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 Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 1:44 pm
Well, recently we found out that my father had cancer. We had no clue how serious it was, and I was really optimistic about it. I was pretty sure that he'd be cured. But yesterday, we went to the doctor, and he said that my dad had a serious lung cancer that couldn't be cured. They could extend his life expectancy, but not cure him with kimothereopy. Does anybody know how long that would help him live. I mean, he's my daddy, and he's only 50. I thought for sure that he had at least 25 years left in him. I can't lose him. If anybody knows approx how much kimo will extend his live expectancy or any way to make the rest of my dad's life good, or any other advise, I'd love that. Thank you so much. crying
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 6:49 pm
I'm so sorry,
But...
I heard that Kemo might actually reduce the life expectancy by a month or so.
We learned about it in Health just last week.
If you need anyone to talk to,
I'm here for you.
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Moth Wrangler Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 1:33 pm
Thank you soooooooooooooooo mcuh. *hugs* And it stinks that it takes a month away. crying
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 2:38 pm
Keep in mind,
I can't really remember the exact time it takes away.
Oh,
But,
I learned that there's about a 1 or 2% chance he will live,
And Louis Armstrong lived,
So,
Why not?
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Moth Wrangler Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 2:40 pm
Good point. 3nodding Thank you very very much.
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Posted: Thu Sep 21, 2006 5:31 pm
Ah; Kemo's a roll of the dice. On one hand, he could be given a good five or more years (no idea if that's right or not). But, on the other, it could take away some time. But, if he does go through with it, you're warned: He will be very, very sick, and very weak. It'll be really hard to watch, but the Kemo might just give him even more time to live. :] I'm sure he'll make the right decision. And, if you have any questions, ask the doctor--he'll know ALOT more than we will. <3
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Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2006 12:19 pm
Laeluu Ah; Kemo's a roll of the dice. On one hand, he could be given a good five or more years (no idea if that's right or not). But, on the other, it could take away some time. But, if he does go through with it, you're warned: He will be very, very sick, and very weak. It'll be really hard to watch, but the Kemo might just give him even more time to live. :] I'm sure he'll make the right decision. And, if you have any questions, ask the doctor--he'll know ALOT more than we will. <3 Thanks. The doc is 60 or more miles away, but I'll ask when I can. Thank you all so so so so much. crying
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Posted: Fri Sep 22, 2006 11:56 pm
Sweetie I'm so, so sorry to hear about that...I don't know a lot about chemotherapy, but you could always look on the internet for resources. I'm sure your dad will make the right decision, and I hope that you can stay strong through this difficult time.
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Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2006 11:15 am
foxeykat Sweetie I'm so, so sorry to hear about that...I don't know a lot about chemotherapy, but you could always look on the internet for resources. I'm sure your dad will make the right decision, and I hope that you can stay strong through this difficult time. Thank you
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Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 7:01 pm
crying omg that b really sad 2 lose ur dad when ur young. my family is from a long line of people who died of cancer. try n cheer up. u can take care of ur dad when ur done homework or in ur spare time so u can b with him. u can tell him that u luv him @ night or when u go 2 school. that way he will feel much better i remember feelin like that with my dad when i wauz young and he had 2 go 2 the hospital. itll b okay. jus pray 2 god. its okay if ur not catholic or christian. jus go ahead and pray. n always have faith in ur dad. i hope this helps. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 8:41 am
Snoppy_angel626 crying omg that b really sad 2 lose ur dad when ur young. my family is from a long line of people who died of cancer. try n cheer up. u can take care of ur dad when ur done homework or in ur spare time so u can b with him. u can tell him that u luv him @ night or when u go 2 school. that way he will feel much better i remember feelin like that with my dad when i wauz young and he had 2 go 2 the hospital. itll b okay. jus pray 2 god. its okay if ur not catholic or christian. jus go ahead and pray. n always have faith in ur dad. i hope this helps. sweatdrop Thank you, and I am Christian, so I will pray, and my friends are praying with me. And the docs said that he had a good chance now, and he said he felt better after his recent first kemothereopy.
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Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 5:39 pm
I'm really sorry to hear that. sad
But I suggest you let him know how much he means to you.
You never know when it could be your last day, or even his.
Try not to get to worried about it.
Everything happens for a reason even though we might not know it.
And hopefully he lived a long, fulfilling life.
Just wish for the best in him and pray for him. :c
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Posted: Thu Nov 02, 2006 7:18 pm
I know people who have survived it. Keep faith. Cancer can be on the passive side and the person can live a long full life.
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