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PostPosted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 2:12 pm


Angel No More
Ok.
I was looking up spells today. Simply to see the different kinds so on and so forth. And on a lot of sites they have these loves spells claiming they will work. Now this bothers me.
Love spells don't work that way.
In order for a true love spell to work, one you need a lot of experience and need to know what your doing because you could do a lot of harm to that person or someone else who is deeply in love with that person.
Hell, to be honest you could change part of their fate.
If the love is not there the love spell will not work. It needs to be there, it needs to be alive. Then the only thing the love spell does is intensify it.
I've seen so many people try these things and get their hopes up and be all giddy like OMG today's the day he'll ask me out.
Liking, Crushing, Loving, and Being In Love are 4 different things people.
You like someone you care about them.
You're crushing on someone hey they're cool hot probably you'd love to date them.
You love someone, you care for them deeply. But that doesn't signify that it's the one and only everything type of love.
That's what Being in Love is for. It's when you know you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want the best for that person, you want to protect that person to always be there for that person. And you know deep in your heart that they complete you and if something ever happened to them you would never get truly over it.
That's also what someone whose feeling this calls their Soul mate or mate or lifemate. It is not the above 3 different options. And going out with someone saying i love you doesn't mean it's real at the end of the day. You are just saying I like you, we have a good relationship together and I care for you. Until your heart beats for that one person and one person only, and you'll know when you find them, that is when you truly love someone why? Because you'll truly be in love with them and recognize them as your one and only and every other thing I wrote that falls under the category of being in love with someone.
Now..once again this is my opinon. And I would love to know what you have to say about or what you think.
This is something I wrote in another guild and I thought it would be cool to get your opionon on it.
PostPosted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 3:59 pm


Well first of all lol, I dont condone love spells, because i think they force people to do something to do something they might not normally do so I dont do them at all... but i think your right up there

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 2:15 pm


Some love spells are ok. Things that mess with free will I don't like at all.
I say if the person agrees to it then go for it. They need to have a say in what happens to them.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 3:44 pm


I believe that love is supposed to be something genuine and not something forced upon someone.

Love spells are hard to define, really, since it's been so diluted by all the fantasy stories and such. Love spells, as I understand it, is something that makes another fall in love with the spellcaster, whether the love between them is existent or not. As I see it, it is rather...unfair for the one who the spell is cast upon. As I understand it, that person has no choice whatsoever and do not get to have in the whole matter. That's manipulating a person's life and I don't think it should be done.

If the love spell is just an intensifier, then perhaps it is okay. But if the feeling is felt both ways, why would they need a love spell in the first place?

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 7:07 am


The only working of a love spell I can agree with is one to strengthen the love that already exists in a relationship. The only problem with that is the people who would cast the spell after the other partner has already stated an intent on leaving the relationship. So, personally, I just don't bother with love spells at all.
PostPosted: Sat Jan 27, 2007 10:25 am


I've never cast a love spell, but I hear they can be very difficult. They don't always work on the person you want them too.

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 5:58 pm


Hello!Goodbye!


I bought like 10 books and none of them worked. But they all seemed more like cooking recipes than love spells to me =[


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 6:39 pm


The only love spell I even attempt if from a book of Romany spells that was put together by Gillian Kemp. Honestly, it's the only one that I trust because it brought my first love into my life. It did not interfere with free will of any sort. It really just brings lines of fate closer together that are meant to be.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 10:54 pm


well, there are different kinds of love spells. Some are the kind where you fixate on person, and cast a spell for them to fall in love with you. Those are wrong, as they mess with free will. And besides, could you stand it, knowing that someone only loves you because of a spell? I couldn't. And then there are spells to help you be more open, or find your "true love"...those are okay...it's mostly the ones targeting a specific person that are bad.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 12:53 pm


In my opinion, love spells are for pathetic losers who can't take care of themselves (no offense, I'm just stating my opinion). They need to grow up, get some confidence and some experience. Actually, in my opinion, using magick as a solution for anything is for weaklings. I'm not saying it's wrong, just that I pity those that rely on it.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 10:51 pm


Duncan_the_Soulknight
In my opinion, love spells are for pathetic losers who can't take care of themselves (no offense, I'm just stating my opinion). They need to grow up, get some confidence and some experience. Actually, in my opinion, using magick as a solution for anything is for weaklings. I'm not saying it's wrong, just that I pity those that rely on it.



nice call, harsh, but nice... .also random but whatever lol..... dont i know you from somewhere lol
PostPosted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 3:25 am


I believe you do recognize me from somewhere. Namely the Ghost Stories thread.
And yes, I do agree that it might have been a bit harsh, but I'm not going to mince words. I believe in saying what my heart feels and my mind thinks, and I expect others to treat me the same way.

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Fuego09

PostPosted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 6:35 pm


The only love spell I wanted to do was the "come to me love spell" and it's not necessarily making a certain person come to you, it's really just trying to bring in the person that is right for you.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 4:26 am


No offense, but that is not any better in my opinion, since it shows that you lack the confidence and patience that is needed for love. Just just want love - any love - and you won't get anything more than infatuation from it, at best.

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Fuego09

PostPosted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 7:45 am


Duncan_the_Soulknight
No offense, but that is not any better in my opinion, since it shows that you lack the confidence and patience that is needed for love. Just just want love - any love - and you won't get anything more than infatuation from it, at best.


None taken. I didn't try it anyway lol, but i wanted to.
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