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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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 Posted: Sun Dec 31, 2006 1:08 pm
I personally found it very useful to hear about other people's experiences and stories about the first time they had sex. They helped me to realise i was not ready when i thought i was and they also gave me a small impression of what to expect from my first time; and they also helped me to decide when i was ready too. and it would mean a lot to know that you have shared your experience with members who have not yet had sex; it doesn't matter whether your first time was good, bad, or too painful to finish. I want to give people the opportunity to read accounts to help with their judgements the way it helped me to read them.
You are going to remember your first time forever, and i want as many as possible to enjoy theirs as much as possible under the circumstances.
Did you enjoy it?
Do you regret doing it? Maybe you were too young? Or it was with the wrong partner?
How would you have liked it to go?
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 6:19 am
My first time ... hmm there is a memory I'll never loose. I believe my first time couldn't have been better ^^ and I am really glad about that. I feel that it was with the right person at the right time and I have no regrets.
We were dating for almost a year, actually I lost my virginity the day before our one year anniversary. He was slow and considerate and stopped whenever I asked him to. He listened to me and it went well. I would have to say that after getting through the first few moments of entrance then it really doesn't hurt much.
If done correctly then it shouldn't hurt afterwards and you won't even notice anything done, other then a little note in your pride. Mine was good and I hope yours is as well. I was so excited afterwards that I just about shouted it out to the world.
Well time has passed and he broke up with me shortly after. I have no regrets, in fact I still feel that I love him even if he doesn't have feelings for me back anymore. We're still "active" friends in many ways. Friends with benefits it may be called, but neither of us are with another person and trust each other completely. The best part is we were both each other's firsts and we still enjoy each other's company as much as the day we met.
It couldn't have turned out better <3
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 9:05 am
HaHa i remeber my frist time like it was yesturday. Well we were at my house, and my mom said that we could go in my room and watch t.v (which is in the back of our house) but we hae to leave the door open. So anyway...we decided the we wanted to have sex, but we had to do it on the carpet because my bed sqeeks to much. So we had sex, i was on bottom and he was ontop....and when we finished...he had rug burns on his knees!! lol and there still there to this day. So we can never really forget our first time. sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 7:28 pm
Did you enjoy it?
not at all
Do you regret doing it? Maybe you were too young? Or it was with the wrong partner?
all of the above. I was pressured into it and I didn't really know the guy. We had talked three days before on msn, met up, hung out for a couple of hours, the next day I was in his room and I had lost my virginity. He was a virgin too so he had no clue what the hell he was doing and neither did I. There was no feeling of adoration, just meaningless sex. His dad walked in too...... gonk
How would you have liked it to go?
Even though I regret it, if I hadn't had done it, I wouldn't have gotten into a relationship with him and I wouldn't have learned everything I learned whilst I was with him. He was a bad lover and a bad boyfriend, he pressured me for sex constantly, he was verbally abusive and he cheated on me multiple times. I learned a great deal while with him- what I do and don't want in a relationship.
Time later, I found Robert, I consider him the love of my life and I wish I had lost it to him but I'm just glad that I'm with somebody I love now and when Robert and I do have sex, it is passionate and the gesture is out of love and being close to one another. 01110100 01110111 01100001 01110100
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 9:12 am
my first time was straight foward.. on my 16th birthday...
lol a present from my gf at the time...
it wasn't great...
i wasn't ready
i enjoyed the hell out of it.... and i lasted about 35 seconds ...
sweatdrop
happy to report vast improvements
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 12:14 pm
phrook my first time was straight foward.. on my 16th birthday... lol a present from my gf at the time... it wasn't great... i wasn't ready i enjoyed the hell out of it.... and i lasted about 35 seconds ... sweatdrop happy to report vast improvements Dont worry dude, its all bonus after that stressed
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 12:43 pm
kemkitten72 phrook my first time was straight foward.. on my 16th birthday... lol a present from my gf at the time... it wasn't great... i wasn't ready i enjoyed the hell out of it.... and i lasted about 35 seconds ... sweatdrop happy to report vast improvements Dont worry dude, its all bonus after that stressed lol who is worried... its been a long time since then... and many many crazy nights and days... and lunch breaks... and yeah okay
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Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 1:56 am
My first time, I've already written about, but it was so good I'll write it again in the PROPER thread biggrin
I was about 15, and everyone was telling me that I was too young to be having sex but, they suck. I was in love (I AM in love) and I was ready.
Anyways, Me and Khan had been going out for a year and everyone around us were having sex and laughing at us for not doing it gonk But we waited (Or rather, he waited for me because I was too scared lol )
He rode his bike to my house at 2am like he always did when I was sad, and he comforted me, and I didn't feel scared anymore... mrgreen
Did I enjoy it? I enjoyed it, but it was confusing and painful. Apart from that it was great and I regret nothing. I seemed too young, but I'm mature in the brain cool
Was it with the wrong partner? No, I'm still with him... like 3 or 4 years later XD And we're getting married (Note: the avatar) Tell me to shut up if you don't want to hear that again (I'm excited)
If I could change anything, it would have been my bed. It's a single and he's like.. All big and muscly and I also had my teddies in there (I refused to push them out) So it was a bit uncomfortable afterwards, but it's all good rofl
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