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Seipher4

PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 7:28 pm


I am in love with one of my freinds i want to be with her more then anything in the world i would give anything to be with her. but i do not know if she wants that or not. i also fear loosing her freindship. she knows i care about her but she still hasn't said yes or no to possably dating me. she had recently broken up with her boyfreind well he left her for another girl and me and her the one i like that is are going into the reserves do do you think it could work and what should i do?
PostPosted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 4:33 pm


heart heart I so know how you feel. I was in love with my best friend, and now he's my boyfriend. Anyways, give her a little bit more time, after losing a boyfriend, it hurts. Escpecially if it was for another girl. Try to get more close, ask if she wants to come over for dinner, or go watch a movie. Become close, and just let it out...Even if she says "no," you can still be friends. It may be wierd for a while, but it'll be ok. Also, be more feminine, believe it or not, girls like it. Maybe, go to the store....you see a cute teddy bear, get it for her; and tell her you saw it and thought of her. But start off small. Like get her, her favorite candy. Need anymore help? Feel free to PM me, or post back. I also have my contact info on the guilds mod contact ^-^ heart heart

Sundey
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Laeluu
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PostPosted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 4:41 pm


Yeah; I'd either try to woo her, or just let things go their flow. :] On stuff like this, I'd usually just let things play themselves out, but blah. I'm not much of one for relationships, so I'd listen to Sudney on this one, hah. <3

Much love, and I hope it works outtt....~ <3
PostPosted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 6:38 pm


ok well shes in the reserves and she doesn't eat candy because she has to keep her weight in the right area she does love green tea and i get her that alot. me and ehr like the same things infact she is helping me get into the reserves but i have the same problem i need to loose wheight to get in. it's alot of things but i i think it can al work out.

Seipher4


Sundey
Crew

PostPosted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 3:26 pm


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Here's the teacup
If she really likes green tea, I suggest something like this. I love tea, and I have a few of these. You can have tea in the tea pot, and you can stack the cup and pot at once, and don't have to worry about spilling. Also, check out organic green tea at a place like a the Whole Food Store. At the Whole Food Store, everything is organic, it's good for you, and you'll live longer for eating the stuff there. I eat almost everything organic. It feels good.
PostPosted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 6:11 pm


Sundey
User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.
Here's the teacup
If she really likes green tea, I suggest something like this. I love tea, and I have a few of these. You can have tea in the tea pot, and you can stack the cup and pot at once, and don't have to worry about spilling. Also, check out organic green tea at a place like a the Whole Food Store. At the Whole Food Store, everything is organic, it's good for you, and you'll live longer for eating the stuff there. I eat almost everything organic. It feels good.
where can i find a store like that in rochester ny?

Seipher4


Laeluu
Captain

PostPosted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 3:44 pm


As far as the tea-pots go, you can get them at any food-specialty store, tea/coffee shop (not all coffee shops, but tea shops'll have them), or--if worst comes to worst--you can just order one of the internet.

:] It's really easy to get something you want; you can't just expect someone to give you an address, and voila--it's done. You gotta' work a bit yourself, too, y'know.
PostPosted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 3:47 pm


i know i looked up a tea shop but i couldn't find the teapot but she said she doesn't want me spending alot of money on her so i am going to take her out for tea.

Seipher4


Aarora
Crew

PostPosted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 11:29 am


Well there's always that risk of loosing the friendship... But if you really think you guys will last, why not give it a try.. Talk to her about how you feel possibly and maybe she'll understand. I've taken a fair amount of friendship chances. And one of the guys I went out with ended up being one of my best friends when we broke up. :3 Good luck with that. <3
PostPosted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 4:40 pm


she said we would always be freinds as long as i don't screw her over.

Seipher4


Seipher4

PostPosted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 6:51 pm


the situation is worse now i want to be with her more then anything in the world that when i was having a conversation with my freind i bust into tears all of us where sleeping over my freinds steves house and jenn was their and when jenn went upstairs me and my freind steve had a conversation and i was crying because i want to be with ehr when i look into my heart all i see is her.
PostPosted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 7:03 pm


is seriously getting worse i fear that i will be alone for ever i am cursed to want her and only her for when i look in my heart all i see is her i would do anything for her but i am afgraid that she values our freindship tomuch for us to date.

Seipher4


DarkWolf_Chibi

PostPosted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 2:09 pm


Just keep your head up. I have got it worse, believe me. Just let her know but don't just shout out to her "I love you", that would not work.
Maybe you could ask her to a movie, suggesting that it is a date but letting her decide in some way. Or just be slow but not too slow.
I had a great friend who was a girl but I liked her, later on I told her about my feelings and she accepted me and we are very close; the worse part is that we are not physically close, miles between us. Just keep on trying to get with her.
PostPosted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 6:40 pm


thanks i i think i will.

Seipher4


DarkWolf_Chibi

PostPosted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 2:57 pm


Good luck!
*thumbs up*
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