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 Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 10:30 pm
Ok so I've seen a guy that I really really like twice, and I've talked to him on the phone and through e-mail and one of my friends asked him on the speaker phone if he was going to ask me out, he didn't know that I was in the room, so he said yes, the next time we seen each other. Only problem is he's told me those three simple words a couple of times. The first time I didn't say anything, I just ignored it. The next couple of times it was on the computer and my friend said that, that may just be the way he signs his letters, so I still ignored them. Tonight however, he told me again on the phone that he loved me, I paniced and didn't say anything and the shortly after that tryed to talk about something else. I need help on how I can tell him with out hurting his feelings that I've been hurt before and I'm just not ready to say it yet.
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Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 1:40 pm
All I know to say is don't be like Kay, don't lead him on saying you need a little more time to think about it when you already know. And just cause you don't acknowlege the fact that he says he love doesn't make it any less real, you can't keep ignoring it, and don't tell him you love him just cause that's what he wants to hear (oww *is sad*) You have to sit him down and tell you're not ready to hear those words and it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he really is saying "three simple words" you know it's up to you to take it how you want you.
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hewhoshotdownthestars Captain
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Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 7:36 pm
hewhoshotdownthestars All I know to say is don't be like Kay, don't lead him on saying you need a little more time to think about it when you already know. And just cause you don't acknowlege the fact that he says he love doesn't make it any less real, you can't keep ignoring it, and don't tell him you love him just cause that's what he wants to hear (oww *is sad*) You have to sit him down and tell you're not ready to hear those words and it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he really is saying "three simple words" you know it's up to you to take it how you want you. he's not saying "three simple words" he's actually saying "I love you" so how did you tell me when we first started dating that you weren't ready to say them.
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Posted: Tue Dec 05, 2006 7:47 am
Please dont compare him to me because I already know we're on two completely different levels, secoondly, I know you're scared but no two relationships are the same, just go with your feelings, and if they tell you to get out then by all means go.
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hewhoshotdownthestars Captain
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 9:15 pm
well first just say your not ready if u cant say that try avoiding him for a few days and he might stop xD
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:36 pm
slayerlyko well first just say your not ready if u cant say that try avoiding him for a few days and he might stop xD no, dont do that...it'll just hurt his feelings sad
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 12:12 am
You need to tell him straight out. Get a picture of him or something, post it on a mirror, and tell it how you feel about the situation.
Before that, you need to ask yourself questions: Are you ready for a relationship with this person? Will said person truly love you and take care of you? Do you really feel strongly for this person?
Also, whatever you may be feeling, he must be feeling two. You both are human beings, and relationships have two sides. So if you're nervous, he will be too, for he's the one risking it all by trying to get you to go out with him.
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