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 Posted: Wed Oct 04, 2006 5:20 pm
so, i planned on not dating this year since its my senior year but then this sweet boy who really likes me asked me out and i said yes but he REALLY isnt my type and i really feel nothing for him and dont want to be dating so i want to put him down gently but easily...any suggestions?
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Posted: Wed Oct 04, 2006 5:25 pm
Not really sure how I can help... I Can't give much dating advice. I've ever had a boyfriend! lol
But I think you should just be honest. Tell him that you don't feel for him that way, but you appreciate it and think he's a nice guy. He'll get over it, and you'll both end up happier, I think.
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Posted: Wed Oct 04, 2006 5:30 pm
Sachi_x Not really sure how I can help... I Can't give much dating advice. I've ever had a boyfriend! lol But I think you should just be honest. Tell him that you don't feel for him that way, but you appreciate it and think he's a nice guy. He'll get over it, and you'll both end up happier, I think. hrm, seems everybody has the same advice...im just sorta procrastinatiing....alot...
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Posted: Wed Oct 04, 2006 7:35 pm
Well... I can't offer you any trustworthy advice. Not only have I never dated, but I really haven't had any crushes. o__O Its a weird mental block I won't get into right now. One thing you could do would be to lie and say that you think you're going to be really busy and that maybe you could try dating later. Hopefully by "later" he'll have moved on. But like I said, don't trust my advice. Its probably bad.
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Posted: Wed Oct 04, 2006 9:34 pm
...Well, first of all: why did you say yes? I can maybe help you out from there.
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Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2006 6:25 am
ahthepowerofcheese ...Well, first of all: why did you say yes? I can maybe help you out from there. i said yes because i knew he really wanted to date me.....bad reason, i know. anyway, no worries, i finally broke up with him. Then i cried because i felt bad....
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Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2006 12:47 pm
I don't think you should feel all that badly (tho' I understand where you're coming from). He'll be much happier in the end; pity dating would probably make him feel worse later.
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Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2006 4:27 pm
Sachi_x I don't think you should feel all that badly (tho' I understand where you're coming from). He'll be much happier in the end; pity dating would probably make him feel worse later. ^_^ thanks, i do agree. I hate how much i care about how others feel crying even if i know they will be better off in the end, its sad at first.
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