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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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 Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 5:31 am
what are your opinions on virginity?
personally, i used to feel pure and that i still had innocence left inside me when i thought of the word; but that was back before i was ready to have sex. Now i still feel it's something to be valued, but also that it is a wonderful feeling when you give it to somebody you love and care about and trust to look after it (so to speak). I feel it is the greatest gift you can ever give a person.
But you can only give it once! So i urge you, if you havn't already given it to consider whether or not you are truely ready to give it, and to make sure it's going to a person who loves you and respects you!
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 6:28 am
I don't think of verginity as something special for some reason. I tend to hear people say they wish they never lost it and had it back and listening to their stories then I would probably agree if I were in their shoes. I mostly think of it as a mojor step to growing up. If you loose it in a bad state then you'll learn from it. You'll tend to not have respect for yourself and want to do better in your life. If you gave it away and never regret it then you've already grown up and know that you're ready to make decidions and such. It's a "magical" thing, it lets you know if you're ready for life or not.
*reads above* I could have worded things different but I can't think of ways right now lol ^^;
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 11:03 am
It is only special to some people really, I believe that it isnt really too much at least to me, but I have lost it (read in the Life issues part of the guild and u can see details Not dirty i promise! ) I dont really regret it but i hate the b*****d for taking it...
And on the lines of what it is I believe virginity is when you actually have your hymen broken, So technically speaking a woman could just use tampns and lose it. Its the sex part that most people believe in.
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 4:04 pm
my view on it is... it shouldn't be something just thrown away or forced onto you. (even if that happens to some people, unfortunately) It's something you should be ready for and it should be with someone who you genuinely care for who also cares for you back. My personal preference is that it needs to be love-- but I know for some people it's not that far up on a pedistol.
But I would also like to wait until I'm at least out of highschool-- I don't want to risk getting pregnant until I'm ready, period.
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 4:34 pm
I think that virginity is something that u should lose only when you truely feel that your ready. DO NOT let anyone pressure you into haveing sex! It can be very emotional...and only do it when you think its the right time.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 5:58 am
Totally .... I don't think that virginity is something really special ... but i do at the same time. i mean, i don't think you should just loose it to any random person that you have just met ... i think you should wait till you find the person who you truely love and would do anything for. And make sure that you are really ready to loose it first. And that who ever you loose it to, you are both ready. ... Orgasmic
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 12:49 pm
if your me and you loose your virginty through an against the law act! you dont care about it. in my eyes im still a virgin, im just... preparing for sex smile
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 3:10 pm
Well, virginity is something of value for sure. You should never actually lose it until you know not only that you can trust the person that much, but also that you will be able to dedicate that person the rest of your life, and that's why I say it is best left to the honeymoon or after. Then, you will know that this is the person you can trust 110% with that, and also that if anything wierd happens, they won't leave you. Until that point is reached, virginity is a very sacred gift that you shouldn't give up easily.
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Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 3:09 pm
I feel more free that I'm not a virgin... no idea why, just do. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jan 06, 2007 4:46 am
Virginity is a precious thing .I have known this for a while but since i lost it .. its been hard to cope with something.. I listen to the same song i had sex to like everyday...i think about the b*****d who took it from me and what the ******** was wrong wit me.. i have alot of emotional proble,s//but i thank god the guy i am with now doesnt force me for nothing ..virginity is so precious and if you are still a virgin i pressure you to keep it. it does no effect for the female away but pain ...unless you have a her pleasure condom biggrin hehe
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Posted: Mon May 04, 2009 11:45 pm
i am still a virgin with everything, which is sad for me. i am in 8th grade and i have never been asked out or heard gossip that i was liked. i feel lonely and left out because i see people hugging and holding hands, and all i can think is "that will never happen to me" because i just cant imagine it. crying
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