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 Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 10:39 am
So are you submisive or Dominating?
Myself I'm the dom in our relationship. Giving Kim a good spanking when she is naughty and tie her down occationally. I must admit that I never saw myself as a dom until I met her. She brings out something in me.
So what about everyone else?
jaa ne
Kat
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Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 11:43 am
I don't know, I suppose it depends on the times or what mood I'm in (I never had any relationships so I can't really know though XD).
I suppose I'd be slightly on the dom side, but I'd like to be tied down at least once to try (only with Ressey though >.>) redface redface redface redface
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Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 11:57 am
after years of not knowing what the heck
I have found I am a switch!
Which is I can be a dom or sub but not both at the same time.
Lately I have been in the Dominating mood for a few months. It's not a daily thing for me it is a monthly thing for me..heh
Lets see, if I recall correctly there are Doms, Subs, switches, slaves and masters! Slave and Master is a more permanent thing than a dom or sub...and there are subtle differences that are easily missed.
anyways sorry I tend to babble on the topic...many people get dom/sub mixed with slave/master thing and they are totally different
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Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 12:01 pm
Selana_Wolf after years of not knowing what the heck I have found I am a switch! Which is I can be a dom or sub but not both at the same time. Lately I have been in the Dominating mood for a few months. It's not a daily thing for me it is a monthly thing for me..heh Lets see, if I recall correctly there are Doms, Subs, switches, slaves and masters! Slave and Master is a more permanent thing than a dom or sub...and there are subtle differences that are easily missed. anyways sorry I tend to babble on the topic...many people get dom/sub mixed with slave/master thing and they are totally different That is alright. Babble away. It is always nice to get more clearification on things. I personally know about Slave and Master, but am not really into that kind of thing. Sure my sweetie has a collar and I want to take her around on a leash at Pride and Conventions, but that is more for play then anything really serious. Well, thanks for the extra imput. jaa ne Kat
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Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 5:57 pm
Oh yee gods I am a collar freak! Just for my my own sanity at the hospital I would wear a choker so that I wouldn't keep touching my neck at work. Thankfully it was allowed. Then I applied for night school to go where I am now basically.
Not many like the collar thing, *pouts* so it's hard to get anyone to WANT to drag me around on a leash. (You can't take me out, everything is shiny and must be looked at. so yes I would literally have to be drug around)
Most recent is going to pet stores and buying the spiked collars because they are suprisingly cheaper at pet stores than any goth store (F you hot topic) and i sew little things into the leashes. heh. told you I was weird.
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Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 6:14 pm
Selana_Wolf Oh yee gods I am a collar freak! Just for my my own sanity at the hospital I would wear a choker so that I wouldn't keep touching my neck at work. Thankfully it was allowed. Then I applied for night school to go where I am now basically. Not many like the collar thing, *pouts* so it's hard to get anyone to WANT to drag me around on a leash. (You can't take me out, everything is shiny and must be looked at. so yes I would literally have to be drug around) Most recent is going to pet stores and buying the spiked collars because they are suprisingly cheaper at pet stores than any goth store (F you hot topic) and i sew little things into the leashes. heh. told you I was weird. I would not call it wierd. I live in Toronto, fourth largest gay community the last I checked, and I've seem some really strange things out here so trust me. Needing a leash is something normal out here as far as I can tell. We found leashes and collars everywhere. Kim and I thought we were weird until we saw some of the strange things at the sex shops. I mean we went bug eyed at some of the things and red as beats. I'll never forget being told by the owner of a leather shop that we could go into the back. Everything was about torture or something S/M. It was scary stuff. We have not gone back there since. Needless to say very little surprises me anymore. jaa ne Kat
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 2:28 am
I am fairly submissive, I just adore being dominated and tied down and things along those lines twisted
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 4:08 pm
i always knew that i was a little more submissive than most girls but it never was a problem until i met my current girlfriend. she just, i don't know, causes something in me to just give in. i could never ever be a dom no matter what...its just not in me. she asked me once and i told her the truth and she said ' good, thats just what i wanted to hear'
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 6:30 pm
I sometimes switch weather I'm in the mood or not...
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 12:12 am
Ressey101 I sometimes switch weather I'm in the mood or not... Going to be fun when we'll live together >.> redface
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 6:29 pm
Well sometimes i'd be a sub and it turns me on if kevin has the upper hand but then sometimes im the dom lol it depends haha
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 9:52 am
I am almost entirely submissive. Occasionally, I feel Dominant, but that's not very often. At all.
Which reminds me. xD
I own a BDSM guild, if anyone's interested in joining. ;P
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Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 11:45 am
I'm more of a Switch then anything else.
But I do tend to quite dominating most of the time, especially in the relationship I'm in currently, my girlfriend is quite submissive. xD;
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 3:26 pm
Despite my outgoing appearance I'm rather submissive.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 4:53 pm
I've been submissive as long as I can remember but with my girlfriend now I end up dominating. I think it's because she is more of a sub than I could ever be.
Oh and to the convo above: Going into pet shops to buy collars isn't weird. I've wanted to buy a cat collar forever from one. (I want the bell. redface ) Hot topic is way too overpriced anyway.
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