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what should i do? after i do something wrong i say "oh! sorry i thought blah blah blah (its not like im trying to get away with a excuse im just telling her why i did something) ... so my mom got mad at me for not taking responsability for something i that was wrong. so after we had a "talk" i said ok so what do you want me to say she say? she said "i want you to say sorry mom i mess up, its all my fault it wont happen again. pretty much say it was all my fault she translates this as taking full responsability for what i did, i translate this as either 1. kissing moms butt or 2. what my mom said *points at mom* or 3. saying what ever it take to make mom happy. (all depending on the situation) but it seems to be choice 1 alot, but i did what mom says regarudless. she said if i told her that and dont tell her why i did something a certan way she wouldnt get mad but she still does. my mom is full of empty promises! so what do i do?! i say "my bad" alot thats my way of saying that im taking responability for something i told her that but she was still mad. so yeah thats my problem at the moment this is the longest i promise! thank you!!!

Depends on what actually happened. If it was severe just tell her the truth and try to get her to accept it. If its just something stupid like foregot to take the trash out just be like yeah okay (nod your head) and be done with it.