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 Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 6:39 am
Here, I'm actually going to talk about my private life on here.
My mom just passed away from cancer yesterday... it's taking everything I have not to lose my mind, and I've been crying non-stop for several days. Now it's just me and my dad, because we can't rely on anyone else in this family.
Things can only get better from here, I suppose.
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 8:59 am
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, Sig...
I know you don't know me too well, and whether you choose to take my advice is up to you...
Just try to think about the good times you had together. Think about the great experiences and talks you had with her. I know it's hard... I've lost a lot of people over my 15 year life. Granted, none of them were my parents... But were close to me nonetheless.
Good luck to you and your family, Sig. Remember that she's in a good place... Somewhere where her pain is gone. ::nod::
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 9:20 am
Yes. I agree with ShadyPrincess. She no longer suffers and have gone to a better place.
I remember the first time I've ever lost someone close to me, but I got over it and accepted the fact that he had a good life. Well, I'm not really good at comforting someone, but I really do hope you feel better soon.
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 10:18 am
I don't have much to offer at this time in any way of advice or physical comfort... all I can think of to do is
*hug* (':
I hope good memories bring you smiles.
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 12:17 pm
That really sucks.
Sig, I hope you feel better. Just keep your memories of her in your heart.
That's all I can really say.
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 12:59 pm
Hmmmm... sad I'm so sorry to here such bad news...
I can't promise you that things will get better... but if you try to make things better then they will.
I knew someone who died of Cancer too. It's a really hard process.
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 2:02 pm
Sig, you've always seemed like a strong individual to me and it pains me to see you in such an emotional rut. The only thing I can tell you is that cry as much as you need to and try and connect with your father about the loss of your mother. When my remaining three grandparents died in succession of each other in the beginning of this year, I cried until my eyes felt like the moisture had been sucked right out of them and I felt better. I reminisced with my sister about them and about how much they had cared for us.
The point of my story is: Get it off your chest. When someone you care about passes on, they never truly disappear from your life. Around your home she still walks, keeping you safe.
We're all here for you man <3
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 3:11 pm
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry about your mother. I don't know you well.. and the whole situation so..
*hug*
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2004 9:30 am
Mmm.. I hope you feel better.. I suck at consoling.. I don't want to say anything that makes you feel worse.. but I hope you don't lose it, your dad still cares for you..
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2004 10:17 am
Eeeeh, I'm sorry about your mother. ;-; It woul- I'll shut up before I agonize anyone. u_u
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2004 10:51 am
Sigurd, I don't know you too well, and I'm no good at consoling either, but I do care, and I'm sorry. <3.
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2004 11:02 am
I won't say a thing. There's just nothing to say, really. I wish I didn't know how you feel. I wish you didn't have to feel that pain.
But y'know ... tonight, somewhere out there, there'll be a bunch of people you don't even know that'll raise their glasses and not say a word for your mother. Then, they'll throw a party, because sadness is probably not what she would have wanted.
This is what I'll do, for you and your mother.
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2004 5:04 pm
I don't know how you feel, and I don't know you at all, really. I lost my grandmother to cancer before I got to know her, and I suppose it's better to know them, even if it is for such a short while.
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Posted: Mon Oct 18, 2004 12:32 am
..::Huggles::.. I have to agree with UT , get it off your chest... I hope you feel better soon.
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Posted: Mon Oct 18, 2004 12:34 am
I'm here for you Sigurd, like UT said, we all are.
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