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 Posted: Sun Dec 31, 2006 6:53 pm
Discuss your real-life issues. Please, no flaming - it can be a sensitive topic.
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 5:07 am
These days teenagers are thought to obsess about sex, thinking about it at least once every 10 seconds! This simply is not true. Of course there are horny little people out there who think about nothing but sex from the moment they wake up 'til the moment they go to sleep and have dreams about it! But most teens today have so much on their minds they simply don't have room to think about sex 24/7! Family issues, personal issues, health issues, friends, school, homework, hobbies... the list is endless. Most adults believe teens to be 100% sex driven and fail to consider those who have their own religious morals, and have decided to save themselves for marriage! What are everybody's thoughts?
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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 7:29 am
I don't really mind talking about this on the internet..
no one knows me here :/
i've been struggling with an eating disorder since i was 11-12.
So .. i guess i can help other people with that? if they have any questions about
period loss if they have any eating disorders :/
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just thought i'd let you know, just in case.
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 10:50 am
Well, I do have one life issue...
If you want to understand It I will have to start from the beginning so here goes... Ok, So I live with my stepdad because my mom divorced my dad when i was two. When I turned thirteen I got alot of information about that subject:
1-According to Joe (stepdad) My real dad was a nice man. But he had problems in his area . I kinda just let this slip until...
2- Joe also said that One day I was found in the tub with my dad both naked and i was On Top of him. I know, I know, I didnt have anything but he was a sick man just for trying.
3-So the reason she divorced him... My mom let that one slip but she had a interesting convo with him about it. So he stopped for a while. Two months later We were discovered once again in the basement.
4-My mom was so mad at him that she called the cops for sexual harrasment. He was sent to jail and 4 months into his trial, he was found dead in his cell, due to hanging himself with the bedsheets.
5- Last but not least, His problem... He had Genital Warts. Joe and my mom think that he passed them onto me havin had genital contact. (many times they are guessing)
so this is alot of info for a lil girl of 13.
But ever since I have had stepbrothers
(Joe came with 2 and a daughter)
They have known the story.
But sadly they like to take advantage of it.
I have been raped by my older brothers since I was seven!
They were caught many times but the only one who stopped
was the oldest. Now that i have come to accept this,
My older brother doesnt have to force anymore.
So I just accept it
Now for the life issue,
Seeing as though I am now 15 and have genitalia of my own,
He has taken to bringing condems to the house.
Just 2 weeks ago
He came but he forgot to bring a condom.
When he conducted his business,
I dont think he pulled out in time completely
and for some reason I am worrying that I am pregnant.
The case is in a situation in which I probably will not get pregnant
But somehow I have a horrible feeling about it...Can someone help me calm my nerves
I feels so good to know someone knows my case.
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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 11:03 am
i am so sorry to hear that.
can i just say though that pulling out is not reliable at all. pre-c** has sperm in it too.
as for your problem, the only way you can tell if you are pregnant is to take a test. the morning after pill is effective up until 72 hours after intercourse. this is not an option as it happend 2 weeks ago. i would wait to see if your period comes. i would strongly advise you against keeping the baby, if you are pregnant. for one you are 15 and unable to support the child financially or emotionally. you're body is underdeveloped and not really capable of carrying a baby.
also, if you are pregnant, it was conceived through rape and if you were to have the baby you might grow to resent it and that's not fair on either of you.
you need to get in touch with the police and report them for doing this to you; you cant let it keep continuing!
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 2:45 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. i am so sorry to hear that. can i just say though that pulling out is not reliable at all. pre-c** has sperm in it too. as for your problem, the only way you can tell if you are pregnant is to take a test. the morning after pill is effective up until 72 hours after intercourse. this is not an option as it happend 2 weeks ago. i would wait to see if your period comes. i would strongly advise you against keeping the baby, if you are pregnant. for one you are 15 and unable to support the child financially or emotionally. you're body is underdeveloped and not really capable of carrying a baby. also, if you are pregnant, it was conceived through rape and if you were to have the baby you might grow to resent it and that's not fair on either of you. you need to get in touch with the police and report them for doing this to you; you cant let it keep continuing! I want to take a test but my parents would be sooo mad at me and I have no money and most of my friends are guys, I have no clue where or how to get one anyway!
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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 3:03 pm
why would your parents be angry with you? it wasn't your fault was it? the sooner you find out the sooner you can act! there is no way you will be able to support a child.
you can get pregnancy tests from local pharmacies/drug stores but they are quite expensive. maybe borrow money off a friend?
i know here, in england, we can have free ones done at clinics.
but like i say, you have to know!
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 4:42 pm
Well I have a life issue that i need to get out.
My parents got divorced when I was...ummm I think 10 or 11. Anyway, I haven't ever really gotten along with my dad since then. About 2 or 3 weeks ago I had a nightmare...and well what happened was that...my dad raped me.
A few days after that happened my dad was at my house to pick my brothers up so they could spend the weekend with him. I had arrived there wth my friend exactly when he did...it was very awkward, he hugged me and alls i felt was a one shiver after another run up my spine...i couldnt move.
Ok, so last friday I was at my dads house ( i have no idea why i chose to go) but i had another nightmare about my dad, he tried to kiss me and i wouldnt let him, so then my dad, his other wife and my brothers all tried to kill me. crying
So now i cant even look or talk to him with out feeling the least bit scared,
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 4:47 pm
Hostile_Heart Well I have a life issue that i need to get out. My parents got divorced when I was...ummm I think 10 or 11. Anyway, I haven't ever really gotten along with my dad since then. About 2 or 3 weeks ago I had a nightmare...and well what happened was that...my dad raped me. A few days after that happened my dad was at my house to pick my brothers up so they could spend the weekend with him. I had arrived there wth my friend exactly when he did...it was very awkward, he hugged me and alls i felt was a one shiver after another run up my spine...i couldnt move. Ok, so last friday I was at my dads house ( i have no idea why i chose to go) but i had another nightmare about my dad, he tried to kiss me and i wouldnt let him, so then my dad, his other wife and my brothers all tried to kill me. crying So now i cant even look or talk to him with out feeling the least bit scared, If you feel so seriously about the subject maybe talk to your mother about it. IF you cant talk to her then maybe tell a friend. When somebody knows it's alot easier to get over.
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 8:07 pm
Well here it goes, there this guy that i really care about, he used to be my
bf. Ive known him for almost two years now. Right now we are good friends, we might get back together, but he doesn't want that kind of relationship with me. I dont even think its a good idea, anyway either, because he seems to never tell me the truth. I cant tell wether he's telling
me the truth or not. Right now Im thinking that all he's said to me are all lies, that hes been telling lies to me from the very start, and that I am a fool to believe all his lies. And, my friend, im not just saying, small, tiny, white lies, sometimes big ones. Recently, he told me that he was suffering from a life threating illness. First, I believed him, I thought he would never
lie to me about something like that, but it is possible. I dont know what to believe right now. I dont know if he's been lieing to me or not.
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 8:14 pm
Kaolla__ Su Well here it goes, there this guy that i really care about, he used to be my bf. Ive known him for almost two years now. Right now we are good friends, we might get back together, but he doesn't want that kind of relationship with me. I dont even think its a good idea, anyway either, because he seems to never tell me the truth. I cant tell wether he's telling me the truth or not. Right now Im thinking that all he's said to me are all lies, that hes been telling lies to me from the very start, and that I am a fool to believe all his lies. And, my friend, im not just saying, small, tiny, white lies, sometimes big ones. Recently, he told me that he was suffering from a life threating illness. First, I believed him, I thought he would never lie to me about something like that, but it is possible. I dont know what to believe right now. I dont know if he's been lieing to me or not. Ask him what it is. Research it and look for the symptoms. Better yet, ask his parents. Just bring it up like, 'So how's he doing with his [insert illness]?' That's a tough situation though. I don't like liars, myself sad I don't think anybody does. Just don't get back together with him and if he asks why you don't trust him or believe what he says, tell him! Because he lies.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 6:48 am
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. i know here, in england, we can have free ones done at clinics. but like i say, you have to know! Go to a Family Planning clinic, and I think you can get a free one (US) I'm not sure if you could get one from a normal doctor, but chances are you could do that too, or they could reffer you somewhere.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 3:50 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. These days teenagers are thought to obsess about sex, thinking about it at least once every 10 seconds! This simply is not true. Of course there are horny little people out there who think about nothing but sex from the moment they wake up 'til the moment they go to sleep and have dreams about it! But most teens today have so much on their minds they simply don't have room to think about sex 24/7! Family issues, personal issues, health issues, friends, school, homework, hobbies... the list is endless. Most adults believe teens to be 100% sex driven and fail to consider those who have their own religious morals, and have decided to save themselves for marriage! What are everybody's thoughts? I support that notion 110%. That's definitely a problem I've found.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 3:57 pm
Heart of Burning Flames Well, I do have one life issue...
If you want to understand It I will have to start from the beginning so here goes... Ok, So I live with my stepdad because my mom divorced my dad when i was two. When I turned thirteen I got alot of information about that subject:
1-According to Joe (stepdad) My real dad was a nice man. But he had problems in his area . I kinda just let this slip until...
2- Joe also said that One day I was found in the tub with my dad both naked and i was On Top of him. I know, I know, I didnt have anything but he was a sick man just for trying.
3-So the reason she divorced him... My mom let that one slip but she had a interesting convo with him about it. So he stopped for a while. Two months later We were discovered once again in the basement.
4-My mom was so mad at him that she called the cops for sexual harrasment. He was sent to jail and 4 months into his trial, he was found dead in his cell, due to hanging himself with the bedsheets.
5- Last but not least, His problem... He had Genital Warts. Joe and my mom think that he passed them onto me havin had genital contact. (many times they are guessing)
so this is alot of info for a lil girl of 13.
But ever since I have had stepbrothers
(Joe came with 2 and a daughter)
They have known the story.
But sadly they like to take advantage of it.
I have been raped by my older brothers since I was seven!
They were caught many times but the only one who stopped
was the oldest. Now that i have come to accept this,
My older brother doesnt have to force anymore.
So I just accept it
Now for the life issue,
Seeing as though I am now 15 and have genitalia of my own,
He has taken to bringing condems to the house.
Just 2 weeks ago
He came but he forgot to bring a condom.
When he conducted his business,
I dont think he pulled out in time completely
and for some reason I am worrying that I am pregnant.
The case is in a situation in which I probably will not get pregnant
But somehow I have a horrible feeling about it...Can someone help me calm my nerves
I feels so good to know someone knows my case.OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so sorry to hear about this. You shouldn't be treated like that, and you shouldn't accept it. What they are doing is both immoralizing, dangerous, and plain stupid. I'm sorry to hear about your father too. If you ever need to talk to someone about this kind of pain, talk to me. I've dealt not only with immense pain of my own, but I've also helped my friends when they've faced really hard times of their own too. I'm all ears if you wish to speak.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 4:01 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. why would your parents be angry with you? it wasn't your fault was it? the sooner you find out the sooner you can act! there is no way you will be able to support a child. you can get pregnancy tests from local pharmacies/drug stores but they are quite expensive. maybe borrow money off a friend? i know here, in england, we can have free ones done at clinics. but like i say, you have to know! Well, pregnancy tests aren't really expensive from what I've seen. Maybe it's just here where I live, but I've seen them for like $8, and that's the good ones. It's nothing to be ashamed of. But, do get tested. It is a very smart move to have that done. Along with what Amy said, a menstruation will seem like nothing compared to childbirth. There's always abortion, but that's definitely expensive.
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