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 Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 10:26 am
i'm having a problem with someone else.
they have been ignoirng me and avoiding me for a long time at my martial art school. well, now i just got to the level in my training when i have to train with this person.
well i was training with them and they didn't even treat me like i was worth training with. and we were working with a group of three. she was laughing it up with the other guy and practically ignoring me when i was having trouble (since i'm still new to the class)
what should i do?
should i talk to them?
talk to my martial art teacher?
if i tlak to them shoudl i be assertive or really nice so i don't offend them?
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Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 6:19 pm
Well.....I'd start by talking to them, but that's always the hardest. If they give you a hard time when you ask, then you should bring it to your teacher. And yeah, be nice to them..I would guess...but assertive sometimes works..whatever gets their attention
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Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 7:00 pm
i think if your going to approach them first, be assertive but not rude, be polite and kind but make your point. and if they give you a hard time, or completely ignore you or it doesn't change. go to your Instructor
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Posted: Sat Jan 27, 2007 7:00 pm
My advice: Wait for a few days. Otherwisr talk to em' That easy.
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