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 Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 10:44 pm
So...my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months.
We live about 30 minutes apart, and neither of us drive yet.
It's rare--usually once or twice a month I get to see him. But we both love--or rather 'loved' eachother very much.
We are so alike. I can tell him anything, and vice versa. He really cared about me, and would try to make me feel better when I subcontiosly complained about even the smallest things...like a stubbed toe or a papercut.
We were so close...we'd talk on the phone for hours everyday, usually about stupid stuff like how bitchy our mothers were being, or how much math sucks. His friends would call me sometimes and tell me to disappear so they could get him to shut up. Ironically, my friends did the same thing.
Anyways, he's been kindof negelcting me lately. I'll leave him emails, comments on myspace, voicemails on his phone, ect...
We havent had a formal talk in quite a few weeks, and I havent seen him in almost 4.
I talk to his friends, and they have no excuses for him. He hasnt been busy, and he backhanded his best friend yesterday for saying "You've been neglecting Kelsey, and she's upset. Why won't you call her?"
So what's going on? Is this where it should end, or should I give it a little time to resolve?
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Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 9:08 am
:3 Maybe it might be time to break it off.
Not that I wanted to say this but if he's neglecting you and not replying to anything you send him... Could there be someone else there?
Or maybe he's grounded?
I'd say, give him another week.
Tell him you're worried and maybe he'll answer.
Hopefully.
But I hope things work out for the best.
Good luck with that. :3
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Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 10:28 am
Sounds like moving on might be a good idea. If you have only been together for three months, have not seen him in about one month, and only saw him once or twice a month those two months that you did see him, that means you have only seen him between two and four times over three months? You could try talking to him first. You could tell him that if he wants to break it off, he can just be honest and tell you. Or you could say that you think he is trying to break it off without a confrontation or anything, so unless he says otherwise within the next week or so, you will assume you two are finished. Then it will kind of be up to him from there, but at least you will know that you tried, and you can be sure he wanted it to end rather than sitting around and wondering. Do not be afraid to let go if that is the turn that it takes. You will find other people you can relate to and open up to during your life.
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Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 10:18 am
i dunno, there must be something going on. that sounds a little fishy to me, so im not positive its as simple as moving on.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 10:43 am
Either way.. whatever you do, do it with pride.
And don't say you're sorry.
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 5:46 pm
wat ever u do make sure it is wat U think is rite
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