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ArwenRivendell Vice Captain
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 Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 12:52 am
Here's a place where we can all sit down and say 'dude, I have issues'. The goal is NOT to judge one another. Here we can open up and say, 'you know what, I need to work on this area' and we can sit down and figure out a solution, or ways to keep eachother accountable.
For Instance.
I love helping people. I love helping heal people, good stuff right? Well I am very good at overwhelming myself with too many people who I wanna help. When I do, I get stressed, and start giving them all my time. This includes study time, sleep time, personal time... God time. It really can get very bad.
So I am going to ask that if you see me in this forum, more than one night a week, you send me a PM and tell me 'no'. Cause I will want to get on and answer questions til the sun comes up.
I need to work on that, because if I am constantly trying to help others, I won't give myself the time I need to pay bills, get my papers done, and have my personal devos with my Big Daddy Upstairs.
Not to mention, I will run out of energy and start getting mad at the world, stretching myself beyond my limits. Trouble will always be there, I am only one itty bitty candle, I don't want to be blown out cause I'm too exhausted.
So please, if you see me on here too often, give me a kick, cause I need to be held accountable.
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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 11:59 pm
Ok God's showing me another one... I'm a little... over enthusiastic at the moment. So I'm gonna shut my yap for a while til more people start chatterboxin... so please keep me in check if you think I'm talkin too much (which at the moment I am, so ima gonna shut up now)
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ArwenRivendell Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 2:38 pm
well i lazy enough said for that its not that i not trying any more like i use to becuase i have been work with it i have been working on lot of things but i might want to help people to much and esacape from reality to much ....i can also be very mean when im well mad/p'd off but i dont usually swear or anything bad lie hitting for the most part....
but we have problems biggrin so how do some of you keep the moventive?
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Posted: Tue Feb 27, 2007 5:34 pm
Well for me, I saw a quote which I really like
I don't like who I am now
I am not who I want to be
I am not even who I wish to be
But I can thank God because with Him...
I am not who I once was...
I know I can work on things, I will always be able to work on things, I will be running this race and fighting the good fight til my dying day, and the impact it makes on others is my motivation. To see other's changed and to see them encouraged keeps me going.
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ArwenRivendell Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 2:10 pm
i am to angry. i can blow up at a moments notice.
of course, i used to be worse, but 4 years at a catholic school have helped calm me and tame the wild beast that was my anger.
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Posted: Sun Mar 18, 2007 11:30 pm
Ok ^_^
so what are things we can do to help?
Accountability? Maybe a friend who can give you a 'codeword' to let you know where your emotions are?
Or would you be willing to offer situations where we can kindly offer advice?
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ArwenRivendell Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 11:36 pm
i dont know. all i know is that as i type this, i am feeling very sad and lonely.
and reminding me to stay calm when i am angry might be good. because i dont even notice when i act superior and condecending.
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Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 8:56 am
How or what can we do to remind you?
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