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 Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 8:08 pm
I'm really worried about one of my friends. I knew she always liked me as a friend, but she's really scaring me now. She's saying that she loves me and that I'm the only one that understands her, which is great, but she's also been cutting herself and I hardly ever see her anymore. I'm already with someone, and it really hurts her feelings, and I'm worried that she loves me to the point that, if I don't love her back and be with her to the extent that she loves me, that she will keep hurting herself and hide it. It would hurt the girl I'm with, and that is the last thing I want to do, because we love each other very much, but I'm still scared of what the other girl will do. What should I do?
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Posted: Fri Nov 10, 2006 7:52 pm
ouch. thats hard.
uhm. in your situation,
ikno i'm not the best advice giver, but try to introduce her to someone new.
get them together and stuff
x] srry. thats my best shot.
hope it works out<3
-jen
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Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 8:56 am
Talk to her.
I've been in the same situation... 'Cept with guys.
And.
I got one of them to stop doing things to themselves. <3
But tell her that you see her as a good friend and she'll always be in your heart as a friend. Nothing more nothing Less.
I mean. It's going to hurt. Both of you guys.
Maybe tell her you don't want to risk her friendship with you becuse you value it That Much. <3;
Or if you need to... Lie?
Tell her she might have a chance but you can't just leave your girlfriend like that. >>;
[[ Lie if that's the last possible suggestion because.... you don't want her to get hurt. ]]
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Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 5:56 pm
Random update to change this up: Rumors have leaked to the girl who cuts that I like her (and I do, she's really nice and caring, but it's still a bit scary for me, because if I get too attached to her and she goes off and does something crazy. . .well, that's gonna hurt), so she's trying to go after me even more and I feel a bit guilty that if I don't do it, I'd be part of the reason for her actions in not showing her I like her as much as she likes me. How do I get around this?
(I have not spoken to either of the girls since I posted the initial topic, we've all been pretty busy.)
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