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Which is the worst?
Case 1
4%
 4%  [ 2 ]
Case 2
87%
 87%  [ 41 ]
Case 3
8%
 8%  [ 4 ]
Total Votes : 47


Bishoujo Samurai
Crew

PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 2:38 am


Hey guys, I'm gonna have a bit of a rant here, you can join in and argue with me if you want ..... But I'll win, because I'm on crew whee

I live in Australia, and I don't know if it happens where you are but people go to these weird parties, get drunk, and lose their virginity to people they've never met. I'm a bit of a romantic person so I get really angry at these people and abuse them

I have a few cases I would like to share:

Case one: Keiran (My boyfriends Best friend)

Got drunk on his birthday and lost his virginity to a girl he had no feelings for, he just knew she was easy to get in bed. He claims it was a "Birthday Present" and he doesn't know why I disrespect him now because it "Felt good"

I don't care if it felt good. You're never going to have that experience again!

Case two: A girl on my school bus (Don't know her name)


This 13 year old girl lost her virginity to a guy she just met at a party. She was drunk and they had sex on the side of the road with no protection. NO PROTECTION!
Her friends video taped the whole thing, and then stole her clothes and left her to walk around the party naked (It was outside, about 100 people were there) And the next day (because she didn't remember) they played the video back to her so she knew what she did.

I feel so sorry for this girl. Take this as a warning. Never overdo your alcohol unless you have someone trustworthy with you who isn't going to get too drunk. This girl obviously thought she was in good hands with her friends but, she wasn't sad

Case three: Tara ( The girl Keiran slept with )

This girl lost her virginity at 13 to her boyfriend she had been with for 3 weeks (He was 19) She was with him for 1.5 years after and she was "Apparently" in love. Until she cheated on him with a gothic guy called Justin. That lasted about 5 weeks, then she dumped him. (He was one of my friends so I knew he was heartbroken).
Anyway, since then she's been having sex with (Literally) Every guy in my school. Except my boyfriend. Because she knows I will kick her a** if she even dares. I can do that.

Personally I feel sorry for her too. I think she's trying to get over her mistakes she made.... I also think she wasn't ready to have sex when she was 13.



These are just examples of (In my opinion) Bad decisions. If they offend you, I'll delete this thread. But if you'd like, feel free to contribute.
PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 3:02 am


i think case 2 is worse. i felt sorry for that girl from just reading the small part you wroye about it.
If i was drunk at a party i would want my friends to stop me doing anything stupid. i wouldn't just want them to watch and record it all.

i personally proberly wouldn't drink much if i was at a party with aload of teenagers that were getting drunk ... just to make sure i didn't do something i would end up regreting.

orgasmic me


Bishoujo Samurai
Crew

PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 3:21 am


orgasmic me
i think case 2 is worse. i felt sorry for that girl from just reading the small part you wroye about it.
If i was drunk at a party i would want my friends to stop me doing anything stupid. i wouldn't just want them to watch and record it all.

i personally proberly wouldn't drink much if i was at a party with aload of teenagers that were getting drunk ... just to make sure i didn't do something i would end up regreting.

I don't even go to those parties.
PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 5:28 am


Things like that happen where i live too; i think there's just so much pressure floating around to have sex. people seem to think if you're a virgin you're 'uncool'! so what, who cares! you should be proud of yourself for being strong and not giving into peer pressure and also that you respect yourself and your body.

i remember once i was sat in a health class and there were a group of girls infront of me talking; one said to another 'are you a virgin?' now i knew she was, but she said 'no'. the girl who had asked said 'really! i am', and the other girls on the table all said 'ye me too'. so they started asking this poor girl questions like 'who did you do it with? where was it? when was it,' and she kept the lie going for a long time until she finally said 'i was just kidding i havn't really'

i felt so sorry for her. i mean when i first started going out with my boyfriend, after like a year people would walk up to me and ask if we'd had sex yet, when i said no their eyes would grow wide in disbelief and say things like 'bloody hell! you've been together for a year and havnt 'shagged'' (i hate that word but it's what they would say). and it just came to a point where nobody believed we hadn't slept together so all these rumours got started about us having sex; there was even one girl who told everyone i was pregnant!

.x.shatterd_innocence.x.
Captain


phrook
Crew

PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 5:37 am


.x.shatterd_innocence.x.
Things like that happen where i live too; i think there's just so much pressure floating around to have sex. people seem to think if you're a virgin you're 'uncool'! so what, who cares! you should be proud of yourself for being strong and not giving into peer pressure and also that you respect yourself and your body.

i remember once i was sat in a health class and there were a group of girls infront of me talking; one said to another 'are you a virgin?' now i knew she was, but she said 'no'. the girl who had asked said 'really! i am', and the other girls on the table all said 'ye me too'. so they started asking this poor girl questions like 'who did you do it with? where was it? when was it,' and she kept the lie going for a long time until she finally said 'i was just kidding i havn't really'

i felt so sorry for her. i mean when i first started going out with my boyfriend, after like a year people would walk up to me and ask if we'd had sex yet, when i said no their eyes would grow wide in disbelief and say things like 'bloody hell! you've been together for a year and havnt 'shagged'' (i hate that word but it's what they would say). and it just came to a point where nobody believed we hadn't slept together so all these rumours got started about us having sex; there was even one girl who told everyone i was pregnant!


wow none of these shenanigans happened when i was in highschool...
thats all srsly messed up...
PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 5:39 am


Bishoujo Samurai
orgasmic me
i think case 2 is worse. i felt sorry for that girl from just reading the small part you wroye about it.
If i was drunk at a party i would want my friends to stop me doing anything stupid. i wouldn't just want them to watch and record it all.

i personally proberly wouldn't drink much if i was at a party with aload of teenagers that were getting drunk ... just to make sure i didn't do something i would end up regreting.

I don't even go to those parties.


i had one for my 16th but i made sure no one got drunk and did something stupid. And there wasn't many people over ... just close friends. And i've been to houses where it has just been me, my b/f and another friend, and we've been drinking ... but not loads.

orgasmic me


Lufflebunny
Crew

PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 7:06 am


.x.shatterd_innocence.x.
Things like that happen where i live too; i think there's just so much pressure floating around to have sex. people seem to think if you're a virgin you're 'uncool'! so what, who cares! you should be proud of yourself for being strong and not giving into peer pressure and also that you respect yourself and your body.

i remember once i was sat in a health class and there were a group of girls infront of me talking; one said to another 'are you a virgin?' now i knew she was, but she said 'no'. the girl who had asked said 'really! i am', and the other girls on the table all said 'ye me too'. so they started asking this poor girl questions like 'who did you do it with? where was it? when was it,' and she kept the lie going for a long time until she finally said 'i was just kidding i havn't really'

i felt so sorry for her. i mean when i first started going out with my boyfriend, after like a year people would walk up to me and ask if we'd had sex yet, when i said no their eyes would grow wide in disbelief and say things like 'bloody hell! you've been together for a year and havnt 'shagged'' (i hate that word but it's what they would say). and it just came to a point where nobody believed we hadn't slept together so all these rumours got started about us having sex; there was even one girl who told everyone i was pregnant!


Was that SB? Because I think I remember her doing something like that...
PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 7:18 am


Lufflebunny
.x.shatterd_innocence.x.
Things like that happen where i live too; i think there's just so much pressure floating around to have sex. people seem to think if you're a virgin you're 'uncool'! so what, who cares! you should be proud of yourself for being strong and not giving into peer pressure and also that you respect yourself and your body.

i remember once i was sat in a health class and there were a group of girls infront of me talking; one said to another 'are you a virgin?' now i knew she was, but she said 'no'. the girl who had asked said 'really! i am', and the other girls on the table all said 'ye me too'. so they started asking this poor girl questions like 'who did you do it with? where was it? when was it,' and she kept the lie going for a long time until she finally said 'i was just kidding i havn't really'

i felt so sorry for her. i mean when i first started going out with my boyfriend, after like a year people would walk up to me and ask if we'd had sex yet, when i said no their eyes would grow wide in disbelief and say things like 'bloody hell! you've been together for a year and havnt 'shagged'' (i hate that word but it's what they would say). and it just came to a point where nobody believed we hadn't slept together so all these rumours got started about us having sex; there was even one girl who told everyone i was pregnant!


Was that SB? Because I think I remember her doing something like that...

no, actually she stuck up for me about another rumour.
it was JM;
i think what you're thinking about is KB and SB bugging me and adam to tell them what we'd done

KB came up to me and said 'are you and adam having sex?'
i said 'what now this minute? no' then she shut up after that

.x.shatterd_innocence.x.
Captain


Lufflebunny
Crew

PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 8:04 am


.x.shatterd_innocence.x.
Lufflebunny
.x.shatterd_innocence.x.
Things like that happen where i live too; i think there's just so much pressure floating around to have sex. people seem to think if you're a virgin you're 'uncool'! so what, who cares! you should be proud of yourself for being strong and not giving into peer pressure and also that you respect yourself and your body.

i remember once i was sat in a health class and there were a group of girls infront of me talking; one said to another 'are you a virgin?' now i knew she was, but she said 'no'. the girl who had asked said 'really! i am', and the other girls on the table all said 'ye me too'. so they started asking this poor girl questions like 'who did you do it with? where was it? when was it,' and she kept the lie going for a long time until she finally said 'i was just kidding i havn't really'

i felt so sorry for her. i mean when i first started going out with my boyfriend, after like a year people would walk up to me and ask if we'd had sex yet, when i said no their eyes would grow wide in disbelief and say things like 'bloody hell! you've been together for a year and havnt 'shagged'' (i hate that word but it's what they would say). and it just came to a point where nobody believed we hadn't slept together so all these rumours got started about us having sex; there was even one girl who told everyone i was pregnant!


Was that SB? Because I think I remember her doing something like that...

no, actually she stuck up for me about another rumour.
it was JM;
i think what you're thinking about is KB and SB bugging me and adam to tell them what we'd done

KB came up to me and said 'are you and adam having sex?'
i said 'what now this minute? no' then she shut up after that


rofl KBs just desperate to have friends, though lol
PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 11:16 am


Case 2 is pretty sad... but the first one is utterly pathetic. the 3rd I don't know what to think. I kinda feel sad for her, but on the other hand she shouldn't have become a whore as a result of it.

That goes on around here, too, even I've only heard of it. My school is an all girls school and is suprisingly civil cosnidering the public schools in the area, but... there's of course those girls who act like sluts or whores.

like... one day in the morning before school on a late start.. I was talking with a friend about Mark (my bf) and this girl overheard the conversation. She's like, "You mean Mark [insert last name]?" Me: "...yeah..." Her: "Ew, he's a PRUDE." (my school and his have dances together every so often, but I'm starting to wonder how she knows he's a 'prude' o_O; )

What of it, though, seriously? I'm damn glad he won't have sex with just any girl. It shows he has control of himself and has some goddamn morals and decency.

Is that REALLY so bad?

Kokoro_Densetsu


gitromboneman
Crew

PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 2:22 pm


Yah.......... that definitely happens way too much. My friends have told me stories about people they know having that happen to them. Here on the island though, people just get crazy drunk, get in fights and accidents, and love to go for drives.
PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 4:51 pm


gitromboneman
Yah.......... that definitely happens way too much. My friends have told me stories about people they know having that happen to them. Here on the island though, people just get crazy drunk, get in fights and accidents, and love to go for drives.


Well that makes it all ok... rolleyes


If you didn't catch the sarcasm then you should go to sarcasm school.

Bishoujo Samurai
Crew


Bishoujo Samurai
Crew

PostPosted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 4:54 pm


.x.shatterd_innocence.x.
Things like that happen where i live too; i think there's just so much pressure floating around to have sex. people seem to think if you're a virgin you're 'uncool'! so what, who cares! you should be proud of yourself for being strong and not giving into peer pressure and also that you respect yourself and your body.

i remember once i was sat in a health class and there were a group of girls infront of me talking; one said to another 'are you a virgin?' now i knew she was, but she said 'no'. the girl who had asked said 'really! i am', and the other girls on the table all said 'ye me too'. so they started asking this poor girl questions like 'who did you do it with? where was it? when was it,' and she kept the lie going for a long time until she finally said 'i was just kidding i havn't really'

i felt so sorry for her. i mean when i first started going out with my boyfriend, after like a year people would walk up to me and ask if we'd had sex yet, when i said no their eyes would grow wide in disbelief and say things like 'bloody hell! you've been together for a year and havnt 'shagged'' (i hate that word but it's what they would say). and it just came to a point where nobody believed we hadn't slept together so all these rumours got started about us having sex; there was even one girl who told everyone i was pregnant!


I remember that, Me and my boyfriend hadn't had sex after a year either. But we didn't have many friends and people didn't talk to us... I used to get the whole "You guys should have sex" and eventually my small group of friends were losing their virginity to random guys and girls, which is really sad...

Then when we finally did sleep together, all of our friends came up to us and told us how envious they were that we were in love and that they lost their virginities because of peer pressure.


PWNED! rofl
PostPosted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 4:45 pm


Hah. I think it was worse for Chris and Damien. Three of us went to a party and yah, wild as hell. Damien is drinking soft drinks, or so he thought! Chris had been pouring vodka straight into it and Damien, being the dumbass he can be, didn't even notice! So after about 5 bottles, Damien was druuuuuuuunk. A girl came up and asked if he wanted to go swimming (rich girls party) and he agreed and got up, being all stupid. He was yelling 'I'm going swimmiiiiiiiiiing! WOO!" So I was just watching and laughing as they both slowly got undressed and soon enough, the girl got in slowly. Damien, being the crazy drunk he now was, was in his boxers. He jumped in yelling. "HEAVEEEEEEN" And made the biggest splash. More people came in later and soon enough the doorbell rang. About a minute later, Damien's dad came walking up followed by the rich girls parents. Lets just say it wasn't the best sight for his dad to walk in and see him making out with one girl with his arm around another and a beer bottle in that same hand.

I didn't stop laughing for a week xD

Kazuki_Kazana


Bishoujo Samurai
Crew

PostPosted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 4:58 pm


Kazuki_Kazana
Hah. I think it was worse for Chris and Damien. Three of us went to a party and yah, wild as hell. Damien is drinking soft drinks, or so he thought! Chris had been pouring vodka straight into it and Damien, being the dumbass he can be, didn't even notice! So after about 5 bottles, Damien was druuuuuuuunk. A girl came up and asked if he wanted to go swimming (rich girls party) and he agreed and got up, being all stupid. He was yelling 'I'm going swimmiiiiiiiiiing! WOO!" So I was just watching and laughing as they both slowly got undressed and soon enough, the girl got in slowly. Damien, being the crazy drunk he now was, was in his boxers. He jumped in yelling. "HEAVEEEEEEN" And made the biggest splash. More people came in later and soon enough the doorbell rang. About a minute later, Damien's dad came walking up followed by the rich girls parents. Lets just say it wasn't the best sight for his dad to walk in and see him making out with one girl with his arm around another and a beer bottle in that same hand.

I didn't stop laughing for a week xD


LOL HEAAAAVEEEENNNN rofl
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