:09 pm
The way I see it if someone doesn't treat you with AT LEAST the mutual respect you deserve mcu less as a family then no you don't have to love them. I wouldn't love my parents if they beat me. But it truly is up to you. By the sound of this matter is your just suffering from sibling rivalry. It will be over in at least 5 years.
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Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 4:40 pm
I don't know of any rules pertaining to loving your family, but I know that if someone, no matter who it was, gave me a reason to to love or care for them anymore, I wouldn't.
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Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 11:41 pm
Love is given to those that deserve it and not wasted on infadels... not exact quote, but I am being lazy right now... anyways, no one is forced to love in satanism. Love whom you wish, screw the rest. I mean I love some of my family, but can't enjoy the pressence of others. I don't love them. All must earn respect and love, for your emotions are not forced hand outs.
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 5:41 am
Why all this talk of love and rules in the first place? First off, there aren't much in the way of "rules" in either atheistic or theistic Satanism. Follow common sense, and the rest is up to your preferred response to your own particular situations. Especially with feelings, no one can simply tell you how to feel. Secondly, family is more of a contractual relationship--you are bound by laws to stay with them until a certain point in life, then it is up to you. Love is not in the "contract," either for the government or Satanism.
Before you are 18 (which I will assume you are that young) even if you don't get along with or love your family, you may as well act like you do. It keeps people off your case, and you may receive some unexpected rewards. As far as siblings ratting, that is all up to how much of your life you decide to let your sibling be party to. Although if you want to look on the brighter side constant meddling in your life often means the sibling feels shadowed by you, which can mean one day they will grow to respect and look up to you. Or despise you and attempt to be better than you, which is hopefully not the case, because that situation gets ugly.
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 2:56 pm
just wondering...my parents do do...stuff....to me though.
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 5:09 pm
razorblade6060 just wondering...my parents do do...stuff....to me though. In that case call CPS or something and get the hell outta there!
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Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 10:36 am
razorblade6060 just wondering...my parents do do...stuff....to me though. i'd give your sister a swift kick in the nuts. as for parents, call the police. they are most certainly not allowed to "do stuff to you"
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Posted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 8:08 pm
like they said,its all up to you. It does sound like sibling rivalry, Like I love my sister but she treats me the same exact way. However when we are not under the same roof we get along. thats why I know she is worthy of my love,we just can't live together. she loves me and I love her we just can't live together and maybe its the same for you and your sister.sorry about the run-on sentances.
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Posted: Mon Oct 30, 2006 9:42 pm
I feel that if some one has wronged you, wrong them back (but please do it in a way where you wont be subject to harm yourself or your sister, prison is bad for the kids (and adults)).
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Posted: Tue Oct 31, 2006 6:24 am
I do not love my mother. A moral code can dictate whether I should, or should not love her, but the dictation can't make me open up my heart on this issue.
Don't bother with 'should you' or 'should you not' love anyone. Either you love someone, or you do not. Whether you should or you shouldn't will it change the matter?
Remember that it is clever to use common sense, and acting out of hate towards your sister may anger your parents, who are in a position of power over you, may not be the cleverest thing to do.
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Posted: Tue Oct 31, 2006 7:37 pm
razorblade6060 I don't love my sister. She has no respect for me or my belongings and treats me like I'm not a person. She is also constantly ratting on me which has gotten me in trouble MANY times. I love my friends much, much more than I care for my sister. Aren't you suppose to love people who deserve your love? I feel she doesn't deserve mine. I can understand your parents because they brought you into this world, but if they abuse you, should you still love them?
But honestly, even if your parents brought you into this world or whatever, if they treat you badly and you don't love them, then don't love them. It's as simple as that. It's more of a respect than love when it comes down to the "parent" issue. I'm speaking from my own personal opinion on all of this. It's kind of like that old phrase that I forget, the one about treating a person the same as they treat you. Yeah, that sense. But when it comes to family, I suppose a person would owe them something (especially parents), but not necessarily love. Okay, thanks for reading, tata.
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Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 2:58 pm
Tasty Crayons t's kind of like that old phrase that I forget, the one about treating a person the same as they treat you. The Golden Rule/Law of Reciprocity? You know, Satanism does have something to say about that wonderful little rule. 'Tis mentioned in The Satanic Bible. The Satanic Bible Satanism advocates practicing a modified form of the Golden Rule. Our interpretation of this rule is: "Do unto others as they do unto you"; because if you "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you," and they, in turn, treat you badly, it goes against human nature to continue to treat them with consideration. You should do unto others as you would have them do unto you, but if your courtesy is not returned, they should be treated with the wrath they deserve.
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Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 9:48 am
I just found out that my dad snoops through my stuff on the family computer. My computer automatically saves our msn conversations which I knew, but I thought that I could trust my father. & now he goes & tells my mom & my mom is freaking out on me. Life in my house isn't the greatest & my dad does cocaine. My mother is going crazy & is losing her hair. We had to hide in a wome'ns shelter when I was 8. This has been going on for awhile & i'm sooo tired of it.
Any suggestions on what I can do?
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Posted: Fri Nov 24, 2006 8:37 pm
Count_Orlock I just found out that my dad snoops through my stuff on the family computer. My computer automatically saves our msn conversations which I knew, but I thought that I could trust my father. & now he goes & tells my mom & my mom is freaking out on me. Life in my house isn't the greatest & my dad does cocaine. My mother is going crazy & is losing her hair. We had to hide in a wome'ns shelter when I was 8. This has been going on for awhile & i'm sooo tired of it. Any suggestions on what I can do? Four words. Get the ******** out! now point in waiting to see if things'll get better, becasue chances are you'll just having somethign worse happening in that time. Call somebody
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