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 Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 6:05 pm
people at my school think im to nice for my own good. i let people walk all over me! i also dont curse, swear, put others down and .... this is the main reason i am called a goody goody .... dont know much about sex! there i said it! the peeps im talking about bribed me to curse once for $5 (i still feel bad) so what should i do? i dont want to do some bad stuff just to make them stop, but i dont want to be picked on! on the other hand i should grow up a bit ( im going to be 15 in a 1 1/2 weeks) what would you do?
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Posted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 5:46 pm
Hey, babe. I'm 18 and still a virgin. I haven't sworn since I was nine, when I learned a few words. I get made fun of for whatever reasons people can think of, but does that make them better than I am? No. It doesn't make me any better, either. It just keeps me from being worse.
Goodness is a virtue. Probably. I would feel bad about swearing, depending on the word (certain words would only be said by me if I got a million dollars)... But, hey, five bucks can be worth it if the word was mild or if you don't mean it. I have a friend who can't stand the "S word" to be in her songs, but if she needs to quote someone, she'll say it herself. Words are words. If you mean no harm by them or if you don't use them as an adjective of choice, you can relax a little. Besides, you got paid. It's not like you completely insulted your best friend for $5, right?
I don't mind getting picked on so much. I think it's funny to be insulted, sometimes. Why do people get so mad? It makes me happy to know that I don't go crazy like that. I like to insult people, but just for fun. I make sure everyone knows I don't mean it. Anyway, if someone is bothering you, try to work in cheerful little "Thank you!" and give out a hug. It scares some people. then they swear more. Hmmm... Probably not the best idea, but still amusing.
Eep, I wrote too much and got nowhere. Being mean doesn't make you grow up. Keep being good whether people like it or not. They only don't like it 'cause they feel bad about it themselves. Really. Please don't be mean just to "grow up". It's appalling how many toddlers swear because they think the words are funny or normal. It's just stupid.
You don't need to know much about sex. If you want to, there's always Wikipedia. If you don't, you're fine.
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Posted: Sun Dec 24, 2006 12:09 pm
smile thank you that helped alot. but i really dont take being picked on well. i think its a personality flaw or something. i just cant stand it, every time i get picked on i cant help but totaly shut up. but keeping my mouth shut doesnt help ethier. if i open my mouth i get called a goody goody but when i close my mouth then people tell me i have no social ability crying ! its just killing me! then one time i told a siener. oh and note-to-self: telling off people that are 3 years older than you is a huge mistake. sieners can get scary and they got friends too. oh uh anyways she called me a B WORD and was P.Oed at me for the next 3 days! gonk so thats another part of the problem.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 8:52 pm
I bet most of the people that make fun of you, are honestly just jealous that they can't be like you. You probably get a lot attention or stand out a lot for being really nice, or not swearing (ugh, I can't even imagine).
And don't worry about sex, PRETTY PLZ. You're only 15! Sure, some people lose their virginity young, but that doesn't have to be you.
Aaaand.. don't worry about growing up. Enjoy everything you can right now. Watch cartoons, eat ice cream for breakfast.
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 11:02 pm
Enjoy your youth. Which means to some blind people to pop some babies out. :] don't. You have all your life. Save it for that special person, for love.
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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 10:59 pm
Don't think theres anything wrong with you. In this world its generally uncommon for a nice person, so when people see them they tend to think of them as the weird ones. What, why should you be weird for being generally nice and a lady? Age has nothing to do with it and your 15 so what because of these bad times people have learned about sex ed earlier and earlier because of those rude people. Back in the day people our age usually had no idea about sex and what not. So don't worry your not a goody goody your just you.
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