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Talice-Derae

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 8:31 pm


I'm 18, I've never dated, but I find myself attracted to both women and men. As far as men go, I tend to lean towards girly/femme/bishonen type guys. I like all kinds of girls.

I've never kissed someone. I've never had a boy/girlfriend. Am I at a point where I can say 'I'm Bi', with no experience, knowing only what I'm attracted to/turned on by??

I -think- I'm Bi, I really do. Deep down, I think I know it.. But can I really judge it at the point I'm at?
PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 4:50 am


you dont have to have dated to know ur preference so maybe you can say that you are bi, just cos you havent tried eating dog dirt doesnt mean you dont know you wont like it, (stupid example I know!)
You will proabably become more sure of your sexual identity with time and experience but you should trust your gut feeling. I knew which way I swung when I was 10 (maybe younger i cant remember) and I hadnt been with anyone then. so good luck, but just know its ok not to be certain nobody should push you to decide until your 100% sure. and plus its fun to experiment!

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 8:37 am


Wow, well in my personal opinion it is fine to say your bi with no experience, plus they way that it sounds like the more femme boys I would definatly say that it would be alright to call yourself bi sexual. And if still arnt sure about it then try and go out on a couple of dates then see.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 10:13 am


Quick question then; I have nearly no Gaydar. I really can't tell who swings which way. Any tips on spotting someone who might say 'yes' to a '
lets go get coffee' kind of date?

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 8:30 pm


you need to go out boy and play with your bi powers that anyone will feel great cause you never dated and exited to show you things not sexually so have fun totulu
PostPosted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 6:15 pm


little_gay_kid
you need to go out boy and play with your bi powers that anyone will feel great cause you never dated and exited to show you things not sexually so have fun totulu


Sorry to be a gn, but seriously, that was really hard to read. Punctuation is your friend. stare

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