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Most of you wouldn't understand OMG Cakery because it is an inside joke. But I'll explain it anyway. OMG Cakery is a cake store run by gays--and inside the store, there will be more OMG stores--like OMG Music and OMG Kitties. Sort of like a gay mall, but alas, it exists only nomially.

But back to the point. This will be like OMG Cakery because I'll have random topics to talk and I'll change them periodically.

Today's topic: Younglings and Sex

It's a horrible time indeed in our country. Younger and younger children are involved in sexual intercourse these days. Chat rooms full of 12-14 year olds wanting to give it up to anyone willing to send an IM in their direction.

Haha, yes! That's all it is!

You'll NEVER catch me in a gay bar... They seem so tasteless.



Hahaha, need I say more?

Besides.. I'm not the drinking type. Or the socializing type, for that matter. They aren't very good places for meeting nice and clean people, either. Sooo... basically they are for getting s**t-faced follow by a one-night-stand.

Gay culture sucks.

Don't knock another person's lifestyle if it doesn't suit yours. Not everyone's into coffee and pseudo intellectual homo psychobabble in horribly pretentious environments.

Personally, I'm not into the entire club/bar/rave thang, probably did it around 4 times in my entire life but damn, it was fun for what it was worth. When you're there, you KNOW what to expect. You know it's going to be loud music and a lot of people looking for a one nighter, unlike other avenues of interaction which are vague and mostly immemorable to say the least.

So it doesn't work out for you. Different strokes for different folks, eh?

I agree. I like to browse the books at Borders while drinking coffee from the cafe in there but not everyone will. Thats okay by me to, if everyone agreed; I at least would be bored as hell.

I might go to one or two when older, but not really the place for me either. I always meet people in odd places anyways...and they always rock too. Best Buy, Walden Books/Borders, any video game store. Restaurants...I tend to start long conversations with anyone who starts talking to me so I can get talking with people and I personally. Prefer conversations to start in a random place then with someone who there is a high chance just wants a ******** for the night.
I'm also so paranoid that I would be freaked out by everyone so close to me, and I also don't do well in large, close together crowds. Also don't think I would like drinking anyways, doesn't appeal to me what it does to you, and becoming a drunk and alcohol addict runs in the family. Becoming sober was really hard for my dad but he hates all the years he wasted being the person he was. He also hates how he trated my mom and others. She was close to leaving and when drunk he scared me. I don't want to be like that. I also got to have a sip of wine(I'm not an alcohol virgin anymore, whoo! XP) when I went to PA. Tasted good, but I hated the after taste.

Lemur: Yay! Congrats on that. So did my one friend Katie a while back. She is now going to go to Northern University, Illinois. Her orientation I believe is the same day Rach and I start our art class there.

i don't dance. all i do is stand on the wall with my arms folded

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i don't do social gatherings much. i don't see the need to pay $8+ to be bored and feel uncomfortable

i have been to some local gay clubs...i had a good time because 1) i was with my BFF's 2) i was drunk
*shrugs*
last all gay function i went to was gay prom held by the gay community here in houston. i felt really good because i had to take a girl to my "real" prom for highschool, but for this one i could take the person i wanted. we had a blast
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it was the first time i danced publically since i sat in a pile of fire-ants at the softball picnic (yes, i play softball)

That would be quite amusing and I'm sure most will have the same opinion but I'll post anyways.

I find it really ridiculus that younger and younger people are even thinking of relationships let alone sex. Sure I'm young(15.) and cam be a perverted little monkey. But would never consider myself ready for sex or anything like that. Maybe relationship. But I'm not sure. A ex-friend of mine was "eaten out of" as she called it. Had oral for the ones who don't go my slang. She liked the guy, but never even been on a date with him, never had a serious conversation. Wasn't even boyfriend and girlfriend for two weeks. A week after, they broke up.

I find it so idiotic that people are getting involved like that at such youg ages. I'm not one of the people who say wait till marriage. But I do think its best to wait for things till you and your partner are sure you and ready, and I mean ready not horny. Also been together for a while(I personally think a year at least.), have had at least some serious conversations, and hang out together by yourselves at times too and not just with friends....By that I mean the only time my ex-friend and the guy were together alone was when they did that. Otherwise they were surrounded by at least five other people.

I find this very disturbing and very disheartening. When I first started to go out clubbing in Glasgow I was young, about 15, but I never had sex until I was 17 and even then it was not with a complete stranger.

Young children do not see the dangers of casual sex or having sex with people they do not know. I don't say to anyone I am having sex with "Oh yeah before we do anything I want you to have a blood test" but I always take as many precautions as possible.

Recently I have found it disturbing to see how many young men and women are out on the tiles with all the adults *I know I am still young but for the sake of this I am saying I am an adult cause I am 18*. What scared me most was on a night out earlier this week I seen a young guy barely 14 if he was lucky getting chatted up by a guy old enough to be my father eek

I don't know really, the average 12 - 16 year old have no idea what they are getting into when they have sex, sex is a great thing and is a beautiful to show love towards someone but these kids are not doing it to show love they are doing it to make themselves feel good.

STDs and STIs are on the increase and its disgusting how people are not taking this serious. "Oh yeah I will never catch an STD, he says he's clean", no offense to anyone who says this but how does he know unless he gets checked out every day and every time he has sex and lets be serious how many guys really get checked out every time they have sex. I personally get checked every 3 months even when I am not very sexually active.

Another issue arrising is the total disregard for protection, these kids have no idea what they are dealing with. When I have sex its protection or we're not having sex at all, no matter how clean that person is.

I just hope this is only a phase that is happening and kids are gonna realise what they are doing is so stupid, personally if I could go back and change my first time I would cause now I realise I was too naive, if a 17 year old guy who has more life experience than any 14 year old is saying that, I pity the young ones.

I just think its wrong, i mean at that age ur not supposed to be thinking about sex. For the love of God u will have the rest of your life for that (i know im talking in 2 person but im not refering to anyone here ^_^ )Just try to have fun and wait till its the right time to have sex, just enjoy ur youth for now.