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Are you guys virgins?
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And a lip virgin, too!
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Ponder~the~moment

PostPosted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 2:31 pm


WOW, I just found out that I was 6 weeks pregnant...I told my bf, and HE DUMPED ME! What Should I Do? I need some girl advice... heart
PostPosted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 3:13 pm


well if he really loved you then he would come back and deal with the pregnancy with you and not care if your pregnant if you find a gy like that hes worth keeping heart heart

christie105


touch tiddles

PostPosted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 5:58 am


force him to pay child support for the rest of his life.

it's your legal right to recieve money from him towards the upbringing of his child. all it needs is a paternity test.
PostPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2006 4:38 pm


Hun, if he was worth it in the end, he would be there for you. You could always abort. It's up to you. If you didn't get pregnant, he still would have left you for some reason, it just wasn't ment to be. It's partly his fault to, he provided the sperm. Anyways, I have a few pregnant friends this year, and they love their little kids. It was very painful of course, but I believe some are still with the father. Good luck heart

Sundey
Crew


[Shiiko Rain]

PostPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 10:08 am


Yes. Tiddles is right. Make him pay child support. But how old are you?

If you have family close by they could help you too but for now, egg his house. Hahahaha, kidding. Remember, Baby's need ALOT of care!
PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 5:34 pm


i would say tell your parents or find a way to get some other way to find financal support

MissKit


Aarora
Crew

PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 9:20 am


Life will get tough hun...

I'm sorry to hear about him dumping you.
But make sure you guys stay in contact. So you'll be sure who the father is and all..
If you're too young, have an abortion>? -- Consider it.

Or. Put the baby up for adoption.
It's always good to finish school first bytheway. ;;

I really have never thought of anything to say if one of my friends were to tell me they were pregnant. ;-;
Sorry... ]:
PostPosted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 5:12 pm


Okay, I really don't know ANYTHING about this stuff. And this won't help much really.

Q: Why on earth did you stay as his girlfriend? You should have known he didn't love you.

I am YEARS younger than you probably are, so I'm not worried about pregnancy stuff. Have you told your parents?

Jessarai


ViciousVegetarian

PostPosted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 9:09 pm


i agree with child support.

but never ever everrr abort, even if you cant keep the baby give it a chance to live at least put it up for adoption.

anyways guys that leave you when your preg, and terrible, i hear things like that all the time, so try to find a group that helps preg teens because i know none of us can help you the most other then professionals.

hope this helps<3
PostPosted: Sun Mar 18, 2007 12:13 pm


touch tiddles
force him to pay child support for the rest of his life.

it's your legal right to recieve money from him towards the upbringing of his child. all it needs is a paternity test.
Agreed with child support. What a b*****d. mad

But if you don't want to raise the child, I'd suggest putting it up for adoption, so it can go to a family that needs it. I prefer adoption to abortion, because it's generous to people who want a child of their own but can't have one.

As for the guy...I can understand your hurt, but don't let yourself get too hung up on it. Any guy who dumps a girl for getting pregnant is worthless. I suggest working out through your pregnancy so your body is in great shape much quicker after you give birth.

Yomei


Jewelslayer

PostPosted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 5:41 am


I totally agree with child-support. If you abort, I'm going to be disappointed. I and I agree, putting it up for adoption is a good choice but my mom told me to be careful with such things and if something like this happened to me I'd take full responsiblity. It's half your fault, the other is his, all you need to is take the time to consider the advice given to you. If you ever need a friend to talk to, I'm always listening
PostPosted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 3:23 pm


Well if you can't get your boyfreind to help you out than ask your mom or aunt for help and they might just give it to you and you can hold a baby shower before your pregnacy is due^U^

Mystique Mya


Thomatorr Strongpee
Crew

PostPosted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 10:21 pm


Ill post something later tonight when I am not so pissed off at your ex..<3
PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2007 1:55 pm


Thats messed up. Make him pay child support!!! I dont think you should realli put the baby up for adoption. Its your kid keep him/her. Maybe ask your family for help. How old are you any way? If your still young then ask your family for help. If you are like in college than quit school until after your life is more stable and then resume? Try to be more careful. Im too young to even think too deep into this. xDDD

So what do you think you are going to do with your baby?

wownewusername


LittleMissCutie13

PostPosted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 2:49 pm


so first of all, how old are u? it is a very complicated issue. is it yr bf's baby? i sure hope so. bty, i am a christian. i hope everything works out. cry confused
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