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 Posted: Sun Dec 31, 2006 2:40 pm
I am producing an agony aunt page here. If you have a problem or a question which you do not feel comfortable posting because everybody can see who you are, then PM it to me and i will PM you back an answer as soon as i can. or i will post it here, so another member of the team can answer, then i will PM you back their answers. I will also ask if i can display your question and my answer anonymously in the guild. You do not have to say yes, and if you would rather me not put it on, i will respect your wishes.
Thanks xXx
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Bishoujo here ~ If you guys need tips on the love side of things I'm a freaking expert.. mmkay? Mmkay. PM me, I feel unloved 4laugh Ironic, isn't it
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 7:32 am
Also, I have a vast knowledge of this stuff as well, so if anyone wants an answer to their question, I'm willing to answer questions as well. That is...... if it's ok with the guild captain.
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 7:38 am
gitromboneman Also, I have a vast knowledge of this stuff as well, so if anyone wants an answer to their question, I'm willing to answer questions as well. That is...... if it's ok with the guild captain. yes that's fine
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 2:56 pm
dear agony aunt,
I'm in a awkward position. Theres a boy a like in my school and hes told me he likes me aswell, yesterday he asked me out and i said yes. My problem is my parents dont want me to have a boyfriend because they say i'm too young but i really like my boyfriend but i dont want to upset my parents. What should i do?
Claire (can i point out that claire is not her real name. no real names will ever be used unless you want me to)
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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 3:50 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. dear agony aunt, I'm in a awkward position. Theres a boy a like in my school and hes told me he likes me aswell, yesterday he asked me out and i said yes. My problem is my parents dont want me to have a boyfriend because they say i'm too young but i really like my boyfriend but i dont want to upset my parents. What should i do? Claire (can i point out that claire is not her real name. no real names will ever be used unless you want me to) First off, how old are you? Also, what age do your parents think you should be allowed to date? regardless of how old you are, talk to them. see if you can compromise. do some haggling, if you will. Include benefits to them and to you as well. OR you could ask them what it would take for you to even just go on a few dates with him. That, and be sure to mention you're open to supervision. Their main worry might be that you become too sexually involved. If that's the case, let them keep a watch over you two for awhile. Invite him to dinner at your house, let them get to know him. Maybe even have his and your own parents meet and talk about how they want the relationship to go. the less secrets you keep, and the more open you are to them, the more they'll trust you later. Just don't... break that trust. Of course you can't be watched forever, but that'll be another thing you talk to them about later.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 1:45 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. dear agony aunt, my bf and i havn't had sex yet, but we do other things like foreplay and outercourse. but sometimes when we've finished a little later on i feel a bit moody, just in my head. is this normal? hmm well ok dont take this the wrong way...but it could be because maybe your not completely satisfied. like you wanted more, but didnt get it
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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 1:46 pm
dear agony aunt,
my bf and i havn't had sex yet, but we do other things like foreplay and outercourse. but sometimes when we've finished a little later on i feel a bit moody, just in my head. is this normal?
(sorry i accidentally deleted it)
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 1:49 pm
Hostile_Heart .x.shatterd_innocence.x. dear agony aunt, my bf and i havn't had sex yet, but we do other things like foreplay and outercourse. but sometimes when we've finished a little later on i feel a bit moody, just in my head. is this normal? hmm well ok dont take this the wrong way...but it could be because maybe your not completely satisfied. like you wanted more, but didnt get it it could also have something to do with how your boyfriend reacts after you finish... is orgasm ever reached? there is a significant chemical difference between males and females post orgasm. and that is that in males, the feelings last about 3 minutes then everything kind of shuts down for recovery mode... in females it lasts about 20 minutes. so if your boyfriend is ignoring you post orgasm, its partly up to him to make sure you are comfortable, and getting the attention you need, and its partly chemicals to blame that he is not doing this.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:00 pm
i PMed her what you suggested and she said:
i do orgasm almost everytime, but most are only small and last for like 10 seconds
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:04 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. i PMed her what you suggested and she said: i do orgasm almost everytime, but most are only small and last for like 10 seconds no what i mean is the post orgasm hormonal wackyness like from the oxytocin... females have a much longer period of these hormonal shenanigans than do males... and often when the male breaks the bond early, the female gets moody... plus this boyfriend needs to work on his orgasm delivery domokun
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:06 pm
phrook .x.shatterd_innocence.x. i PMed her what you suggested and she said: i do orgasm almost everytime, but most are only small and last for like 10 seconds no what i mean is the post orgasm hormonal wackyness like from the oxytocin... females have a much longer period of these hormonal shenanigans than do males... and often when the male breaks the bond early, the female gets moody... plus this boyfriend needs to work on his orgasm delivery domokun ok here is my take on it....when i have an orgasm....it doesnt last that long make 20 seconds....but time after the orgasm....feels so soothing idk how to explain it tho
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:07 pm
phrook .x.shatterd_innocence.x. i PMed her what you suggested and she said: i do orgasm almost everytime, but most are only small and last for like 10 seconds no what i mean is the post orgasm hormonal wackyness like from the oxytocin... females have a much longer period of these hormonal shenanigans than do males... and often when the male breaks the bond early, the female gets moody... plus this boyfriend needs to work on his orgasm delivery domokun so what do you suggest she does to help?
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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:15 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. phrook .x.shatterd_innocence.x. i PMed her what you suggested and she said: i do orgasm almost everytime, but most are only small and last for like 10 seconds no what i mean is the post orgasm hormonal wackyness like from the oxytocin... females have a much longer period of these hormonal shenanigans than do males... and often when the male breaks the bond early, the female gets moody... plus this boyfriend needs to work on his orgasm delivery domokun so what do you suggest she does to help? well... she needs to talk to him... explain to him where/how/what gives her the most pleasure.... thats one... then somehow without offending him, she needs to explain this chemistry deal... like hostile heart says, that soothing feeling... if its not nurtured it can turn sour very easily/fast... epecially if she wasnt fully satisfied... like bad move, is for the dude to go get up and play xbox, thats a really bad move sweatdrop
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